What is the biggest problem in the Chinese education system? It is not the difficulty of employment, and the employment is difficult is surface phenomenon. It is essentially the overall ideological universal and universality. The students who have graduated students in the same school are not big. This is actually a sorrow of a degree. I have a friend. In a domestic famous newspaper, because of the large number of internal employees, she will receive some social letter to the letter, the employees who praised the company or branch, helping others, if they don't look at the handwriting, these letters Just like a person written, it is usually the same:
Thanks to the party's correct policy and leadership, educate our new generation of live Lei Feng, your employees, the comrades of the Employee, the night, and the night and the night. I can't save me. I am deeply grateful to this. Thank you for your organization. Such a good youth. . . . . .
When the media interviewed these live Lei Feng characters, I usually like to ask: What did you think of? The answer of the hero's character is generally hesitating and said: I first thought that the party and organization have cultivated me for many years. I will never look at this, and I still have. . . . . .
When I just heard this question, I smiled. But suddenly, if I was interviewed, I would like to say that most people will say this, because you can't think of something else. This is actually a whole, unconscious.
In the face of today's social colorful and complex development, most of the ability to make the next generation and judgment. why? Because the teacher's treatment is relatively state-owned enterprise, it is very far from foreign companies, and many excellent people will not choose this industry. Of course, there are also schools like new oriental teachers to be treated well, so a lot of elites have gathered. But this is a few, the average quality of the Chinese teacher team is still not optimistic.
Therefore, there are too many people in this society, and too many people are under long-term education, because they only die hard, the brain will not think about it. For example, how do you take a school to test the war war? In the vast majority of the case, the preparation of the army war broke out in _______ year, the Qing government's defeat was forced to sign "____________" inequally equivalent treaty, compensate gold _______,000. Do you need you to think about this question? No need, as long as you have to score, but I ask you, you will definitely go back when you have previously second, but can you still carry out? Even if you can come out, what is the meaning? Do you know how to test this question? The topic is this: Japanese War (the first-day war war in Japan), the Japanese War is a victory, the day of the war (that is, the eight-year war of resistance we said) If it is not because of the two atomic bombs in the United States, our Japan will definitely Get victory. Throughout the history, Japan has a war every 100 years, then, if the war will happen about the war next day? Will it happen because of what happens, if we overcome, where is we win, if we defeated, it is a defeated, please analyze. I believe that when you see this, you will understand why the Anti-Japanese war will have less than that of the Japanese, but the county may be able to control the puppet army and situation on one or two Japanese army. Don't believe in the Japanese image of the domestic movie, the Japanese army is not a piggy head of the stupid brain. I think this is a kind of deception and fooling for the audience, this is a manifestation of Aq. This is a typical issue of Chinese-style education and thinking.
Because it will not think, Chinese students go to college's choices are the choice of parents or teachers. This choice is correct at the time, because it is a choice of mass flow, Chinese people's common disease, and style. Accounting, you will learn to learn, English is learning English, e-commerce eats fragrance, learning e-commerce, school does not have this major to add this major. Communication to eat incense, have the test of the School of Posts and Telecom, result in a few years of the admission score of Northern Post to Northern Northern University. This choice for students is not for life planning and choice for a person's characteristics and advantages and disadvantages. This is a choice to pursue again and bad, and it is a choice that can keep the rice bowl, not to go. Pursue the choice of life. The most splendid life will only make a decision, but many people don't have such an ability. People with this potential may be surfaced, the parents or teachers of feudal thinking in the actual bones deprive this right. Why don't you choose? Because you will not think. Why don't you think? Because academic education doesn't need to think. So once you face the choice, you often make you think it is correct, most people think it is correct, but actually is wrong choice. Why do most people think it is correct but actually misunderstood? Because most people are in the underlying under society, we know that society is layered like a pyramid, the number of elites is less, but the top of the pyramid, the ordinary people are more in the bottom of the pyramid, and the truth is often in hand in a few people. So some people in the bottom of ordinary society, that is, most people think it is, is the concept of common sense, and it is often wrong in the high-level people.
