Stone asked: I should find someone I love to be my girlfriend or wife? Or should I find someone who loves me to be my girlfriend or wife?
Buddha laughs: The answer to this question is actually in your own heart. This year, you can let you love to die, let you feel the life is full, let you take a chest and keep going forward, is your love? Or is it to love you?
Stone also laughed: But friends advised me to find a girl who loves my girlfriend or wife?
Buddha said: If so, your life will be destined to be inactive! You are habits to constantly improve your own during chasing love. You no longer chase a person you love, your self-improvement is stagnant.
The stone grabbed the Buddha: Then if I chased the people I loved? Will it be ...
Buddha said: because she is your favorite person, let her live happiness and happiness, you will be regarded as the greatest happiness in a lifetime, so you will continue to work hard for her life to live more happiness and happiness. Happiness and happiness are there is no limit, so your efforts will there be no limit and will never stop.
Stone said: Then I am living very hard?
The Buddha said: I have been so many years, do you think you have worked hard?
The stone shook his head and smiled. Stone Q: Since this is, is it good to treat people who love me?
The Buddha shook his head and said: Do you need your love to be kind to you?
The stone smiled: I think I don't need it.
Buddha said: Talk about your reason.
Stone said: I have a demanding in the country, that is: I don't need this colorful sympathy, mixing with pity, I ask her to love my, sympathy, compassion, tolerance and tolerance, although it is also one I love, although it will bring people a sense of happiness, but it is my deep and bad. If she is complicated with my love, then I would rather she wants to ignore me, or directly refused me. Love, when I have come and quit, because the feelings can only get more and more deep, desperate is far more than hopes, because desperate pain is a flash, and the hope of hopes is indefinite.
Buddha smirk: Very good, you have already said answers!
Stone Q: Why did I love a girl before, she is the most beautiful in my eyes? And now I love a girl, but I often find a girl who is better than her beautiful girl?
Buddha Q: Do you dare to love her so much, do you love her most in this world?
Stone does not hesitate to say: Of course!
Buddha said: Congratulations. Your love is mature, reasonable, sincerity and deep.
Stone has this surprise: Oh?
Buddha continued to say: She is not the most beautiful in this world, even when you love her so much, you know this fact clearly. But you still love her so, because your love is not just her youthful, you have to know that Yuhua is easy, the red is easy to be old, but your love has surpassed the surface of this surface, it will surpass the years. . What you love is her entire person, mainly her unique inner heart.
Stone can't help but say: Yes, I really love her kindness and hurt her child.
Buddha laughs: Any test for time is not what is wrong to your love.
Stone asked: Why is it later together, two people don't have the passion before, more of among each other?
Buddha said: That is because your heart has been changing love in the subtlety in the subtlety ...
Stone touched your head: family? Buddha continued: When love has changed to a certain degree, it will change to family, you will gradually think of her as part of your life, so you will have some tolerance and understanding. Only family is to arrange it from the beginning of birth, it is also nothing to choose, so after doing it, you can only adapt to your family, no matter how much you are born, you have to accept any conditions. They are responsible for them, good to them.
Stone is silent: the original love is also a fate. Stone thought about it, nodded: The family is indeed like this.
Buddha laughs: Love is because of mutual appreciation, because of the ambiguous love, because they are not inseparable from each other, but more importantly, it is necessary to take care of tolerance, understanding, habits and adaptation will work together.
Stone Q: When the university, I once met a girl. At that time, I loved her, but she didn't love me at that time; but now she fell in love with me, and now I don't seem to have the previous kind. I feel, or I seem to have no love, why do you have this situation?
Buddha Q: Can you make yourself not think of her since now?
Stone meditation for a while: I think I can't, because I have always intended to think about her, or I talk about her news when I gather, I have a unusual concern; I have received her letter or My heart is inexplicably excited and nervous when I call; for so many years, I have never forgotten her, or I am looking for my future girlfriend; but I am now I don't like her again.
Buddha's long sigh: Now you have the previous one, although there is no change in the appearance, but your heart has gone through a long journey, or said that you put a reality and reason for your love. Hurt. You don't like her, but I have been from your heart, my heart is needed to solve it. I want to know that the past five hundred times will change the shoulders of this life. People always have to pay, as for How to pay or want you to decide, no one can help you.
The stone did not speak again, just looked quietly to the distance. It turned out that the Buddha was not a million ... Stone asked: In such a era, in such a society, like me like this, I love one. People, is it worth it?
The Buddha is also silent, and finally he opened his mouth: The stone is expected to be angry. The stone knows that he understands. He looked at the Buddha with a firm look and did not speak again.
The story is over, there are some questions in this world. The answer is destined to be someone else. So let us find your answer in your own story! Many times, I think so quietly, I'm still a kind of happiness, a period of time ... Buddha said: 500 times back to the past is changed to the shoulders of this life, I will use 10,000 times to return to exchange with you. One encounter with my heart with your life
