In the process of continuous shaping self, the biggest impact is the attitude of choosing optimism or pessimistic attitude. Our ideological choices may bring us incentives, and it is also possible to block us advance.
Clear planning goals are the first step in success, but shaping self is not limited to planning goals. To really shape yourself and you want, we must work. Shakespeare said well: "Action is better than eloquent."
Once you have a self-motivation, the process of self-shaping will start. The following methods can help you shape yourself and shape the self that you have been dreaming.
Establish a distant shape to self-shaping, have a goal you wake up every morning, it should be your life. The vision must install immediately, not to drag it. You can always change some changes in your own ideas, but you can't have a distant view.
Leaving the comfort area constantly seeking challenge to motivate yourself. Improve yourself, don't lie down in comfort. Comfort zone is just a safe port, not An Le Wo. It is just that you are ready to meet the next challenge, deliberately relax yourself and restore your empty.
When you have a happy emotional person, you will have a wonderful change in your body to get a new power and strength. However, don't always want to be happy outside themselves. Let you be happy, just on you. Therefore, finding out your own emotions used to constantly motivate yourself.
Many people have surprisingly found that they can't achieve their goals, because their main goals are too small, and they are too blurred, so that they lose their power. If your main goal can't stimulate your imagination, the implementation of the target will be far from time. Therefore, it can really motivate you to work hard, establish a great goal that is both grand and specific.
Strengthening the 20th century Author Anais Nin (Aysi) wrote: "The people who have indulged life do not die." I think that the longevity is not good for you to enjoy life. However, most people think about this, pretending to have their own life. On the day, we will plan our big career, and pin our goals and dreams are called "Unreal Island" in Enis Waitley (Denis). In fact, the dead death is not necessarily waiting until life is exhausted. In fact, if you can realize our longitude, the club will definitely regenerate the feeling of regeneration, which is the first step in shaping yourself.
Open your friends for "friends" that don't support your goals, you have to be far away. The people you have change will change your life. As a cynical, they will pull you. Focusing those who wish you happiness and success, you will take the most important step on the way to pursue happiness and success. There is an infectious enthusiasm for life. Therefore, with the optimistic person, we can see more people hope.
The secret of the confidence in fear is the secret of the confidence in the fear is that it is a safe and advantageous thing to defeat fear. Even if you overcome the little fear, you will also enhance your confidence in creating your own life. If you want to avoid fear, they will be passionate about us like a mad dog. At this point, the most terrible thing is that the eyes are all pretending to present.
The road to adjust the plan to achieve the goal is by no means a tank. It always presents a wavy line, and there is also a fall. But you can arrange your own resort. Take a look at your timetable in advance, frame you relax, adjust, and restore the time. Even if you feel good now, you have to make a good adjustment plan. This is wise. When you have your own career peak, you must arrange a handling point. Arrange a long time to let yourself retreat, even if you leave your own love work. Only in this way can you be more passionate when you re-enter your work.
Face-facing difficulties are for a problem. Neither of them is dispensable. Difficulties For mental movements, it is just a hard game. The real athletes are always looking forward to the game. If you look hard as your curse, it is difficult to find motivation in your life. If you learn the opportunity to grasp the difficulties, you will naturally drive steep. First of all, I have to feel a lot of people think that once a goal is reached, people will feel comfortable. But the problem is that you may never meet the goals. Establishing happiness is nothing to have to deprive himself to create happiness. Remember, happiness is a talent right. First of all, there must be a good feeling, let it make yourself full of self-joy, but don't wait until the last moment of success, you will feel your own joy.
Strengthening the first "rehearsal" is a complex battle than you have to face. If there is tricky in your hand, you are hesitant, you may wish to do it more difficult to do. Life challenges you, you can use it to challenge yourself. This way, you can open up a success of a success. The true meaning of success is: the more demanding it, the more you get to you; the more you get to you, the more demanding you.
Based on exercise now. Take advantage of the current cognition. Don't be immersed in the past, don't dilute in the future, you should focus on today. Of course, there must be a dream, planning, and developing a goal. However, after this is ready, be sure to learn to work hard and pay attention to the action in front of you. To condense the entire life at this moment.
Dare to compete for competition to give us valuable experience, no matter how good you are, there is always someone else. So you need to learn modest. Work hard, can make yourself deeper yourself; trying to get someone else, add the competition "game" in your life. No matter where it is, it is necessary to participate in competition, and always have a happy mood. It is important to understand that others have not surpass themselves more important.
Most people in the province have seen themselves through others. It is very good to get someone to himself, especially positive feedback. However, only the words of others, putting their personal images on others, will face the danger of serious binding. Therefore, only these overflowing words are used as embellishments in their own lives. The chess game of life will be put by himself. Don't look for yourself from others, you should often save yourself and shape yourself.
Trend the crisis crisis can inspire us to do our utmost. Ignore this phenomenon, we tend to create a comfortable life, strive to design a variety of relaxing lifestyle, so that you have to live in a calm. Of course, we don't have to sit and wait for the crisis or tragedy's arrival, and challenge yourself from the heart is the source of our lives. Joan Of Arc said: "All the battle of all battles is first in the heart of self."
Seiko fine creates yourself, like painting a huge painting, don't be afraid of precision fine pen. If you use your own as a masterpiece, you will be happy to change from the fine. A little thing is different, and it will be excited. In short, no matter how small you have, you are very important.
I dare to make mistakes sometimes we don't do something because we didn't grasp it. When we feel that "not good status" or indifferent, we will often put things that must be done on one side, or the descendants of the static. Don't do this. If some things you know, you can't afford it, despite it, don't be afraid to make mistakes. Give yourself a little self-ridiculous humor. Holding a kind of interested mood to treat yourself, once you do it, even if you are happy.
Don't be afraid to refuse to accept the rejection of others, but to face it. When your requirements fall, take this refusal as a question: "Can you make more ideas?" Don't hear the words, you can fight back. This should make this refusal to motivate you more creativity.
Try to relax as much as possible, try to relax. When the brain is starting peace and your central nervous system, you can feel that your inner motivation is increasing. You will soon know what you gain yourself. What you can do, you don't have to pray that God gives you courage, and relax can create the courage to meet the challenge. The minority of the life of a life is the key to the self, but you must do a small matter, but you must do it immediately. It is a step-by-step process. It's a little here, let's change it, will make your day (that is, your life) is tasteful. Today is a small atom of your entire life, it is the epitome of your life.
Most people want their own life. But life is not in the future. The more we think that you have enough time to do what you want to do, you will quietly pass the wonderful opportunities in life in this intoxication. Only pay attention to today, the strength of self-motivation can be ignorant.