Therefore, there are many students like a soldier bee to come to the new Oriental, row the team to listen to Yu Minhong, Xu Xiaoping's lecture, want to find a lifetime answer, but if you don't learn to think and sum up, you still can't find the direction. In addition to the worship of Yu Minhong, Xu Xiaoping and others, your listening to the lecture may have forgotten it in a few days. Occasionally, the memory may only remember some jokes in some lectures.
What is a summary? I have a friend to call me on December 24 last year. Today is the day of the people of the country a year, ask me to summarize it? She said that I am thinking, what did you do this year? But how can I notify it. I said that I have been summarizing every day. I use my junk time to summarize a variety of things, so I didn't have a summary of the upcoming Christmas on this day.
In fact, I have summed up those who succeed, and many are working for a while. After learning, I will work again, because I only work 2-3 years later you will know what you want to learn, what major do you like, Students who graduated undergraduate college graduates I suggest that it is best to work. After 2-3 years, I will consider whether I need to study. I think the undergraduate graduation is not good to find a job or the wages I want to study directly. I think it is not advisable. Even if you think of a lot of scientific research, it is best to have a certain work experience and go to the academic research, not a Zhao Cuochemical of the troops on a paper. There are a lot of MBA colleges in the past few years, but the professors of the lecture have rarely have to do business, even if they have lost their failures. So I suspect that it is just to study the theory of others, and how can I have a practical enterprise operation experience to teach MBA that really can do with long-sleeved good dances in the market economy. Only the practice and theory will also get the right thing. Therefore, Taiwan Yu Shiwei's "Successful Manager Lecture" will be welcomed by the Chinese.
Our society does not lack critics, Lu Xun, Baiyang, Li Wei, and even we are criticized. There is a good post in the forum. A little useful discussion. Such a person criticizes that it is not possible, because this practice does not have any value and meaning, and the 娘 阿 q 小 D Wang Hu is also. Such a post is just a waste of others. However, the development of our society is not enough to criticize, and the spirit still exists. On the street, I have a bunch of people on a bunch of people. Why is the same as Lu Xun's situation, there is no change. Because Lu Xun only stated that there was a surface phenomenon, it did not analyze the root cause of the problem. It did not provide a problem with solutions, and Yu Shiwei's "Successful Manager Lecture" although it was facing the manager's lecture, but he talked most of China. The universal disadvantage is especially valuable. He compares a solution to the United States, Germany, the United Kingdom, France, Japan and other world economy powers, and proposes a specific solution for the disadvantages of the Chinese. So will be welcomed by so many Chinese.
Conceptual transformation is very important, and the concept of changing Chen has is especially important. In the past, do your best to learn, get the highest diploma, then find a job for a lifetime, and then retired ideas have not met the requirements of this era. Now social development, it should be a period of time, then go to work, look for your own positioning, then learn, then work, or learn from work, constantly improve yourself. Because only this, only through the work, you will get rid of the idea to be cultivated in the ivory tower, will learn a proactive thinking, you will know how to give yourself, will form your own choice. This will not be taken in a successful road. It will not bury your true talents.
Therefore, I recommend that primary school students should learn to work, life can be self-care, and junior high school students should have experience in rural seeds. High school students should have a holiday experience. In the holidays of college students, they should have been doing at least several times, and experience the feeling of different workers, and experience the encounter of the social underlying people. Don't despise low work, low micro work often produce great souls. The incompetent person treats the low microphone as a child, never treating seriously. But when you read the movie, the hero is a great job. What you need is this hero's mindset. The university holiday is best to take advantage of the money in domestic self-help travel, remember is self-service travel rather than a group tour, self-service travel will make a person mature, and the futures tour will only be guided to scam your hard-earned money, if not It's definitely you, but the tour guide will definitely give you white eyes. To remember that college life is not everything in order to learn, nothing else, it is unbrovagant thinking, it is a unbalanced person, it is a shortcoming youth.
