I have started working, and I came back to myself. The fourth point, selfish; from buying something from helping classmates, many times, it is just to help others, but when you really want to go, you always want to find an excuse to escape help, such as silent slip, pushing, pushing Wait. . . Analysis, in fact, when it is not used for a small thing, it is sometimes do not want to help, the reason is one, afraid of trouble, and it is also a thing; Second, I want to return, I look forward to helping him. Next, let him help it, but did not help next time, I didn't want to help again; three, embarrass, this should be a focus, my heart wants to have a steady sitting, I have to help him. Let's think about these three points, one, since it's just a small thing to raise your hand, what does it help? What's more, you are classmates or friends. Second, want to return, actually just think about the short-term return, in fact, why is this small thing worth paying? Originally, you have to do this, just helping people again, there is no burden on the self, there is no loss, what is small and cheap; its third, is the most important thing, what is good? He is your friend is your classmate, but it is just a small busy. Why is it unfair? If it is a stranger, let you help him a little busy, you are willing, let alone classmates? Of course, these are the previous psychology, people are now mature, but now it should be cherished now, but should know how to pay. In the last year, when can I get together in the future?
In the fifth, Taiyuan, it is too reserved for people, not good at communication and opening your heart, this result is not to communicate with strangers, it is difficult to make friends. Think about it, how many friends have been handed over from the three years? What are friends? Xiao Busy, a little busy, can be used as a joke, occasionally, but really wants you to pay a certain amount of effort, effort, and cost to solve the problem, you must help. If someone can do this to you, you can do it now is a real friend. According to such a definition, my university has been a real friend. . . This is caused by itself. After three years, a series of 180 people, a class 90 people, I have not been recognized, the name is almost half, there is more than about 1/3, maybe three people have not said a sentence If this is a classmate? The last year, if this is closed, my university will fail. This extends, the closed person is impossible for leadership and organizational skills. Therefore, university four years, there is no duty, even in BBS, in this virtual environment, I also closed, as a Technology version, do not dare to discuss, afraid of the cold field; no group of supporters, self sung. . . Perhaps, this is natural, this is personality, I want to change it is also a very difficult thing, there is no certain mutation, there is no environment, and the change is really difficult. However, I have realized that I have to go out to change now, even if I fail, even if the cold field is, I should call no one, even if I say some words, I have to change, and I have experienced. . . . . .
Sixth point, inferiority. Infine and what is it terrible? It is afraid to lose face. Infine, indicating that there are many shortcomings in some ways, and they are afraid that they are more than others. At this time, you are afraid of being lost, then you can't ask something, you can't ask for knowledge, you will only explore yourself, the gap may become constantly bigger. . . . . Unfortunately, afraid of the face of the face is also a little in front. . . . . . First English, I think, I will think that myself is an English idiot. Sure enough, the final exam is very good, giving me the first university, and is in the late highlight (f * * K a teacher). Here, I am more inferior, more and more think it is really English idiots, I don't dare to speak more than English, I don't dare to speak, I don't dare to write. . . And die, think that the class is not so important, a diploma is not worth chasing. . . Even if it is a piece of paper, it can still react a certain value, CET46 has not been, even if you can see MSDN, you can see English help, you can do ACM English questions, but you spend time, you receive it in the same time. Content, how much is it compared to people who really speak English? . . Similarly, it also manifests other aspects, people who have been more than knowing, because they feel inferior, do not dare to ask questions; . . . Now, it is time to throw itself, re-understand the self, the same, the problem of character is not formed two days a day, correct, not for a day and two, but I will work hard for this . As a person, it is certain that there is no more people; if there is no one to help you analyze, I only analyze myself. The above may be a bit, but there is actual existence; there is no one or two days, then so concentrated, not doing, just want to pay attention to it, just think of a little three years. Today, the last year, in the upcoming campus, just want to come out, meet yourself, correct yourself, is some no change, knowing your own shortcomings, is also the help.
