Fortunately, not
Once I followed a truck driver to run long distance.
When the car passed through a small village, a middle-aged peasant woman suddenly ran in the road, the big truck came to a brake, almost hit the peasant buttocks.
The peasant woman took three feet and rushed to the cab.
The driver does not still have a mouth, ignite a smoke, slowly absorb, listening to the farmers from "village," to "Guo Yu". After a smoke, the peasant woman is still awkward, the driver is fire: "If I just braked late, I killed you, can you still be?" The peasant woman thinks about it, not.
When we encounter setbacks, it often feels very sorry, and rarely celebrates yourself, if nothing, things may be worse. In our hearts, there is often a lot of clouds, lost a lot of happiness. (Zi Zhen)
Comments: Life, it is very cheerful and open-minded. We should like Chekhov say: "If your finger is tied, then you should be happy: Hey, this thorns are not in the eyes!" This way, when we meet some trouble, It is not a neighborhood.
select
There is an ancient puzzle in the legend: When your mother, wife, children fall into the water, you will save anyone.
Different people give different answers, and they speak. The philosophers give a deep analysis of different answers, indicating that different people's thoughts, souls, and cultural profits are significant. This time, a farmer gave his answer. His village was flooded, he rescued his wife from the water, and the child and the mother were rushing.
Afterwards, everyone seven tongues, some say saved, some say that it is rescued.
The philosopher asked the farmers how to think. The peasant said: "I didn't want anything. When the flood came, my wife was looking around me. I grabbed her to travel high. When I returned, my mother and children were rushing."
Comments: Don't give some choices to give too much intensive significance, many times, the reason for choice is just that instinct, just a natural most likely successful response.
What does life need?
Leio Roston is the fatstimate Hollywood star of the United States, with his waist circumference 6.2 feet and 385 pounds. In the United Kingdom in 1936, the heart failure was sent to the Thompson Emergency Center. The rescuers used the best medicine to use the most advanced equipment, and they still did not save his life. In the past, Roston was desperately muttered: Your body is very large, but your life needs only a heart!
This sentence of Roston deeply touched the dean of Harden in the scene, as a chest surgery expert, he shed tears. In order to express our respect for Roston, in order to remind people who are extraordinary, he will take Roston's wicked in the hospital's building.
In 1983, a Chinese name called Mermily lived in his heart failure. He is a petroleum tycoon. The two war have caused him 10 companies in the Americas. In order to get rid of the dilemma, he keeps going to Ou Ya between. In the last old disease, I have to stay in.
He wrapped a layer of building in the Thompson Hospital, which added 5 telephone and two fax machines. The "Times" at the time was rendered this: Thompson's oil center in one ancherical. The heart of Mel is very successful. He lived here for 5 months, but he didn't return to the United States. There is a villa in Scotland Country. He bought it 10 years ago. He lived there. In 1988, the Thompson Hospital has invited him to participate, and the reporter asked him why he sold his company, he refers to the golden word on the hospital building, saying, leio Roson.
I don't know if the reporter understands him, in short, I didn't find this report on the media at the time. Later I found a sentence in a biography in Merriot: Wealth and obesity have no two, but it is more than What you need is. Perhaps this is the answer. (Liu Yanmin)
Comments: For healthy life, any excessive things are burdens.
Lincoln President, never retreat
The best example insisted that it may be Abraham Lincoln. If you want to know who has given up from the end, you don't have to look for it again!
I have a poor, I will have a poor, and I have faced defeat, eight times election eight times, two businessmen fail, even the spirit collapsed once. A lot of times, he could give up, but he did not have this, but he became one of the greatest presidents in the American history because he did not give up.
Lincoln is invincible in the world, and he never gives up. The following is the resume before Linke in front of the White House:
In 1816, the family was driven out of the place where he had to work to raise them.
In 1818, the mother died.
In 1831, the business failed.
In 1832, members of the election but fell!
In 1832, the work was also lost, I would like to study the school, but I can't enter.
In 1833, he borrowed money to friends, but the end of the year was bankrupt, and he took him in sixteen years before he was clear.
In 1834, the charter of the state won again!
In 1835, when I was married, the last wives were dead, so his heart was broken!