I think it is still a good standard, and you can look at what is now with now? It seems that all is not close, why is this? Just like why I have been shouting to "reduce the burden" for primary and secondary schools, because society is recognized by the school, the school's recognition of the teacher is based on the establishment of an upgrade rate, so primary and secondary school students can't really be true. Reduce the burden, even if your school is reduced, the parents have not been able to find a variety of tutoring classes. However, in fact, the university is not equal to talent, and it is also a talent and inefficient talent. Students cultivated in such values often have a defective, so there will be a student jumping around the school every school in colleges. If this value is not resolved, children in primary and secondary schools will never really reduce the burden, and most of our students will not "morally intelligent". Our talents lack competitiveness in foreign talents, lack of survival adaptability. Lack of deep understanding of life meaning. Such life is lacking happiness. So in our society, ordinary people have more pessimistic thoughts, there are fewer people with hard work, because the problem lacks comprehensive, so it is always more superficial, one thing, I like to think about it, then Choose the most secure and most insurance. It is this kind of practice that has led to the collapse of China's feudal society, but this feudal thinking does not disappear with the disappearance of the feudal society. China is different from other countries, there is no capitalism after the feudal society, so although it is socialism, many feudal ideas are still maintaining a lot of ideological areas and academic systems, but you don't think about this problem, no I am not aware. For example, the tradition of feudal society, is there any useful meaning? What kind of long-term social effect will be generated? I think most people have no deep thinking. It is a good thing to be a good thing, but it is actually not the case. As the economy is rich, the more year-old money is more. Every year, the year-old money has increased the thoughts of little children, so that they did not get the correct labor value concept. Whoever gave the lucky money last year, it was necessary to go this year, which may not be willing this year, even if they are parents I went to my heart, I won't be willing to develop a kind of thing is the picture, the heart of the speculation. Don't say that the eyes are long after growing. From these small things, I learned to learn the eye, and I don't know this is a bad mentality. Then after school, the students compared to each other, see who received more money, develop a vanity and power. Because it is unable to get, spend the money, it is not distressed, there is no planning, developing a habit of chaos money, causing waste. Some parents claim to give the child to keep in keeping, and later these money children will never see it, let the children secretly form the untrust of parents. It will come to adolescence, parents lack management teaching power. The child's rebelliousness is strong, knowing that parents are also right, and they are alive. For adults, this should have more care and education for the next generation of society, whether they are not their own children. But by giving the lucky money, it saves it, so as long as Luo Wei, the lazy lazy, leading to the child after growing up.
Because most of us have been covered by this negative inert thinking, the successful talents around us will be so small, and the people who are inert thinking have more mistakes have been recognized as being correct by the society, so Xu Xiaoping is flying. Two and a half hours, when I ask for questions, the question of the question made Xu Xiaoping on the spot, because these issues have already been explained in the report of the report, but many people don't think about it, not to Xiaoping's specific problems Analysis will only feel the practice in his heart. In fact, this is a kind of practice that he does not really feel truly. Because those truths are not understood. He is still holding an old mistake of value system and thinking. Therefore, the part of the paper towel on the Xiaoping's table is wiped, and the other is crying, and every day is repeatedly answering the same sexual problem, and most of them are weak. Because you don't give him a clear answer, he does not dare to be correct. I don't want to make a pair on the test, I can confirm my right. In addition to the main reason for this situation, in addition to the lack of life consultation and career planning, most people around you have less knowledge and research because of this special person, they are Your guidance is also limited by its own level and not necessarily the maintenance of social consensus. Nowadays, many people may go smoothly, may have gone a lot of curves, but they are the same as the future, I don't know what to pick up, people who are going smoothly don't know how to go more smoothly, people who are not smooth Regret, I don't know where to go. So you need to find your own direction and find the correct theory to guide.
But you have to pay attention, this theory is not a bit, it is your constant search and thinking, if you still want to go to Yu Minhong or Xu Xiaoping, they tell you how to, how can you? , That is still a wrong idea, or filling the ducked degree education for your thinking inertia, their thoughts is just a road sign, the road still needs you to go, no one can replace, I will listen to the report is not a special capacity, Instead, go to learn how to correctly think. Once your thinking is on the top, it will not stop thinking. This is not the kind of college course, you can forget it. Only this life will be colorful.
