With the sound of husband and son, they have completed this article, and there is no job in this week that I have helpless.
My thirty-five years old is at home last fall, because the boss made me go home a month ago. In November, I was not willing to find a job again, but I started looking for a job today. Two lost work is the same experience, give the company to the website, some people do a web, but no one has a content, I will be responsible for the design and writing of the overall architecture of the website, and Xin Xi has made the content. Live is clean, but the company is not booming, I don't want to raise too many people, of course, 35 years old woman is going first.
Nowadays, I am really awkward. I don't know how my 2004 will spend. I don't know where my road is? Some people say that the IT industry is difficult, the 35-year-old IT is difficult, and the 35-year-old IT woman is more difficult. Maybe it is really not wrong.
I graduated from my name-up University Computer Software Professional. When I was assigned in 1991, I was developed by a branch of Soft 's subsidiary. At the age of 25, I was responsible for the development of a bank credit analysis system, and I have developed one after 18 months. Hundreds of analysis reports, but the benefits of the branch have not yet, the loans are still not over, and the personnel have lost a lot, so my North Life begins.
Think about the days before the age of 30 is nervous and busy, although almost changed for work salary, but also felt that they are increasingly marginalized in the team. At the age of 30, although it is still closed development of banking systems in Xinjiang, it is no longer possible to do the development of mainstream business, but do some queries and auxiliary procedures. Prior to this, I have also done a few small customer management information systems, and have formed several test sectors, section design departments and consulting centers, and even organized several companies' websites.
Frankly, every location in the computer industry makes me fascinated, as long as you practice it, you can experience the fun and mystery of it in two years, although these positions are often overlooked by many "smart" Chinese Even contempt.
Now I want to come, the key turning is still after I have children three years ago. In fact, a child with a healthy loving couple is also a human condition, but the workplace will not give you more tolerance. Some people say that the IT industry is difficult, the 35-year-old IT is difficult, and the 35-year-old IT woman is more difficult. Write here should add a sentence: the 35-year-old IT mother of the 21st century is the most difficult. Because the continuous improvement of society has completely changed our employment concept, in our current social society has been determined: not you can do less, but don't do much to leave, but you will not be able to find it again. It has the same place in place. The job that is quickly found will be lost soon, IT is really letting the woman walk away.
After thirty years old, after leaving the child, after leaving the management position, the full-time lady made a year in the family, and the days were hard and enriching. When the child is almost one year old, began to find a job on 51job. The first job is a project manager for a software project. From talking about customer needs, business analysis to specific programming, overall testing, no problem, the second job is Pre-sale plan, from the real estate industry to electric marketing, from e-government to manufacturing solutions, in fact, there are people who are born at the end of the 1960s, there is a lot of things, no matter how much work is, complete one The feeling of the task is satisfied. But just two months old at the age of 35, the boss let me leave. There is only the experience as described earlier.
Before leaving, I am doing the company's website planning work that everyone is most unwilling. Before doing such a job, the leaders will assign a supervisor than my small ten-year-old male colleague, responsible for outsourcing companies. Business negotiation work, and subsequent website take over. Such a supervisor is very "busy", "is not responsible for the specific details", but the context of the context, do not talk to some other departments, otherwise the leaders will have opinions. For those male colleagues with our small ten-year-old male colleagues, our 35-year-old female colleagues are very advantageous in many ways. It is strictly forbidden to do things. Basically, especially write technical documents, testing is particularly solid, not too big. Ambition, good management. However, two lost work, they were squeezed off than their ten-year-old boys, thinking that when we did ten years ago, they worked hard to work in the development of IT in IT. When they were 30 years old. Also closed in Xinjiang. Although it is still necessary for the work of your child's relationship, it is still very advantageous. However, there are current IT industries. Many of the time, female technicians who have developed experiences have not developed experience in two or three years.
When you are 30 years old, you often work with people around 5 years old. For the sense of responsibility, the most difficult job is the first-person 20. The days have been very hard, but it is very accomplishment. But it is 30 years old, and there are more and more people who are ten years old more than yourself, and it is the leader who has a great emotion of "one will be famous."
On the day of December 30, 2003, it was asked to leave the company with a little girl who had a 25-year-old Jilin. She said that I am: bird is bows, and the rabbit is died. I started to go to 51job to find new jobs together in 2004. I left the same afternoon, I said to her: You have no one here, and there is no boyfriend, will you cry at night? She said, go to a shoulder to cry. I sent her home, then went to the children's garden, and I have a three-sided roared in the evening and my husband at night, and I don't think about this thing before the New Year.
The 35-year-old IT mother of the 21st century must learn to show the most brilliant smile in front of his child and the old people in both sides, because their health and happiness are our greatest wealth. Learn to use more failed paralysis once sensitive fragile nerves, so if everything is gone, there is another half of your own, learn to enjoy the success of the other half, learn to be a strong woman behind a success man. Waiting for the spring season.
