1, misunderstanding:
In the early years, there is a young man who married a young man. After marriage, his wife died because it was difficult to produce, and one child was. He is busy, busy with the home, because no one helps to see the child, train a dog, the dog is smart, can take care of the child, bite the bottle to feed the child, and raise children.
One day, the owner went out and called it to take care of the child.
He went to another country, because of the snow, it can't come back on the same day. The next day, I went home, and the dog immediately went out to welcome the owner. He opened the door, it was blood, looked up, the bed is also blood, the child is gone, the dog is around, the whole mouth is also blood, the owner discovers this situation, thinking that the dog is eaten, big anger Below, pick up the knife and kill the dog with the dog.
After that, he suddenly heard the child's voice, and he saw that he climbed out of the bed, so he picked the child; although there was blood on his body, it did not hurt.
He is very strange, I don't know how it is, then look at the dog body, there is no meat on the leg, there is a wolf next to it, and the dog is biting in the mouth; the dog saved the little master, but he was killed by the owner. This is really surprising in the world.
Note: The misunderstanding is that people often don't understand, irrational, unparalleled, lack of thinking, failing to understand each other, reflect on themselves, and feelings extremely urgency.
In the beginning, I have only thought of the other party's wrong; therefore, it will make mistakes will be more and more deep, get can't make up, people misunderstand the ignorant animal puppy, still there will be such a terrible serious consequence The misunderstanding between this man is, it is more difficult to imagine.
2, nail:
There is a boy with a very bad temper, so his father gave him a bag of nails; and told him that whenever he had a temper, nail a nail on the fence of the backyard.
On the first day, the boy nailed 37 nails. The number of nails slowly slowly will be reduced.
He found that it is easier to control your temper than those nails.
One day, this boy would never lose the resistance to the temper. He told his father, his father told him, now starting a nail whenever he can control his own temper.
One day, the last boy told his father, he finally pulled all the nails.
The father held his hand to the backyard to say: You do very well, my good boy. But look at the holes on the fence, these fence will never reply to the past. When you are angry, you will leave scars like these nails. If you take a knife, you will look at someone else, no matter how many times you said, the wound will always exist. The pain of the discourse is like a true pain, and it is unbearable.
Note: There is often a never harm between people and people who can't let go of each other. If we can start from yourself, start to take care of others, I believe you (you) must receive many unexpected results ... Helping others to open a window, that is, let yourself see more complete Sky......
3, and slowly?
Most of the colleagues are very excited. It's rare to go out inside, and those who have been nervous to die, now it is more embarrassing.
"He is a good person! It is an old good person, which is more likely to be more exciting than the previous supervisor! For four months, when it is really disappointed with the new supervisor, the new supervisor has been invested - the bad son will open, Can you get promotion. When you start, the quasi-discipline, and he is conserved in April, it is simply like a whole.
At the end of the year-end dinner, the new supervisor gave a word after the three patrols: "I believe that everyone will express my new to the performance of me, and I feel unexpected. Now I heard that I said a story, you will understand:" I I have a friend, I bought a house with the house. He moved in, just put the yard, and the weed tree was clear, change his newly bought flowers, and the original house owner visited, entered the door. I was shocked: "Where is the most proud of the peony?" I found that he actually shoved the peony as a grass.
Later, he bought a house, although the yard is even more messy, he is in the soldier, and since the winter thought it was a metric plant, there was a flower in spring; spring thought it was a wild grass, and the summer became Jinyi; There is no moving small tree, autumn actually red leaves. Until the autumn, it really recognizes which use is useless plants, and greatly eradicate and make all precious grass to save. "Speaking here, the supervisor raised the cup:" Let me respect every place, because if this office is a garden, you are the treasure of the same, and the treasure is impossible to flow a year, only for a long time. I only recognize it!
4, wide:
This is a story of a soldier returned by the Vietnam. He called his parents from San Francisco, told them: "Dad, I am back, but I have an unfortunate. I want to bring a friend to go home with me." "Of course!" They answered "We will be very happy to see."
However, the son continued to go "," But I want to tell you first, he is seriously injured in the Vietnam, there is less arms and one foot. He now goes no way, I want to ask him to come back with us. "
"Son, I am very shameful, but maybe we can help him find a place where you live." Father said again, "Son, you don't know what you are saying. People like him will cause our lives. Big burden. We also have your own life, can't let him destroy this. I suggest you go home first and forget him, he will find your own sky. "
Just at this time? l Hanging up the phone, his parents don't have his news.
A few days later, this received a call from the San Francisco Police Station and told them that dear son died. The police believe this is just a simple suicide case. So they hurtfully fly to San Francisco and led the police to the remains of the son under the police.
That is indeed that their son is right, but surprised is that his son actually, only one arm and a leg.
The parents in the story are the same as most of us. It is easy to went to love the face, or talking, but it is too difficult to like those who causing us to be inconvenient and unhappy. We are always preferred to maintain a distance from those who are not as healthy, beautiful or smart.
But thank God, some people will not be so cruel to us. They will love us without regret, no matter how bad we are always willing to accept us. Pray to God before you fall asleep tonight? Give you strength to accept others, whether they are what people are; Help us understand those who are different from us.
Everyone's heart is hidden in a magical thing called "friendship". You don't know how it happens, but you know that it will always bring our special gift.
You will also understand the friendship is God gives us the most precious gift! Friends are like a huge treasure. They bring laughter and inspire us success. They listen to our inner words, share each praise with us. Their atrium is always open for us. Tell your friends now, you have more care. Imagine: Friends, after you look down; must have a deep feeling. Then, before the decision and judgment of others, first, think about whether this is a "misunderstanding", then, please consider whether you must nake this "nail", if you can, please "and slow down".
Because when you are "wide" for others, it is wide to yourself.