So the first thing to do should not be inferior to yourself. After listening to the report, I regret that I have not exposed to the new Oriental, I think I am wasting youth, now I know that some eyebrows are late, actually in this kind of heart is in one. Feel info, you have to know, you have very good potential. Our traditional education has traditionally cultivated an old but equipped machine, but most parts are not running, many people waste their resources. In fact, they will run, once the function is not bad, but because it is now in a negative life state without running. If you can fully understand the body, you can fully adjust the use of this machine, it will make a huge power.
The potential is used to play, play the potential to achieve your goal, to establish a spirit of never-defeat, is a spirit of overcoming difficulties. A person's life is a life that overcomes difficulties and suffering. When difficult is in front of you, never fear, for you, there is no difficulty in overcoming you in this world, only you don't want to overcome difficulties. Every difficulty can be resolved into a small difficulty to overcome. Overcoming difficulties while this spirit will build your success, you might have a goal, this goal is now could not be out of time, but you can solve this big goal into a small goal to complete, each completion One will bring you a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction, and then gradually complete your big goal. Don't fear the failure on the road. Everyone who is more successful than you have experienced more sharp suffering than you, and the failure will become the glory after you succeed. No failure is not worth mentioning, you fail the experience. Will be your precious life wealth. Will be the eternal topic you and your friends taste life. Then you need to determine the purpose of your study, many people have never considered this problem, think that the purpose of learning is the first test, this is an inert performance, most people will say that learning is to take Go to the education, but will not say that learning is for happiness. Why is it to learn is for happiness? In fact, I can ask this, then what do you get to the education? Of course, in order to find a good job, what is a good job? Is to make more money. What is more for making money? It can be very vanity, you can marry a PLMM, you can marry a good LG, you can better honor your parents. Then what do you do? Of course, it is a more happiness for your life and love. You see, learning is for happiness, this is the ultimate goal.
Let's play the game of the maze? If you walk from the entrance to the exit, it will be difficult, but you can't walk from exit to the entrance, it is often easy, it is not easy to walk. So here we have pushed and see the way to get happily and necessary conditions. This essential condition is a good job, but good work is not from the high education, Bill Gates and Dell University have not graduated, saying that I have chosen to give up the school, actually being worked out by the school. . Hey, this failure is now glorious. So if you want to make a good job, you don't need to see your degree. But you will say that the employer is very close to my education? Then I tell you, if an employer is excessively watching your education, this unit itself will not have too much development, you will not have a good development in this unit. An excellent business recruitment person is more important. Don't think that undergraduate qualifications, you know that P & G Chinese companies recruit graduates, as long as undergraduate students, don't master students, because they believe that China's undergraduate students have strong plasticity, and the company will be customized after they come back. Vocational planning and training. The domestic master's degree often does not learn what truly converts into commodities. Instead, be a chicken rib. This is also one of the reasons why foreign undergraduate degrees recognized abroad did not recognize the reasons for most graduate degrees.
Carnegie's view believes that a person's success is 15% of expertise, 85% is the ability to do with the people around him and the ability to people. And we often think that 15% of expertise is 100%, and the undergraduate degree is unable to compete with master's degree, it is because of this wrong idea, so people will succeed, success. People often have a low degree, because the qualifications are not the key and necessary conditions of success, but they have played the ability of the 85% of the people who are doing things around and the ability to people. So your university phase should use 15% of the energy in professional, 85% of the energetic use of capabilities. To fully play your ability, it is based on a good job, but in order to find a good job, you first have to find your interest and hobby. In the past, there was a saying, called dry rings, love, although it is worth award, but this is not the best solution for life, if you can find work with your hobby, you will be invested, very passionate, will make Great results will get greater happiness. But this hobby and interest is not a moment of hobbies and interests. For example, when I am small, I like chess, then I will later photography, like this changing interest is not the direction, because you don't know this is very likely. It is short-term, you don't know what you are really interest, don't know your own expertise, I don't know what kind of hobbies you will have in the future. So you need to find a piece of paper to write your hobbies, let yourself and the elders help you analyze your personality specialty and potential, determine what will be your long-term hobby and interest, don't be secured by the secular bias And the impact of public opinion. This is the career direction of your life, it is very likely to develop into a career.
