Source: http://sfu.51.net/index.php? Mp = 4 & sp = 6 & id = 20010523125053 I wanted to write such an article. This article is written to all the wandead of foreign countries, and also write it. In China, they are striving to become a molecule through various legal illegal means. Not only for international students. I want to say that many people don't understand what is life, and I have hurriedly escape the garden. In addition to a few people In addition, most people have pursued their dreams in an exotic country. In addition to the huge number of success, more is the bitterness and deep loss of struggle. Does your life are better than domestic? I can't see it. Most may say, I have money than before, I can buy something that I can't afford it before, I can't think about it. Yes, you really have money than before, but money is all life. Is it far less. You should ask yourself a real feeling. Pay attention to the word "real". Many people have the nature of life in life, and there is a long day, what is life Essence? 1. Family. This is a wonderful feelings, in addition to the very few six-pro, the cold blood animals, who is less? When you only drive the ocean, you have left your parents, brothers and sisters Friends lovers and their children. Some people may take one of them and relaxes, some people are almost from death. Don't underestimate these family, sometimes you can stick to these support. These you are in China. I feel that there is no, sometimes even if it is a cumbersome thing? How much is it? Is it 100,000 US dollars? Million dollars? I should see the number. So you can fight abroad, you can Have you earned this? Some people don't think so, I feel that only the flower-green dollar is money, can buy a house, car. Nice, the house car is important, is it more important than your wife? Your house car doesn't have a relatives to share with you, you drive alone every day, go home every night, go home to four walls, do you think this is satisfied? You may find some people to vent your needs, get some comfort, such as finding chicken, looking for a road lover, but these people provide you with your family a grade? Can you compile? Some people say that now traffic, communication tools are developed, more calls, and return to the country. This does solve a problem, but in general, it is not enough, and the cost is too high, most people can't do it. For example, you will leave for a few months old. Your economic strength is not enough to pick your child, don't say the soul of the year, you have the ability to get the ability, see your child, can you feel the kind of normal people? Although you have affordable children, your child is no longer so harmonious, and you may cause a family crisis, in fact such an example is much. How many people are in the face of the situation, is it, indifferent? At this time, if you can save money to buy the feelings of the common people, how much is you willing? I see even if you are pouring all, you are willing to buy, and you only bought the general people have a natural thing, it is very nature. If you don't go out, you naturally have it. The most essential question is to struggle for so many years, where is it? Some friends who have a single body may not understand this, I feel that there is no hanging, one person is full, the whole family is not hungry. Yes, you have to be a little better than someone who has some mouthfuls. Some lucky people will find some good friends or lovers, and life is full. Reality is so lucky. In the United States, I have been in the United States. Many people have been too early, and they are still alive, most people are not because of the cause of the business. To find an opposite sex feathers in the United States, talk about what is easy, believe people in it deeply. Ordinary boys, even after graduation, even if you find a job, you can only make a lot of discounts, because his choice is very small.
Don't say American girl (including American Chinese) is not expected (there will be some examples, don't raise this), the domestic girl is also a few, far less than a melon, fortunately, fortunately, most of you don't have to talk about love. . Many people rushed to get married and quickly left. Even if the two have a heart, but in the midst of the embarrassment (I don't exaggerate this), who can guarantee good to the end? How to do? Some people have killed their domestic, lightning marriage, and omitted the love process of domestic young people. It has proved that in many cases, it is only a family tragedy for the world. How many people have normal love in foreign countries? If you are in the country, maybe you have a good night's love. Here is to ask, how much is this love value? The sigh of "life is precious, love is higher" should not be ignorant, I think many of the probes will be more profound. There is such a family, some are fatal. Why do you say this? A person is not a smooth sailing, there will always be a big and small setback, such as unemployment, loss of love, divorce, sick, and poor academicism. You may not encounter these bad things in a certain year, OK, who can guarantee that you will not encounter after a few years? As long as you meet once, you will find that you are so fragile, so it is easy to hurt. Your golden steel bone is only a lonely heart that is unrequited meat, and will you need a soothing? The most typical example is that Peking University Luogang, the academic business is not smooth, love is nothing, psychological disintegration, and finally kills suicide. Some people will say that this is like this, and it will kill in China and have nothing to do with foreign countries. I can't see it. As far as I know, he is undoubtedly a relatively excellent class. In China, he will mix it with a good location in China. Even if you have been frustrated, there is a relatives who have a goodness every day, and you will be easily adjusted. His misoperation is to choose the wrong abroad. I am like a relatively self-closing person, in addition to my loved ones, can some outsiders understand? The tiger that hurts people will also have a tiger. There is also an example of my side. A young man, come to California, within half a year, you can't eat the meal, you can't sleep, you have a serious spirit and weak, you can't see your doctor, you will have problems. I don't want to look back, I am consuming. I was persistent by me, I found a few people to put him on the plane. Can't arrive in a month, he is back, but it is completely changed, and the god is flying. I didn't eat a medicine at home, I didn't see a disease. How specifically, vivid examples. I don't know, I will come back how long I can come back. In foreign countries, good friends are busy people, have been sick, no one has a cup of boiling water, and a person falls there, I feel that everything is dark, the end of the world is coming. The hospital is not dare. So all the wandead of foreign countries, all pray that you are free. At China, my wife lived in a few postures, and I took care every time I took it. The number of times, I said to my wife, I will change you next time, I also taste the taste of care, I am recognized here. It is not a horrible thing to live in China, which is at least for me. However, now, for me, there is no more horrible than this.
