Go out of self-deceived psychological misunderstandings!
Self-deceiving originated in the characteristics of personality - vanity, especially the respect of others, this self-deception has become a "窍" seeking self-psychological balance. Occasionally, it can be said to be a kind of harmless behavior, and can even have incentives to themselves, becoming the inner motivation that drives themselves. However, if a person is indulging in the daydream and self-deception, it will undoubtedly lead to the malformation of the personality. People who like self-deception can neither make their own character is more perfect, and they are helpless to succeed in life. It is often often happening in reality, and trying to cover your weaknesses with the opposite facts. A famous actor in Hollywood, because his wife is bored, and his temper is rude. This harsh mood affects his daily work. When he watched his movie filmed, he found that he was extremely confusing and unreal in the movie. So he was frustrated and thought that he would not be loved by the audience, and even once intended to withdraw from the movie, and even a living. Finally, he accepted the psychological analysis of the advice and held a press conference. Explain to people why his mood has been depressed, so it can't succeed in playing a movie. He influenced his own foolpoints because of his trivial things, exposed its own shortcomings. The reporters are touched by him, and they have reported him with great sympathy. He also got rid of melancholy, and the name is also large. I can imagine that a person who is accustomed to self-blind is that it will not open a shortcomings that they have a shortcoming, so it is rare to be a ranch recognized by society. We should be brave enough to reveal your own inner world, so that you can take yourself a tanks. You are a person, not a machine, you will be wrong, will mistake, you have your weaknesses, these are very natural things, only perfect people will be strange. Really perfect is synonymous with real nature, not a symbol of inexplicabness. Once, the reporter asked the baseball star Steve Gary, "Do you never cry?" Steve replied: "Yes, I never lose tears." The reporter said to him: "I think you fall It's better to like most people, sometimes you can't fall into tears, so you can prove that you are a real person, a man with joining and sorrowful feelings. "Some people think that they don't violent their own troubles and weaknesses. You can win people's respect. But in contrast, people will not like him. In fact, hidden inner world is exactly what others want to find. Recognize your own mistakes or weaknesses, and correct and overcome, will make you double respect by others. An idea that is often elaborated in Jin Yong's novel is "only the big hero husband can see a hero." The so-called nature is true and naturally expressing your personality, rather than trying to cover, noble, so many feelings. Weakness people are all, even if you admire the characters, they are not fulfilling, but living, blood, meat - people with weaknesses. The big people are still so, why will we avoid your weaknesses, self-deceived! Lincoln's competitors have a blame to be a two-faced party. Lincoln replied: "If I still have another face, I will not grow like this." Lincoln is not well known. If he is a heavenly man who blames him to see the lack of defects, then flow It is not a good story, but a scene of the wolf.