In 1836, the spirit was completely collapsed, and the bed was in bed for six months.
In 1838, the spokesperson who strived to become a state member did not succeed.
In 1840, striving for a failure of the electors!
In 1843, he participated in the Parliamentary election!
In 1846, he again participated in the Parliamentary election to be elected! Go to Washington, DC, and the performance can be used.
In 1848, it was a failure of seeking a Congress.
In 1849, it was rejected to the work of the land director in his own state!
In 1854, the election US Senator fell!
In 1856, the nomination of the vice president was less than 100 in the National Congress of the Republican Party.
In 1858, the US Senator was again defeated once again.
In 1860, the US president was elected. ([United States] Jack)
Comments: This road is hard and muddy. I slipped a foot, and the other foot was still unstable; but I screamed, told myself, "This is nothing to die, not dead and can't stop." - Lincoln at the election senator If it is defeated
Printing effect
In 1910, German habits found a very interesting phenomenon in the experiment: the little goose that just broke out, it would be able to follow his mother who saw his mother to see his mother behind him. However, if it is not his mother, it is not his own mother, but it will follow. It is especially important that once this small goose forms a follow-up reaction to an object, it is impossible to form a follow-up reaction to other objects. With professional terms, this formation reaction is inversely, and in a popular language, it only recognizes the first, ignore the second.
This lame is later called "printing effect", but also exists in a low animal, but also exists in humans. Almost all psychologists and sociologists know that humans have a deep impression on the initially accepted information and initial contact, they use the concept of "first due effect" to express this feature when they accept information. .
So we found that human beings have the interests of anything that is "first" and has strong memory capabilities. Inadvertently, you can list many first. Such as the world's first peak, China's first emperor, the first president of the United States, the first person who boarded the moon, etc., but followed the second? You may not say a few. It seems that human beings are indeed like that of the mil youze, but I ignore the second. In life, people also have a unique clock, you will remember the first teacher; go to work on the first day; first love, etc., but there is no deep impression on the second. The second hand in the company is always noted, unless he may become the first hand; the first brand of market share in the market is often the second multiple ...
Comments: Ning makes a chicken head, do not make a phoenix. Live in some people's shadow, it is better to go to another world. Of course, this depends on the individual's ability, if you don't have a strong development ability or still in your datio, then you will follow your ass after your ass, at least risk.
Blind lamp
There is a blind, and there is always a bright lantern at night. Others have seen it, very strange, ask him: "You can't see it again, why should I take the lantern?"
That blind replied: "This reason is very simple, I will just illuminate the road for myself, but to illuminate others, let them see me, so helping others and protect themselves."
A driver heard this story and talked about himself. He said: "I used to drive through the tunnel. I always don't like driving lights. The tunnel is not long, the light is still not bad, I think there is no need to open the customs. I apologically, one day, the big truck who was opened was hit by the big truck, I have been shatbling to be funeral. Later, I realized that the driving light is to give each other, because the other party is in the dark, the opponent is in the dark, and the visual inevitably adjusts, plus the opposite car does not turn on the light. It is too dangerous. "
Comments: You don't think about each other, you may have trouble.
Unevpected wisdom
There is a folk story, saying two people arguing. One said that "Water Margin" has a good man named Li Da, and another insisted that Li Wei.
The two argued that they did not stop, and they bet 20 yuan and found a classical literary authority assessment.
The authority smiled and watched the two people, and the good Han, who was "Water Margin" was Li Da, so she advocated that Li Wei lost 20 yuan.
Afterwards, "Li Weipai" questioned how authoritative is so absolutely abroad. Authoritative reputation: "You have lost 20 yuan, then the boy is so stubborn, we will harm him for a lifetime. He believes that this good Han is Li Da, can't still be ugly?"
Comments: Sometimes, the attachment of paradox is precisely the biggest punishment for paradox. However, this kind of trick is easy to use, and it is damaged.
Truth test
Dr. Valley, a Japanese social relations expert, said such a story.
There is a rich man in order to test whether someone else is sincere, pretend to live in the hospital.
As a result, the rich man said: "Many people come to see me, but I have seen many of them come to allocate my legacy, especially my loved ones."