This spring, I went back to Beijing to see my wife, I can't help but tears. I began to question myself, I will leave them, what is it? The best situation, I took them over, my wife is destined to work, for her, stay away from his own Cishi mother, discarders their comfortable work, in addition to accompanying me, what is the fun of her life? Place? Her feeling will be better than in Beijing? I have no confidence in this. Love this thing, more than an older, and it is impossible to cut. I think, I will roll a lay on a certain time. I don't exist in my heart. I hope more people have no such mental obstacles. 2, eat ancient people, people are taking food for the day. American technology is developed, and the financial resources are rolling, but they can't solve the problems of all of you most of them. KFC, McDonald's place in the country, there are not less than just the most of this. How, is this feeling of this and the feeling of Beijing? If there is another place, you will choose to eat KFC? From eating, your life quality decline is not questioned. On the busy day, many people don't even eat breakfast, Chinese rice, a few pieces of bread, and have a good evening meal compensation. More situations are to work, and there is no time for cooking. Knowing a few people, I will go back very late at night, and three meals a day will be made. Yes, there is milk with milk, there is heat, which will never cause malnutrition, but in order to fill in the belly, there is a dock enjoyment? And your money is not sufficient to make you eat a good place every day, and there are very few authentic Chinese food outside the country. When I am in Beijing, I am basically three days a meal, every Monday. Dinner, the restaurant in the Zhongguan is eating all over. Eating at home, one or two bottles of beer every day. Eat this level, most people in Beijing are ok, I am in Beijing when I am in Beijing! This is a fact. If you mix in China, take out your strength here, don't eat it, eat it? I know that many people include me every time I have eaten. When you look at the burden, can you have anything else to enjoy? From this perspective, most domestic ordinary people are happier than you. So, how much is the loss of the spirit and feeling of eating this? 3, I feel this is a big and complicated topic. The happiness of life is reflected in a pleasant feeling. If the poor egg is better than the rich people, if there is any money, if he is worried, is his life is happy? Therefore, this is associated with the money, but it is not necessarily. I said that most of the prickles feel unpleasant, but there is not much person dare to admit. People are abroad, life pressure is large, basically unreasonable, there are many people can't bear it, but they have to bear. Of course, this is undoubtedly the best to worry about a person, it is not good. However, the will of the will offered this life is not a disaster, and various tragedy happens. The first is the language problem in the United States. In the school, the situation is better, people speak in English. In addition to the school, the situation is very different, you have contacted a variety of dialects, just as China's Cantonese,, you must Yunshan fog. This is a very painful thing. Many people are only limited to their own circles, that is, the language will not have a long time. In this way, there is no doubt that I have a job. Looking for a job is a big event, everyone is red. If this is a soul, your American dream should be awake.
The international students truly practice all kinds of tricks for this, even if the personality is still at all, there is a man. In the country, the elegant, Confucian, picking fat, etc., is storm, saying that Singing is not too much. I can't find a job, I read another school. A lot of old Chinese students in many universities in the United States are unique. It is even more harmful to work in the restaurant. It is a few years. I'm numb, I really don't know what they can talk about. Their common point is never returning to China, and the death is going to be there. I don't want to find a job, I want to go to the green card, I have to solve my identity. Here is the ability to take advantage of the camp. The fact is that most people can't get the green card. The United States is a free country, but it is never a generous country. The US local people include black people's discrimination against Chinese. I have no few people who don't have to teach, that is, those who come in the same kind of early you are not looking at you. What is the truth: Who wants to run so many people to grab his rice bowl? This kind of insult to the wounds of the soul are difficult to say. I can't help but ask, how much is the value of such a trauma? It is still a little better in the United States. Other places, the situation is even more miserable. What kind of life that is wandering, I don't want you to think in advance? An inentable accomplice, the future is a lot of people feel. The feeling of you at this time is absolutely less than those who stay in a country in a certain institution and a free casual. What I want to say is that you have a diligent freedom in China, and there is a free freedom; but in foreign countries, you only have diligent freedom, there is no free free freedom. This situation is now changing, but it will not become so fast. Another point is that there will be no feeling in China, you can do things, except for crime. Please don't find what bureaucracy here, causing you can't do this. For example, you don't want to teach, who can stop you with the sea or open the company yourself? There will always be roads. Before you, have you so casually? When you always live in the survival crisis, will you feel the spring and snow? That's right, you are dollar, more than the domestic bobility, but you have to see where you are. In foreign flowers, most people think that they are poor. Don't feel good because of your poor? Similarly, it is not too great to do it in China and in the United States. Don't believe, you have a tens of thousands of dollars and a large number of domestic airs, you will find that you can still behave the poor, the big paragrace is still the same as the day, will not be more than him than him than him. He can think about how to spend money, and travel abroad is strange to them. If you are in the foreign countries, we will be laughed off. Of course, people have a message, not forgive. People who don't come back have thousands of reasons, they will not recognize their situation in abroad. Some people think that they stay abroad, how is it, and they are more than a good person in China. I advised these people to converge early and led to the laughter. There is a buddy staying in Singapore for a few years, I don't think it is. When I returned to China, I've been talking about the opening and closing. How dangerous in Beijing is Beijing, how is the order, how crowded housing. But just dropped down, drilled the restaurant next to the road, and it was obvious that it was suffering from the stomach in Singapore. In the next few days, I would like to visit the Di Hall and playing for stock. If he is still so chic, it is also worth it. However, how many young people playing in Beijing? There are many buses! You know, buying a car is a dream for most Singaporeans! Even if the absolute value of earning money, many domestic young people are not under. Several friends I saw home in the Spring Festival have earned more than 10,000 yuan per month, and they have more than those friends from foreign friends.
