I have been very recognized by this article, but I didn't realize this depth. Such as
"Treating happiness seriously, can be beneficial to yourself, can also benefit others,"
"No one can be unhappy, this does not need courage and effort. The real achievement is to work hard to get happiness."
"We tend to think that unhappy will lead to people complaining, but more correct, complaints, causing people to be unhappy.
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"To realize happiness is a by-product of other things, the most obvious source is those pursuits that give us life - anything, from the study of insects to play baseball. We have more passion, we have possible experience Joy, the more happiness. "
There is also a feeling of touching the last paragraph. I think it can be printed and often see
Happy concise truth
After I did a happy-oriented report, a lady slammed: "My husband can come to listen to this report." She explained: "Although I love him very much, but the same Unhappy people doing husband and wife are really easy. "This lady expressed in the language. I have been exploring a truth - thinking about happiness seriously, can be beneficial to yourself, can also benefit others. I told her that every person should be as happy as possible for our spouse, our children, our friends.
I am not a particularly happy child, like most teenagers, I am in trouble. However, one day, I suddenly realized that I was in trouble. Anyone can be unhappy, this does not require courage and effort. The real achievement is to work hard to get happiness. For many people, we must work hard to strive for this concept like a new thing, because we think that happiness is a feeling, it is the result of us to meet, it is difficult for it. However, the facts are just right: to a large extent we can control happiness. This is a fight that needs to fight, not a feeling of sitting. To get a happy life, you need to overcome some obstacles, the three are:
Compared with others, most of us think compared to anyone we are more happy than us - relatives, acquaintances, or people who are not understanding. Once, I met a young man, he gave me the impression of a special success and happiness. He said that he loves his beautiful wife and their 3 daughters, and says that the host of broadcasting the show show in the city of the city makes him feel happy. I remember that I thought that he was a lot of luck to all. Then we start talking about the Internet. He told me that he was grateful to the Internet, because he can find information on multiple sclerosis - this terrible disease is tortured his wife. I felt that I was like a fool, I thought that there was no unhappy thing in his life.
Imagine the perfectness in the midst of our people think that life should be like. The problem is naturally people's work, spouses and children are hard to achieve ideal standards. I have an example of my own: I have never been married in our home. I thought the marriage should continue to live for life. So, when the wife is 5 years after marriage, my world has collapsed when we divorce at the age of 3. In my eyes, I am a loser. I repeatedly got to my wife again, I can't get rid of "My family life is a failure". She asked me, what happened to our current home (including her daughter with forever and my son)? I have to admit that our family life is very enjoyable in addition to the pain that can only be with his son with his son (I am working with your ex-wife). "Then why don't you have to celebrate this life?" She asked. That is what I decided to do. However, I have to get rid of this fantasy of "10th Beauty".
A effective way to destroy happiness is: only the bad defects of something, even notice the minor defect. It's like watching the top of the Wafa, focusing on the place where the wedding watting is concentrated. As a bald, I told me: "Whenever I entered a room, I have seen the hair." When you determine what you lost, I'm exploring this tile. Do you really make you happy, then do one of the following three things: retrieve the tiles; replace it with a different tile; or forget it, focus on the unlilled tiles in your life . We all know some people, but they live unhappy with relatively comfortable life. We also know some people, they have experienced huge pain, but they are still happy. The first big mystery is a grateful mood. All happy people are grateful. People who don't have gratitude cannot be happy. We tend to think that unhappiness will lead to people complaining, but more correct, complaints cause people unhappy.
The second big mystery is that it is necessary to realize that happiness is a by-product of other things. The most obvious source is those pursuits given us - anything, from studying insects to play baseball. The more our passion, the more happiness we have the possibility of experience. Finally, I have to believe that there is an eternal thing surpass us, and our existence has a more significant, this belief can help us happier. We need a spiritual belief or a philosophy of life. No matter what your philosophy, it should include this self-understanding: If you are determined to discover the active face of each situation (in fact), you will be blessed; if you are determined to discover your negative, you will Will be 殃. As you are the same, this depends primarily on yourself.
