1 Physical Attraction (attract each other)
2 Shared Goals, INTERSTS, And Belief System (Understanding each other's ideals, interests and beliefs)
3 MUTUAL RESPECT, ACCEPTANCE, AND THE DESIRE TO PLEASE EACH OTHER (mutual respect, accept, both parties have the wish of the other party)
4 mutual honesty and trust (sincere and trust in each other)
5 Realistic EXPECTATION for Each Other and The RelationShip (there is a relatively realistic expectation for the other party)
6 a Balance of Dependence and independence (in terms of reliance and independence)
7 A Cooperative Approach to Ploblems (Cooperative Puzzle)
8 a Shared Life (living together)
