It's a good day.
Author: Chen Tong
Good days means having self-knowledge, knowing some dreams can never be achieved. But not therefore desperate, the opposite, know how to use compromise and life bargaining, in order to eventually have a good day.
To be a poor, the biggest pleasure is to laugh at those people who have lived a good day, "I am tired to be zeal."
Earlier, I have read an Yisoro, saying that a butterfly is very hungry in winter, it goes to ask ants to give her some food. Ant asked her: What did you do in summer? Butterfly said that I am dancing in a summer. The ant said: Since this is the case, why don't you sing during the winter?
I think many people are very like dancing butterflies when they are young, can't afford the hard work. I think they are too practical, too vocal, too labor. And ants' life ideals are too uncomfortable. When we were young, we thought that a good day should be a song of singing and dancing, and it is as easy as a colorful butterfly.
We don't need money, and we don't need to obey anyone. We just have to like it, we even never saved, it is a matter like ants.
In fact, life will soon pass soon. If you have to live a good day, we have to find new profit models before winter. I don't oppose singing in summer, but I think if I want to take "good days" as a living objective, I must start preparation in the late summer, I have to transform personal lifestyle. This "late summer", I understand that it should be 27 years old before 36 years old. At this time, no matter whether men and women, they also talk to young, but more experience than younger butterflies, than those that have been very practical. More passion, this time is the best time to lay the foundation of the three major foundations - wealth, career, family. This is a key period, not to say that this period is not good, it will lose the arm with a good day, but if there is no big accident, then a person will ripe, and can quickly master a kind Good day's ability.
This ability is a comprehensive quality, specifically it contains compromise and self-knowledge.
I have interviewed a car designer very early. If I didn't remember the wrong, it was about 96 or 97 years of auto show, I interviewed a very young and talented Audi designer, he was The auto show designed a concept car. I asked him what is the most important quality of an excellent car designer? He said: "It is a compromise. If there is no compromise, there will be no new comment."
I was very surprised at that time, I thought he would emphasize what to create, where, where, he will say "compromise". However, he said that the compromise is not only the only principle, but it is based on self-knowledge.
China has an old saying, called "people who have a self-knowledge". I didn't understand it before. I don't think I know how many bowls have yourself? What is difficult? Later, I learned that when people were young, mostly, it is hard to objectively treat themselves and accurately. Big arrivals, I thought I was the future of Picasso, a famous Bill Gates; but the girls thought that I was a Lu Zhili or the BS. In this case, who is willing to compromise? So, the attitude towards the money is to treat the attitude towards the dung. The attitude towards the leadership is "Aneng destroyed the eyebrows and wait, so that I will not be happy"? The attitude towards the work is not doing not doing - "Life is not strong in the world, and the Ming Dynasty is distributed." Of course, they will not have too cherish the love and friends - "Where is the grass in the world"?
"Good Day" is not a big brand. What is "compromise"? Compromise is not simply conducive, give up, but a consensus is reached on the basis of knowing oneself. Whether it is work or life, compromise is not only for "stability unity" "home and everything", but also compromise, this kind of persistence can be understood as a firm determination - no matter what, we must Made things; no matter what, we have to take the days - I can compromise until the agreement. In the recruitment advertisement, many companies will list a "more than five years of work experience", what does this mean? Do you think he is just simply emphasizing work experience? My friend who made a decoration company told me that in fact, the decoration did a year experience and did a five-year difference, but if a person had five years of work experience, he would understand that he can't achieve him in my company. The ideal of Ming, he wants to be a method of becoming Beng Ming, he is still waiting for me to discover him? He won't complain that I have not given him in my company. I gave him the conditions, I give me my own conditions? General work more than five years, will understand which dreams are hidden in their hearts, and generally more clearly, what kind of work and life can be obtained by working hard. He will be clear, you can buy a car in a few years, you can buy a house in a few years. Why is the Western enterprises consider a person's marital situation while promoting the supervisor, because the company generally believes that the married person is more responsible than unmarried people, and in fact, it is a marriage person more than unmarried people. I want to think about it, is there a similar place to marriage? A marriage is going to have a long time, can't you learn to give yourself a ladder, find a step? If you don't have it, I really stissible, one says that I have said it, what should I do? Are you really awkward? What day is that day? Work is also the same, unless you don't want to do it, otherwise the boss says you two, your neck is said, "Laozi is not doing", then? Can't figure it out! How is this good day? It is over. Know what is "over"? "Over" is "wrong" meaning, a little wrong, and finally make a good day!
Of course, you can choose not to compromise, like Beethoven, like Brunno, like a lot of hero, even if it is tied to the fire, it is not compromised by five horses, but that is not a relationship with the good days. Good days, it is "small can't bear it."
