Fourth lesson to be a popular person
Only one week, Liu Bei shouted to the training by the student because of fighting in the bedroom. Just after Lu Jian, I took a closer look at Liu Bei, asked the teacher at the Student Office: "What mistakes he made?"
The teacher in the student said: "The students in their bedroom jointly have a name, saying that he likes to swear. A few days in the school, actually played three frames. You see his head of his head!"
Lu Zhi said: "I know this boy, you give him it!"
So Liu Bei followed Teacher Lu to his office. Teacher Lu called Liu Bei to sit down, giving Liu Bei poured a cup of tea, making Liu Bei's heart as hot as this cup of tea.
"Tell me, what is going on?" Teacher Lu asked.
Liu Bei said: "They all look down on me, deliberately can't go with me."
"Why can't they go with you?" Teacher Lu asked again.
Liu Bei grabbed his head, replied: "They said that I am a village. In fact, seven people in our bedroom, seven people are coming from the countryside, why do you look down on me?"
Lu Ji knows what is going on, he is very sincerely looked at Liu Bei's eyes, saying: "If you don't mind, I want to tell you a story." After the consent of Liu Bei, Lu Teacher Lu is Listening to tell a story about the dog.
There is a dog called "lonely", inadvertently broke into a model of a model school. The four walls of the room are inlaid in glass mirror, and countless shadows of dogs.
Seeing that so many dogs suddenly appeared, this lonely snack was shocked. It instinctively retired, and his mouth was grinned, showing a low snoring.
All the dogs in the mirror have retired, and one is grinned, and the dance room also sounds the echo of the dog.
This lonely drum started to panic, it stuffed, struggled ... it was messy in the room, more crazy, more and more confusing ... until it was in the past because of physical strength and despair.
Liu Bei asked: "Do you say that I am a lonely dog?"
"What are you talking?" Lu Jian asked.
Liu Bei said: "My character is some lonely. However, what is the relationship between the classmates of the bedroom and the dog in the mirror?"
Teacher Lu Ji said: "Don't you understand? The classmates in your eyes are dogs in the mirror. Remember, if we are friendly for others, others will be friendly for us; if we are not rude to others, others will also We have tooth with teeth. You said that the students can't go with you, then how do you treat students? "
Liu Bei did not say anything.
"You want to be a popular person, can you be a popular person? Can you." Lu Jun smiled and said, "I have a secret, as long as you believe, accurately Within three months, let you become a popular person. "
Going back to the bedroom, Liu Bei immediately copied this "popular secret recipe", and praised the title page of the notebook from the brothers:
First, practice the mirror smile every day;
Second, encounter a classmate, be friendly to hear;
Third, take a good heart to help others;
Fourth, people are not sages, can I not? Take each person around you with the same mind;
Fifth, I firmly believe that others are kind to be kind to their public relations philosophy.
Since then, Liu Bei listens to the words of Lu Jian, practicing these secrets. Not long after, he became the most people like the students, the most humble and humble people. In the "Three Kingdoms", Chen Shou evaluated: "The Lord (Liu Bei) is a generous, knowing people's hospitality, covering the wind of Gao Zu (Liu Bang), the hero." It means that Liu Bei can grow into The hero of the business community, the most important thing is that he is sincere, generous, affinity. Because of this character charm of Liu Bei, he became a good friend who liked many teachers liked. Even in those days when he later entrepreneur, no matter how hard work, how to discharge, there is still some talents to follow him, and he is hard with him with him. The most famous, is the Guan Yu and Zhang Fei, which is the same as Liu Guiyi, "Don't ask for the same day, but the same day, the same month, the same day,".
