First, talk out
Especially frankly, you have the feelings, feelings, pain, ideas and expectations, but it is definitely not criticism, blame, complaints, attack. Second, do not criticize, not blame, do not complain, do not attack, do not talk about teaching criticism, blame, complaint, attacking these are all communication, only make things deteriorate. Third, the mutual respect is only for the other party respect, if the other party does not respect you, you should also ask the other party's respect, otherwise it is difficult to communicate. Fourth, never give a evil whisker, the so-called "disaster coming out". 5. If you don't say something, if you say something that should not be said, it is often cost to take great consideration. "Even can also cause unpailment of ordinary regret! Therefore, communication is not able to enable the mouth of the mouth, the mouth is unob; however, does not speak at all, sometimes it will become more bad. Six, don't communicate in emotions, especially if you don't make a decision, there is often no good words, it is unclear, and it is unclear; especially in emotions, it is easy to violently lost rationality; The parent of the opposite enemy, the dead, especially the "decision", which cannot be emotionally and impulsive, this is easy to make things unreliable, and people regret! Seven, rational communication, inextricity do not communicate inextricity only the dispute, no results, more impossible, so, this communication is no. Eight, I don't just communicate, I need to be aware, everything needs ... If you have any wrong words, do something wrong, if you don't want to cause indistinguished damage, what is the best way? "I am wrong", this is a kind of awareness. Nine, admitted that I was wrong, I was wrong, it was a disinfectant, thawed, improved and transformed communication; just a sentence: I am wrong! Swakling how many people's new hatred, resolve how many years of death, let people suddenly open, put down the weapons, reopeically think about life, and even who I am? In this vast universe, people are the most intended to "I", if someone doesn't respect me, suppress me, bully me or insult me, even if it is a friend, I may be regenerated, my tears, away from home What is going on, what you die, you will see you, you are not fresh! Ten, say sorry! Sorry, I don't mean that I really did what kind of big mistakes or injured things, but a softener, so that things have "turn" room, and even "paradise"; actually you sometimes It is really a big mistake, and it is a big mistake wrong. Eleven, let the miracle happen to recognize each other, it is to create paradise and miracles for yourself with their families; chemical can't be possible. Twelve, love everything is love, "Love is the greatest therapist". Thirteen, wait for the transfer If there is no transfer, it is necessary to wait; if you are just to treat the silk; of course, don't wait, results? N will fall from the world, but you should work hard, but try to have As a result, or the top of the year; but if you don't work hard, you will not have anything. XIV, patient waiting for the only thing is patience, and the people have actually become. Fifteen, wisdom wisdom make people don't persist, and bless to the soul. The soul: Find a good time, no matter what happens, you have to "talk out", "express opinions", "communication with him", such a week, you will have no harvest. Pure
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Not stupid is stupid but is the degree of transientness between people
