First, people are painful to pursue mistakes. Second, it is not as good as others to make you feel painful. Third, if you don't give yourself trouble, others will never give you trouble. Because you have your own heart, you can't let four, I would rather for forgive others, let others forgive you. 5. When you are happy, you have to think that this happiness is not eternal. When you are painful, you have to think that this pain is not eternal. Sixth, you can have love, but don't persist, because separation is inevitable. Seven, each kind of trauma is a mature. Eight, don't always be unfair, you should always review yourself. Dissatisfied people are suffering yourself. Nine, you have to include those who have different opinions and you, so there is better. If you always want to change him, you will suffer. How do you want to learn how to endure him? How do you want to learn how to incline him? Ten, love is not a charity, can't just place. Feelings are there is no formula, there is no principle, and there is no reason. However, people are still persistent and pursuit. Eleven, adversity is the process of growth, can be brave enough to accept the adversity, life will grow up. Twelve, have a selfless love, there is everything. Thirteen, don't always feel that I am very unfortunate, there are more people in the world than our suffering. 14, use normal heart to live, use the heart to treat people, use no heart to work, use the bodhisattic Buddha heart. Fifteen, when you catch a thing in your hands, you can only have this thing. If you are willing to let go, you have the opportunity to choose another. If the human heart is dead, it is refused to let go, then his intelligence can only reach some degree. 16. Learning Buddha is a conscience of his own, not doing it to others. Seventeen, those who are not enough, they will often hear the right and wrong; the blessing is enough, I have never heard it right and wrong. Eighteen, practice is a little way. XII, practice in the situation, never can't become a Buddha. Twenty, you will always thank you for giving you adversity.