But so you must not be relieved, don't know if your choice is correct, what should I do? Thanks foreigners, they quantified this problem. Many problems are we think of, but it is foreigner to solve, for example, "Shenxian Chuan" said that heaven, the ground is milky, but the Chinese did not think about why, Einstein thought, calculated, proposed relativity. "Journey to Journey", Sun Kewei, one blow, changed many small offers, but the Chinese did not consider how to achieve this function, and the foreigners, invented cloning technology. And for the choice of career, most of our methods, mostly relying on Sense, but there have been a professional anchor test system for the system abroad, through testing your hobbies, potential consciousness, to examine your career tendency, then according to Various values to recommend you to your career. You can search online search keyword "Rui Wen reasoning test", "ability test", "professional anchor test", "talent test", you will find some information for you.
Why do you pay attention to your career choice? Because the purpose of learning is not for the education, but for happiness, the road to realize this happiness is a career and work, so the direction you learn is for your career. When you are better, you will plan your career. Of course, the ideas will be gradually mature and can be corrected. The road successful road is like a tree that has been ants to climb to the tree. When you encounter a tree, you can properly choose the road, not to go to the end of the branch, then find out the wrong, then fold back, ants It can be folded back, but as you, your time cost is consumed, and one of life will be 3-5 years. Therefore, there is an old saying that "male is afraid of the wrong line", it is too correct. In fact, this sentence should be called "men and women are afraid", because the ancient woman is not working, and now women also need hard work. Your own value. So university is a professional skill preparation period, not that it can be easily in the past, and you can go free to love. Of course, I don't want to be in love in my college. On the contrary, I suggest that the least love in the university, because people who talk about love must be hurt, psychologically mature, I hope you have matured as soon as possible. What you need to pay attention is that university life is not just love, you still have a lot of other things to do. The journey of life is getting faster, you will never stop, because time is forever floating. If you want to succeed, you must withstand more failure than others. If you don't have this idea, you will naturally be fascinated when you graduate, facing the job is very stressed, but if you plan it, and implement it, you will find a thing of the water to the stream, you can lightly Easy to pull the MM to count the stars in the suburbs of Beijing.
The planning of this life should be in a few principles, the first is that the goal is clear, and it is necessary to determine short-term goals and long-term goals, and firmly remember that the purpose of learning is for employment skills, for your professional skills, and Not for your academic qualifications, not in the class exam first, it is meaningless. To know that this world is not the first second, I asked you that Washington is first or Lincoln first. There is no more necessary, in the class, the first test represents your memory super group, representing you is a habit If you are filled with ducked education, there is nothing to be proud, there is nothing to make you vanity, because this is not true in the true sense. If you have the advantage in this area, there must be a lot of defects in other ways. Every semester course You have to determine those who need to be stable, like English, this is not a short-term assault. There are also some courses that may never be used in the future. If such courses need to develop a plan, take advantage of one week or two weeks before the exam, and you can take it. Don't look down on this kind of approach, if you have the advice of this, then I want to tell you, your feudal science is too serious, and every course in the school needs to learn from the class, that is The sorrow of the students. I've been working hard, I spent the power of nine cows, I learned some courses that were useless, I learned some Tuliers, and I forgot to test. It is simply a waste of life resources. It is a waste of youth. Do you have a few books in the university? NO! As mentioned earlier, in order to learn you learn about marketization - commercialization - money, it is to master the skills of the occupation.
