First, what kind of first impression should be left to MM (Time: Just started to contact MM)
1, I think the most critical, let MM see you on your heart.
The biggest charm of men is that the career has become, the young people don't talk about "there is". At this time, you will make MM think you are a self-motivated person.
Others can speak alone, but this problem can't be vague, you must tell MM, you are full of confidence in the future, you don't satisfy the status quo, and you already have a long-term plan, in short, your future is not a dream.
2, you must have confidence, responsible
Don't be like a child, the girl is very lazy and hope to find a relying on it, you have to come up with your confidence and responsibility.
There is a wrong choice, which is better than the choice.
3, don't be too serious, but don't be too casual
The place where the exactly is turned, and it is ridiculed when the ridicule.
Girls like a man who is a bit of a unforgettable man, so don't seem to be particularly concerned about anything.
4, look maturation
The people who are calm, and the people who are not forced to have fatal attractions to MM.
Second, how to develop further contact with MM (Time: Start chasing)
1. The most critical thing in this stage is not anxious, don't make it clear about things, let people see you in chasing people.
I want to think about it, I will never look at you at a glance, but I will not look at you, I'm all the children of the people (unless you are as long as Zhou Yunfa Liu Dehua or Kevin Costenna). The problem of the increasing increase is the chance of further development you want.
Standing at the point of view of the girl thinks about others: You are so straightforward to engage in objects, and girls must have psychological stress. This is to find you after touching, don't you play you? So if you start to put it in a must-have, it will basically be stuffed back.
2, should start low posture
First of all, you must position the relationship into "friends". Originally "ordinary friends", you want to be "good friends", you can ask the other party to become "red knowledge", in short, don't say "chase you".
You think, if you don't mention "chase", then the girl will not have a chance "refuse" you - you didn't chase how to refuse you? !
This can reduce the psychological stress of the girl, so that you can go smoothly. Don't fantasize younger three days, promise to marry you, you must fully exchange, understand, feelings are not produced.
3, don't be too impatient in the process of communication
There is a relaxation, don't get wrapped around all day, who will be tired of this to you. I have a good friend to tell me, the key to chasing girls is eight words - "I'm a cold and hot," this is my classmate how many years of crystallization).
You are naturally wrapped in people all day, I don't think you, your proper cold one or two days, girls will think of your benefits.
Also, don't take out the "not you don't want to", it's too good, sometimes you can play a trick.
4, to create opportunities properly
As mentioned earlier, don't make things immediately become "you are chasing others", and you need to get close to the chance of the girl, then you have to see your creativity.
You can collect intelligence, try to turn the crosen to the rabbit into a piece; you can also install it uncomfortable to find the most best reason to invite the other party to do something with you.
In short, this is the most technical place. It is really impossible to ask for the predecessors.
5, don't avoid: Just send people a gift is impolite
Some people chase girls, I like to buy things to buy things, I don't know how to chase girls.
As the saying goes, "I don't worry", you send people like this is to put pressure, people will feel owe you, so I will want to give you, if there is no way to give you, I will think about it. So you always owe you. If you want to show your sincerity, you may wish to ask the girl to consume together, such as finding a good restaurant, or to play with your place, the girl can naturally see that you spent a lot of money, but the money is Two people spend their own than turning home.
Third, what is "girlfriend"?
1. "Girlfriend" is a fact, not a commitment
You and the girl began to interact, from "ordinary friends" into "good friends", then "very very very good, no words, friends", a sunny afternoon, you "accidentally" pulled her. Hand; "Willow in the moon", you suddenly attacked her. At this time, she is already your girlfriend, whether she admits, her psychology has thought that you are his boyfriend.
I know the tallest, until I got to bed, I didn't ask "You are willing to be my girlfriend", and finally the girl is anxious: "Why don't you ask me to be your girlfriend!"
So, don't rush to smoke the window paper, the more beneficial to you.
2, what is "confession"?
As mentioned earlier, the confession is actually a form. The correct order should be: In fact, it has become your girlfriend, you can confess to people, water to the stream. Many people don't understand this problem, always think that people will promise to be their own girlfriend, and then how to say, I can only say that he is very "simple", which is very "stupid."
3, is there any time "I can't do it alone"?
Yes, for example, there is a third party, or if you and the girl's relationship is not ripe but two people may separate.
At this time, the confession is a confession of the conditions. The risk is very large. When the go of Go, the situation is grim, the backward party is forced to release the "winning and negative", win, and only say " Unlucky is born. "
4, "Love" is not easy to export
I often see the "bold confession" in the forum. I really think that this is a very inconspicuous manifestation. "Love" is a sacred word, which means pursuit, which means that it is committed, and even a responsibility.
Just say "love" man is irresponsible.
Fourth, civilized love, can not force
1, not every MM can catch up
A good girl will always have a lot of people, and it is impossible to have the wish of everyone, there will always be a loser. For example, even if you have worked hard, you can't catch any one in Twins.
Consideration of the problem, a rural small babysitter that has not graduated, even if you are better for you, earn 600 for you to buy 700 gifts (overdraft), willing to "when you are a horse", you will not love She. If she is crying every day, you must feel annoying.
So love is a material basis, at least balanced.
2, chasing MM is a serious social activity
Don't get people in trouble, leave it back. What is the husband? Some MMs are indeed lightening (a few), if you don't accept the gas, you can have anger, use facts to prove that "she is gone,", there is absolutely don't mistake others.
Finally, I added that I would like to be cynical in front of MM, and my creative customs sometimes means "you fail."