Dr. Valley asked him: "Is your friend to see you?" People often come and have friends, but I know they are just as a routine. "
"There are also a few marshands and my people are coming. I think they must hear the news that I have seriously, and I am loving."
With the statement, the result of his test is: no one has real feelings for him.
Dr. Valley told him: "Why do we suffer from testing someone else sincere, and never test your own sincerity?" Comments: No one is stupid in this society, people are hard, you are for people How can people hopes that people are really interested in you?
Wishes and success
In 1864, the United States Nort-North War ended, a reporter called Mavil interviewed Lincoln.
Reporter: According to our knowledge of the two presidents, I have thought of abolishing the black slave system. The Declaration of the Liberation of the Black slave has also been grass in their period, but they did not pick up the pen to sign it. May I ask Mr. President, do they want to leave this great industry, give you an English name? Lincoln: There may be this meaning. However, if they know that it is only a good courage to pick up the pen, I think they must be very sad.
During this time, in Lincoln to Patterson, Maville has not been able to ask, Lincoln's carriage, therefore, he has never figured out what Lincoln's words mean. Until 1914, after the death of Lincoln 50 years, Madel found the answer in a letter from Linken.
In the letter, Lincoln said that there was a gap in the young man: "My father has a farm in Seattle, there are many stones above. Because of this, the father can buy it, one day, the mother suggests to move the above stone The father said that if you can move, the owner will not sell to us, they are a hill, and they are connected to the mountains.
"One year, my father went to the city to buy horses, mother took us to work in the farm. Mother said, let us move these things, okay? So we started to dig the stone, for a long time, just put them I took it because they were not my father imagined the hill, but a piece of orphaned stone, as long as you dug a foot, you can shake them. "
Lincoln said at the end of the letter, some things are not doing, but they think it is impossible. There are many impossible, only in people's imagination.
When I read this letter, Maville was a 76-year-old man, which was in this year, he officially determined to learn foreign languages. It is said that in 1922, he was interviewed in Guangzhou, which is a fluent Chinese and Sun Yat-sen. (Liu Yanmin)
Comments: Many difficulties are imagined in your heart, although anything is impossible to be smooth, but you must do it, you may have a successful opportunity.
Owl and its child
Cats in the forest, hit a owl. Owl asked: "Dear Big Brother, where are you going?" "I went to Lin Zi to catch the birds." "Ah, cat big brother, don't hurt my little child." "What is your child grows long, this you can let me know." "My child, I am very beautiful." "Know." "The cat answers seriously, and the owl flew away.
The cat is looking for a little in the short bus, the bird nest is a beautiful bird, the cat is afraid is a owl child without the mouth, and finally, I found a bunch of birds that I have a very ugly, so I have a meal. A meal.
On the way home, the cat came and touched the owl. Cat said: "You can rest assured, I am eating the uglie bird." The owl came back, its "beautiful" child didn't see it, and there were several cars in the nest.
Comments: "Wife is someone else, the child is good." The shortcomings of the child will pass the disadvantage, such parents can only harm the child, beware of the misunderstanding of love.
King seeking wisdom
There is a light king of this year, in order to govern your kingdom, he is determined to learn the wisdom of the world. To this end, he called the domestic wise man, ordered them to search all the wisdom books for him to read. In the past five years, the wise people have been back, and the camel team behind him will carry 5,000 wisdom books. The king is very big, so many books are going to see. Command the wisdom to streamline the concentration.
In the past five years, the wise people seek, and the camel team behind him is back to 500 books, and the king is still too much.
It is 5 years, and the wise people bring 50 huge pauses. At this time, the king has been more upset by all kinds of problems, waiting to be more impatient, still feel more.
After a few years, when the wise people went to the king in front of the king, he had not interested in seeing this book, and there is no time to practice these wisdom. The domestic issues are busy, foreign enemies constantly invading, they are all sick, any wisdom may solve his problem.
Comments: Just try to do it, things are not too much, and there will be gains. As long as you choose, wait, you can't get it.