What is a professional skill? This is a few qualities of talents, and it is the ability to do things. This ability includes several aspects:
The first one is to quickly learn and master knowledge. When you go to work, your supervisor is handed over to you, you want to program, but you haven't learned before you have learned before? How to do? You said to the boss: Old, I will buy this book, I can fully master this language after half a year, and then I start programming. . . . . . If I am old, don't buckle your waste paper, you are so strange, everyone is so nerd, the company drinks northwest wind? So the project has a hand, up to you only one week time to familiarize the language, this is the ability to quickly learn and master knowledge, this ability is not to wait until work, if so your competitiveness is too bad, This ability is to learn from the university, how can you master this ability? That is to do practicing courses without practical value, the first test does not have a relationship, can you make a trial! When this ability is mastered, you can basically guess what exams this exam. Although the new Oriental teachers have not recommended this, don't think that this is what I said, there is no reference value. This is the learning method recommended when Tang Jun, president of Microsoft China. Second, with a positive person, it is necessary to make your own guidance of your private trainer, form your own military group, this military team needs to consist of people from different ages and people in different industries. Your life planning and career planning requires their guidance, which is constantly correcting its direction. The people are gathered, and people are in groups. With your continuous progress, you will contact and recognize a higher level, with their communication is definitely better than the sum of few foufire dog friends. Absolute different experiences, absolutely different pleasure. Of course, it is also not a cloud, you need to digest and absorb to form your own characteristics, not the same. There is a sentence called, you want to come out, you have to be different.
Third, to constantly adjust your knowledge structure, everything is for professional skills, if the university does not cultivate a course you need, you need to find your information to enrich yourself, don't always wait for the teacher to feed you. Many successful experiences and high competitive skills are not feeding, it is necessary for you to find it in the ocean. In fact, you will find 85% of the professional skills or even more skills is that there is no professor in the university, you need you to explore yourself. If this exploration is planned instead of work, you will definitely be successful. The vast majority of those who fail in the workplace have not realized this problem. Why do many people go back to a hiring? It is because just learn the courses in the university and has not fully cultivated its own ability. In order to chase a MM that you admire, you will vote for his own good, reach MM's requirements for the prince of BMW. You know that the current MM is more realistic, prefer BMW instead of white horse. This is also true for job hunting, and the employer will naturally do not look at people who are too far from themselves. What is the demand for employers? Education is just a ticket for the chance of interviews. Most employers don't look at this, but most students think that academic qualifications are key factors that can be employed. What is the lack of student quality? Most students think that they are English and computers, but 5% of the unit hold this view, the unit needs the dry and comprehensive quality, but only 12% of college students know this point of view, but this 12%, although it is not necessarily this Quality. So in this society, college students are difficult to see for job hunting, and people who use people tell people to find people.
Fourth, constantly enhance your interpersonal communication skills and leadership, this is a practice process, and theory comes from reading, raising is a repetitive process, while improving your communication skills. And this is no in the university course, and this ability is the most potential manifestation of a person's charm and self-confidence, giving people affinity, this feeling will let you live in social situations. A person will finally improve the status of management in any industry, because this will have a greater value for the company. The athlete retired is generally a coach. The programmer has experienced the project supervisor. In order to greater play your potential to create more value, don't forget to enrich yourself, improve your team's ability and leadership .
