Office communication principle 15 Niecc Posted on 2004-6-22 8:23:19 Characters and Views ← Back to Layout [Quick Back]
First, talking, especially frank, talking about your inner feelings, feelings, pain, ideas and expectations, but definitely not criticism, blame, complaint, attack. Second, do not criticize, not blame, do not complain, do not attack, do not talk about teaching criticism, blame, complaint, attacking these are all communication, only make things deteriorate. Third, the respect of each other is only to give each other respect, if the other party does not respect you, you should also request the respect for each other, otherwise it is difficult to communicate. Fourth, never give up, evil words, hurt, is the so-called "disaster coming out". 5. If you don't say something, if you say something that should not be said, it is often spent a great price to make up for it. "Even may result in indifferent and unfortunately! Therefore, communication is not capable of embarrassed, there is no obscure, but it will not speak at all, and sometimes it will become more bad. 6. Don't communicate in emotions, especially if you can't make a decision, there is often no good words, you can't tell, especially in emotions, it is easy to violent, such as: noisy couple The parent of the enemy, and the dead boss is under the boss. . . Especially if you can't make emotional and impulsive "decisions", this is easy to make things unreliable, and people regret! Seven, rational communication, inextricity do not communicate inextricity only the dispute, no results, more impossible, so, this communication is no. Eight, I don't just communicate, I need to know, everything needs. If you say something wrong, do something wrong, if you don't want to cause unpaid damage, what is the best way ?! "I am wrong", this is a kind. Nine, admitted that I was wrong, I was wrong, it was a disinfectant, thawed, improved and transformed communication, just a sentence: I am wrong! How many people have a new hatred, and resolve how many years can't open the dead, let people suddenly open, let go of weapons, and re-think about life, and even who I am ?? In this vast universe In the torrent, people care is "I", if someone does not respect me, suppress me, bully me or insult me, even if it is a father and son, it may be regenerated, and tears, I will leave home, what is it? If you die, you will see you, you are not uncommon! Ten, say sorry! Say sorry, does not mean that I really did what a big mistake or injury, but a softener, so that the remaining place of "turning", or even creates "paradise" . In fact, sometimes you are really a big mistake, and you don't recognize the wrong thing. 11. Let the miracle happen to be willing to recognize each other, it is impossible to create paradise and miracles for yourself with their families. Twelve, love everything is love, love is the greatest therapist. Thirteen, wait for the transfer If there is no transfer, it is necessary to wait, urgent only punctive silk, of course, don't have time to wait for the results, you will fall from the world, or you have to work hard, but try to have a result, Or the top one, but if you don't work hard, you will not work. XIV, patient waiting for the only thing is patience, and the people have actually become. Fifteen, smart intelligence makes people don't persist, and bless to the soul.