Don't wait until there is still less
When I was a child, I had a grandfather into the forest to catch a hill. Grandfather taught me to use a hunt, it like a box, supported with a wooden stick, and the rope on the wooden stick is directly to my hidden bush. As long as the temptation of the corn grains from the wild chicken, all the way, it will be a box. As long as I pull the rope, I will tell it.
A good box, soon, I will fly a group of pheasants, and there are 9. It is about to be hitting for a long time, and there will be 6 pheasant walk into the box. I am going to pull the rope, think, then 3 will also go in, wait. After waiting for a while, the three didn't go, but I came out of 3. I regret it. I said to myself, even if there is another walk in and pull the rope. Then, there were two walks out. If you pull the rope, you can still hold 1, but I am not willing to lose the good luck, I want to go back. Finally, even the last one came out.
That once, I didn't even capture a wild chicken, but I captured a reason to benefit for life: people's desires could not satisfy, but the opportunity is slightly ill, but greed not only makes me more difficult to get more, even Even the original can also be lost.
Comments: Fried stocks people have the deepest on this story: When the stock in the hand begins to make money, think about it will rise again, wait. When I have fallen down, I think that the high point in the past few days didn't sell it. Now I can only make such a money, and then I will say it. The result became a championship. The cooked duck will fly, it is this truth.
Gold watch
this is a true story.
Two years ago, in a city in my country, a case of theft: a high-end shopping mall was stolen, including 8 gold meters, 80,000 yuan per piece.
Just when the case has not yet detected, a businessman in the field arrived here, carrying nearly 100,000 yuan of huge sum of nearly 100,000 yuan. After the plane got to the hotel in the morning, he first handled the valuables preservation procedures, saved the money into the hotel's safe. Since then, he will go out, he went out early.
Beared on the stall, he listened to the people next to the thieves, saying that several gold tables were stolen, and the case was still detected. After dinner, I have heard someone to talk about the gold table from time to time, but he didn't take a moment.
When you have a meal at noon, the neighboring table is talking about the golden watch. It is said that someone bought two pieces with 40,000 yuan, and sold his hands and sold 70,000. How good is it. The businessman listened to it, he would have such a good thing.
When I have dinner, the topic of the gold surface is ringing in the ear, and the people say that it is not one. And after he returned to the hotel, he was mysteriously called, saying that he is a foreign country to do a big sale, I would like to buy two gold tables, the local is not good. Strip, etc., and the quality of the table can be detected nearby jewelery stores. The businessman finally moved, which earned more than himself! So he promised to talk about it, and finally bought 3 pieces of 8 gold tables with 90,000 yuan. The next day, he felt that things were somewhat, and then took out the gold list, please inspect, the value is also three dry fresses.
When the liar sets, the merchant knows that from him to the hotel, the liar pays attention to him, then all the topics he heard all day about the topic of the Table is specially said to give him one person. of. Two scammers have hired more than ten people to deal with him until he pays for the table, if there is no effect on the first day, there is also a good program.
Comments: The author has several principles, one does not look at the excitement, beware of the object of the whole god, becoming the object of the thief; two don't think about the money, you can make the money, you can look good in your bag, it is good. I still want to take advantage of people, which is not smarter than yourself?
Another son
Harry S. Dulun was elected as the president of the United States, and there were reporters to visit the mother of Dulun in his hometown. The reporter first called it:
"There is a son like Harry, you must feel very proud."
"This is the case." Dulun's mother agreed, "But I still have a son, which also makes me feel proud."
"What did he do?" Asked the reporter.
"He is digging potatoes."
Comments: Seriously do things, happy life, whether your achievements are low, you are worthy of mother.
Intelligence
We often spend a lot of money to buy something that you don't know. How to use the conversation phone? How is the magical juice machine? Is there any new home camera?
I know a couple, I bought a most advanced washing machine, the best in the washing machine. However, six laundry women workers have been exchanged. I have been demonstrated by 12 technicians. After several "floods", they erected the white flag: "Now we use it as a furniture." They are the kind of confrontation People who have taken place. There is also a simple person, the number of people. The person of this sent is self-known, try to avoid the organs in the CD machine. Do you want to automatically select? He blinked, indifferent. That will skip a few paragraphs? He is unintentional. He put all mysterious buttons with tape. Email in the computer is good, it's very convenient to check the address, just this. In other words, those who bought high-priced bought, only 10%, up to 15%.
