For example, the change in the New York subway has also made my nature. I believe that some people only know the real situation, they will only feel a little sorry or have a little guilt, and the top more silently sits next to the man who is unknown. Similarly, I also believe that some people are more sensitive. At the beginning, I found out that this man was suffering, and I took the initiative to understand and help him, and I won't learn later.
It can be seen that the power of thinking is endless because it is "lens" we observed outside the world. Thinking
Conversion is a change in behavior and attitude in instantaneous completion or long-term brewing.
Thinking as the principle
The success of morality is rooted on a basic belief. That is some principle of life (Princi) means the successful bright light, which is equivalent to the natural law in the world, and it seems to be natural science theorem. People cannot deny their existence or correctness.
These principles are so true, how much not ignored, and the following sea experiences talked from Kok Koch in the magazine of the Naval Academy (Proceedings) can be proved:
Two warships that were in the exercise sailed in the gloomy weather, and I was served in the flagship. One night, I was responsible for the boat bridge, but at a concentrated fog, the visibility was extremely poor. At this time, the captain also guarded everything on the boat bridge.
Shortly after the night, the squatting side of the boat bridge suddenly reported: "The right side has lights."
The captain asks that the light is positive approximation or stay away. 望 望 A: "Approximation." This means that the other party will hit us, and the consequences are unimaginable.
The captain command signal hand informs the other party: "We are going to come, I suggest you turn to 20 degrees."
The other party said: "I am two-class sailors, the boat is best turning."
At this time, the captain was very angry, he yelled: "Tell him, here is a warship, turn to 20 degrees."
The signal of the other party came: "Here is the lighthouse."
As a result, we changed the channel.
As this captain experienced a thinking conversion, once his thinking moved, the whole situation was completely changed. This captain couldn't see the truth because of poor line of sight, but it was true that the facts in daily life were like the captains in the fog, which were equally important.
The principle of life seems to the lighthouse, is the truth of the hammer. The average person has created thinking from experience and social constraints - that is, the map, then look at your life and interpersonal relationship through these views. But the map does not represent the place itself, but only "subjective facts", states our understanding of a certain location. For example, "Lighthouse" general principles are "objective facts", no matter how the map is explained, it cannot change its existence.
Anyone will recognize that these principles are not broken, and they will be new. The survival and rise of the national society will often depend on whether they can comply with these principles.
I have emphasized these principles, not some of the deep and mysterious religious philosophy, nor is there any specific religion or belief. It can be said that all major religions in the world, almost all of them are covered in ethical ethics. These unsolicited truths, anyone can lead God, as if human beings are innocent, regardless of racial skin color, everyone has. Even if the social customs or individual is negative, they still exist.
For example, the principle of "fair", equality and justice thinking is derived. Although every society is equal to fairness and how to maintain fairness, the view may have a big difference, but basically recognize the fair principle itself.
Second, "honest" and "positive", this is the basis of human mutual trust. With this foundation, human beings can cooperate with each other and pursue the continued growth of individuals and groups.
The principle of "human dignity" is just like the US independent declaration: "human beings are equal, enjoy the rights of talent, freedom and the right to pursue happiness." In addition, the principle of "service" - The principle of contributing to society and "quality" or "pursuing excellence". The principle of "potential" means that people can grow progress and constantly play potential and show talents. It is closely related to the principle of "growth", which is the potential to play, specialty is displayed; this process needs "patience", "education" and "encourage" cooperation.
The principle is different from practice. Practice is a specific behavior or activity, often applies to a certain situation, and once the case changes are invalid. It is like the way parents can't fully cultivate the first child, and raise another child.
Practice is individual, local, principle is general, as a whole. The principle applies to personal, marriage, family, and public-private groups, causing us to make the principle into habits, then solve individual problems.
The principle is not values. A group of pirates may have the same values, but they violate the principles of the goodness of the good. Values are maps, the principle is the place itself. Only the principle of borrowing the correctness can recognize the truth of the matter.
The principle is the guidelines for human behavior, and it is also the basic principle that is unquestionable. Ask people to get a long-lasting happiness and success with deception, unfair, despicable, mediocrity, long or fallen, and have a long-lasting happiness and success? Despite the meaning and practice of behavioral norms, each person has various statements, but this kind of principle is indeed Existing in our conscience. A person's thinking will meet the above principles, and it is better to be safe.
Follow the principle of growth and change
At present, the most attractive place to prevail is the most fascinating life - including personal achievements, wealth and good interpersonal relationships - there is shortcut to follow, don't need to be pursued.
This kind of Huawei, the argument of "outbreak-style", is not seen in encouraging life. The longitudinal makes it in success, it is also a victorious.
Emphasize that personal charm is both unrealistic and will mislead people. Step by step is like a map of Chicago, but it is the map of Detroit, and the speed is not reached.
Erich Fromm, a US philosopher in this claim, said:
Now we often see a kind of 浑 的, there is no self-knowledge, but it doesn't care. The only person who knows is myself in the eyes of others. They have lost their communication skills, and they can't say anything; they have a good faith, see the true feelings; except for boring, I can't feel the real pain. We can use two sentences to describe this person: First, they lose their nature and personal traits, and they are unhaffected; then they are not more high than those who are more than those of the people.