Team capabilities are the most lack of Chinese people, 12% of the units believe that college students lack the team spirit, but only 2% of college students are aware, why? It is caused by our educational system, because academic education makes our so-called success, the honors obtained in the school are acquired by singles, do not need the team's cooperation, so a Chinese is a dragon, three China People are insects. There is a very deep case, saying that four Chinese students have opened a Chinese restaurant in the neighborhood of American universities, but in fact, there are 5 Thai restaurants, but you know that Chinese dishes are very in the West. Welcome, so the business of Thai restaurants is not as good as Chinese restaurants, Thai people are very depressed, looking for Thai students who study business consultation for business consulting. After analysis, it is impossible to win Chinese restaurants in the taste of the dishes, so the final solution is this, recommend customers who come to Thai restaurant to go to Chinese restaurants, so that Chinese restaurants are full, but one year After that, Chinese restaurants are closed, and all guests come to Thai restaurants, not just because of the service of Thai restaurants, but because there is no choice. Why did Chinese restaurants closed, because the four of the Chinese people are "shackles" uneven, they have gone inner, and finally, the restaurant is dissolved. This is an example of a typical Chinese lack of teamwork spirit. You can think about it, you have received honors from a small to big, and have several people who have won the teamwork? This is why you lack a team spirit and unconsciously, team spiritual performance is not to remind yourself to pay attention, Americans Japanese team spirit is naturally integrated and all trivial things in life, because they are from small In a team of teamwork, the American student's basketball football movement, Japanese baseball movement, etc. are very popular, and the curriculum in Europe and the United States is relatively loose, and the cultural class only half a day, so the students have a half day. Time is over the sports field. Therefore, it has cultivated a team spirit from small. If you are learning reading a book at home after school after school, you will be scolded by your parents, just like Chinese school students, don't go home, don't go home, play. So the restrictions on the education environment, our time for these activities is very limited, it is not part of life, and many schools have stopped in the early third-thirds of the senior sports class. So you will understand why most of the Olympic projects we take the gold medal project, the more people participate in the project, the smaller the possibility of the medal, and if you don't have to mention why Chinese football is repeatedly defeated, If you have your heart, you will see that the ball is not passed on the form of the field, but it is often lost according to the relationship between the controller and the passers-by, so it is often lost. Wasted a lot of fighters. I know the shame, I will understand that there is a shortcoming to make up for it, but this is not a good thing, it needs to be planned and implemented. Therefore, the objectives and principles are determined to be the implementation phase, many people are planned giants, elf in action, this is why people succeeded so little reason. Survival is a tough perseverance. Everyone's life must have a no regrets, then you challenge your own height, with your own best, so you can measure, you can constantly surpass, of course you also There is a constant incentive. This is why I suggest that you want and work together, because everyone's emotions have a volatility period, when your emotions are in a trough, you need a positive progress Friends, come to you to motivate you, let you walk the confusion and loss of your heart.
Because people are non-sages, a person's path will not be as straight as he planned, there will always be a slight deviation. At this time, you need most, the most efficient, is a friend's help. One person can use and make full use of the environment around you and the help of friends around, is a mature person. A person's maturity is less misunderstanding, making a mistake to bear. To keep in mind, your main line is going up with your life. For this goal, you need:
1. Do anything to determine a range. Positioning your stage goals are very important, the goal is not too high, and the goal that is not easy to achieve will continue to make you feel frustrated and desperate. Target is too easy to achieve, not good for your rapid growth, can't form effective challenge.
2. Determine the right way to save your time. God is fair, and it is the same time to give each person. Not every successful person is more than a few hours a day, the key is to be good at reasonable utilization time, pay attention to save time. What is your time you need to review your time? "Harvard girl Liu Yiting" said that her time was in hours, but later became a minute-unit, her plan of the North Master time was in seconds. I personally think that time can be divided into units, at least I don't recommend in seconds, because Working is not enjoy is a unbalanced life.
3. There is an unremitting endurance that faces the boring from the head to the end. Repeating people who have created successfully, while repeating is boring, boring things are lonely. The achievement of Weiye is that the building is based on boring and loneliness. When people do one thing, there is a critical point. In this period, it is very boring. Many people give up at this time, go to other temptations, such people will not succeed. As long as you stick to your teeth, this is your height, built your future confidence, becoming a scale of you, you can constantly surpass yourself.
4. It is necessary to find an even more opponent to compete. No competitors, you never know how much your acceleration is, I don't know what to run. Invincible, the most lonely, so, be sure to find your opponent, the contradiction is always existing, if you don't find this opponent, other miscellaneous and secondary contradictions will become the main contradictions to harass you.
5. To prepare for a person who is fighting, but it is best to have a helper. Three fences, three helpers, but you have to do the worst plan, because most things, still need you to do it, don't do anything. In your own business, others can give you a minimum, more is to express their mental support. At this time, you need to show your excellent.