The last person is a diamond research. He wants to know everything, do not hesitate to achieve your own health, but also to achieve the purpose. For example, the toilet in the French Napu Airport installed a new wash basin, where is the faucet button? No. Pedal? Nor. So he began looking for a camera to see if he would be being sneak shot, giging people's TV show. But you can't find the camera. The service and simple people will shake their heads. The people who drilled the school refused to go, did not take the time to touch, he finally found: the faucet is installed, and the water supply is operated by the electric eye. He is very embarrassed, smiling.
He is really smart. As a result, he misunderstand the plane. (Wen Yan translation)
Comments: Life is actually very simple, don't let some of the "science ... advanced" banner, don't spend money, buying those very advanced, but useless.
Chimphony George's chain
Chivo George is born in a circus, and its parents are also an old actor in a circus. Gengo George is very naughty, always thinking around. The staff pushed a fine iron chain on its legs and the other is on the arm.
Xiao Jorzhi is very uncomfortable to this iron chain, it makes it hard, earn, helpless, there is only within the iron chain.
After a few days, George tried to break the iron chain, but it had not been able to work, it had to be honest. Once again, Xiao Ge Ge also earned this chain. Slowly, it is no longer trying, it is used to the chain, then see if the parents are the same, it seems that it should be this.
George has grown up, with the strength of it, and breaking the small iron chain is not enough to blow the gray, but it never can't think of this. It believes that the chain is not broken, this strong psychological suggestion has long been implanted in its memory.
Generation generation, everyone in the circus is hit by a tangible small iron chain and an invisible big iron chain, and the activity is in a fixed small range.
Comments: Time changes, what you can't do today may be generous today, it can be difficult to do today. In any case, the key is not to save a constant concept in your heart.
Danger of money
In the middle of the Jews, there is such a story. One day, a ghost with countless money went to his Rabbi pleading blessings. Rabbi let him stand in front of the window, let him look at the street outside and ask him what he saw, "people said:" People. "
Rabbi put a mirror in front of him and asked him what he saw, he said: "I myself."
Rabi explained that windows and mirrors are made of glass, but the mirror is plated on a layer of silver. Simple glass allows us to see others, and the glass plated with the silver can only let us see yourself.
Comments: People's eyes are often blinded by money, I only see themselves, I don't see others, how can people get happiness?
direction
One person walking on the shore accidentally caught the water, he panicked with poor swimming technology, and struggled while shouting. Originally he was only a few meters away from the shore, but when the rescuers rescued him from the water, he had not been off the shore. Later, he explained: "Because I was too panic at the time, I just wanted to struggle on the water, I didn't care about the direction."
The author also has a similar experience. Many years ago, I made a social survey in Penglai County, Shandong. One day in the afternoon of the road, I found a little boy in the reservoir was struggling, and there were a few lights on the shore. Obviously, this group of children play in shallow water, one of which accidentally slipped into deep water. I rushed to take off my clothes and quickly swimmed into the side of the child. The child caught my arm and killed. My swimming technology is not very good. I am anxious and panic. I have a few mouthfuls of water. Later, it is hard to steady God. I use one hand to hold a child, turn into the back , Use another hand to fight, etc., etc., the whole body is like scattered, and it is not available for a long time.
When I was a shock, I found that the original falling water is only a few meters away from the shore, and in the panic, I pulled him to do ten meters far on the other side.
Comments: At any time, do anything, you must first check if your direction is correct.
Interview
Interview supervisor: How much do you know about your computer?
Applicant: I have a little, I have worked out an electronic watch, playing over the paradise, a TV in the room ... Also, I have seen the classmates with DOS boot, twice ...
Interview supervisor: Next! (Second application)
Interview supervisor: How much do you know about your computer?
Applicant: Well, it depends on which computer.
The general superpocked single wafer time pulse output computer (electronic meter) is relatively simple, I often use its interpretation coding operation process (alarm function). As for multi-functional virtual real-world simulators (Nintendo) more complicated, but I have fully tested many static data storage units (only playing card belt breaks).
After growing up, I am interested in the re-reciprocal ultra-high frequency wireless multimedia receiving instrument (TV), which will track the water resources of specific channels every night (pointing eight-point TV show).
As for traditional computers, a work partner under my hand often performs signal exchange between single crystal and magnetization data access in my monitoring (referring to DOS boot) ...
Interview supervisor: start working tomorrow. Your bicycle is on the second floor of the underground, with a parking space, this is a key ... (Xiaoqiang)
Comments: Solving the problem is usually simplified, and then complicates simple problems when scaringers, and uses high-known wording and simple common sense. Many so-called experts are like this.
Falling worker and weight
When Napoleon is young, once in the outskirts, he suddenly heard someone shouted for life, he quickly walked to the river, seeing a man is struggling in water.
This river is not wide, Napoleon is shotgun, and the water is quizing. "If you don't want to travel, I will kill you in the water!" The person seemed to save is useless, but add more The layer is dangerous, so I have to strive for self-help and finally swim.
After Napoleon, after the emperor, in the morning, walk in the garden, and blocked the road to the soldiers who were heavy. At this time, the court female guard is busy to give the soldier to give the big emperor to make the road. Napoleon is busy to stop saying: "Mrs., please respect the weight."
Napoleon took the gun forced the water to save, I want to tell him that my life should be responsible. Only the responsible life is the life of truly saving. "Please respect the weight", in Napoleon's view, the status is not important, important is the weight of the life shoulder. (Wang Xipping)
Comments: If we are in a disadvantage, then, throw away fantasies, save yourself. Even if we end up, I can't reach the other side, but as long as we work hard, as long as it is load forward, even Napoleon will respect us.
Young master
There is a good job of the owner, and I love my son. This little master naturally is very naughty.
One day, the young master climbed the big tree next to the road. He saw a book under the tree, and he stood on the tree to pee, poured the scholar. The scholar is anger. "It is also", and the owner is nothing to do with this matter, the scholar is angry. Soon, a businessman came again, the young masculus is like a law. When the businessman looks at the young master, I will be angry to hi, and even the grandfather is smarter: playing the game is different from others. The monetarian is happy, the young master is also happy, the businessman also gave him a sugar.
After a few days, I came to a fast horse, and the young master was a urine. This time, it's worse, and the rivers and lakes immediately have eaten this, whoever took the tree, throwing the little young man so far, the young mascore life.
Today's psychologists say: people's character is completed, the child is so, adults are also. As long as he has completed a certain event in some way, the next time he will generate the impulse of the same thing with the same approach. Over time, he formed his style of acting in handling this kind of thing, and the synthesis of these styles formed a person's character.
Comments: Who is hurting this young master? It is a big thief on the surface, but the merchant of the Baroning Finance is actually more difficult. A person is doing a bad thing is not encouraged by the stop and punishment, then he will get more far on this road.
Job hunting strategy
There is a computer for studying in the United States. After graduation, I will find a job in the United States. As a result, I will touch the wall, and many companies will refuse this doctoral. Such a high degree, this is a professional, why can't I find a job? Under the unfortunate, this Ph.D. decided to try a way. He received all the degree prove to work in a minimum. Soon he was hired by a computer company, it was a master of the most basic procedure. This is a slightly academically qualified person who is not willing to do it, but this doctor is done, and it is meticulous. Not long, the boss discovered his outstanding talents: he can see the mistake in the program, which is generally possible than usual entry. At this time, he looked out his own bachelor's prove, the boss has changed him to a work of the undergraduate graduate.
After a while, the boss found that he was more expensive in the new position, but also made a lot of valuable suggestions, which is more than a general college student. At this time, he only looked out his master's identity, and the boss raised him again.
With the first two experience, the boss also pays attention to him, found that he is still a master's degree, the breadth and depth of expertise can be very good. I will find him again. At this time, he took out the doctoral degree certificate and describes the reason why you do this. At this time, the boss suddenly realized that he did not hesitate to reuse him, because he learned his knowledge, ability and professionalism.
Comments: Many young people have entered the society, they often brighten their own stages, the bottom card, boast of themselves, the result or let others disgusting to cooperate with people, or recruiting high expectations, people disappointing, slightly wrong It is not easy to turn over.
