Character decisive destiny (one of Yangbin Interview)
"The contradiction between life, most of the conflict stems from the character of them." Character decided to fate. "The successful scholar Yangbin said. So can the person change?
Yangbin believes: "Yes!" Although there is a saying: "Jiangshan is easy to change, it is difficult to move." But there is another sentence. "The only law in this world is 'change'."
All things between the universe, people 's character will also change with the environment and circumstances. So, can a person master their character?
Yangbin, is known as "people affecting a generation of Chinese people", sounds like a review in the historical textbook.
Recently, the popularity of personal success is emphasized that "Qian practice hundred", "drill improvement", play the same type of terminology, motivate everyone to cultivate, the movement of the dream of the dream.
It sounds like a new faith? In any case, plagiarism is not related to the times, don't copy more than people - just as Yang Bin said, we have reached a game who 'first' starting again.
The only way to overcome competitors
"The only way to win the competitor, the only way is to learn quickly than the other party! Learn is better! The two meet, the brave wins; the two brave meet, the strong win; the two encounters, the wise people wins! "Yangbin said:" We have entered the era from the labor era. In the farm society, the successful people have the land. Enter the industrial era, they will be produced by manual work. Now is the era of science, the most valuable Brain. Therefore, we have to invest in the neck - increase the wisdom to get power. "
"The first generation of entrepreneur is more than courage. Later, it is better than advertising, next to advertising, than marketing, than public relations, than service, and is more than corporate culture. Now it is better than the mind, the life of the company. It is less than a normal life. The average life expectancy of the company is only about 7 years. For 300 years, about 3, one company has disappeared from this world. This time is better than the direction, the speed, which is better than production. Value, you will see who has learning! "
Looking for the coach of life
"Our earliest coaches are parents. Earlier is the innate character. But in the process of our growth, in order to cater to the parents' requirements, we have to wear a holiday mask. For example, in the case of squeezed toothpaste (no toothpaste without saying For the detector), I am used to my father from the middle, and the results are often married by my mother.
So we have to change your habits and squeeze from below. In the working environment, the boss and employees will also wear a mask. This mask is different from home. Of course I am not blame the mask. The mask is not divided, it just makes us adapt to the props of different environment.
"Everyone is not the same, whether it is mother or yourself. In order to cater to your mother, I have to wear my own mask. (Welcome to Dad doesn't need it?) For, my mother is a careful, everything is well thought. So I have to wear a mask that seems to be my mother, I will ask my mother.
"In the company, your boss may be a motive type, he leaders firmly, but the character is impatient, there is no patience. But you are a perfect person, and everything is slow, then you can conflict between you. .
"Conflicts in each level of life are often from personality. Different personality have different thinking patterns. Most people can only understand and understand people with their own pattern, and do not understand other thinking patterns. Therefore, in real life 85% of the troubles are from interpersonal relationships.
People's life, you have to rise, you have to decline.
Just like the records in the historical textbook, the characters have always started from the childhood. Yang Bin is no exception: "When I was young, my father did my coach (because is it to have a mask to wear a mask?). He gave me a big impact, because he gave us a stable Asylum. "When I was young, I was very naughty. I often beaten - for some specific people, some methods are tube, some methods are not good -, but in the generation of our parents, they don't have this kind of bottom Understand this matter. In different times, parents have different education methods.
"At the age of 15, I really want to learn guitar. But then the family is poor! One week, there are 4 days to eat steamed bread, eat coarse food in 2 days. How can I ask my father to buy a guitar to give me? So I will The friend borrowed a guitar back.
Borrowing things, whether it is a book or a guitar, often learn very fast. But the guitar of others is not the same, and the meaning of the guitar that pops themselves is different. I still have my own guitar.
"So I went to the brick venue to find scrap. In 1983, China has not heard of 'Work' this word. But I have been looking for a door to realize my own wishes. I put bricks in the brick venue, then When I arrived at the site, I looked down again. Every day, I do 35 months. I did a total of 2,000 yuan in this work. In addition, add 32 yuan, I bought my beloved guitar.
"This is the first time I am so strongly pursuing my dream. In the university period, I started singing, and a group of friends group agencies research guitar. I also learn football, basketball, martial arts, etc., my character is very big in the group. I have hone. I started to be a person who can do one can play myself.
Success is not crusal
"After graduation, I went to Shenzhen. I left my parents to hone myself to face the challenge of life. But I haven't worked for a month in Shenzhen. I studied the architectural professional, and it is very competitive. I The cheapest wrap. I started from the most ordinary staff. After many years, I will be promoted to the manager.
"I have experienced success in such an experience, but I have an inevitable effort. People's life, it is necessary to decline. But serving as a higher vocational for several years, I found myself slowly numb. Didn't want to rise again. That is not my character pursuit. I like to play my own potential. The job is not my interest.
"I believe, pull out the tiger's tooth, it will not become a cat. One day, I accidentally heard a motivation course, and I opened another door. Then I opened the company, engage in real estate, engage in market plan.
Through your own failure, I share management experience with others. Later, I walked on the platform to talk about the pyramid schemes and marketing, and they were very popular. I will slowly locate themselves, slowly find a direction, and put the personality school into a system ... until today. "
"This society is people-oriented, all things do not open. To solve the problem, we must understand that people are the root of the problem. One key can only open a lock. There are different ways to treat different people.
Different personality traits have different thinking. Our personality is 40% from the gene, sixty percent from a living environment, and this environment is a variety of factors such as religion, beliefs, family, economic conditions and education backgrounds.
"We will say that Jiangshan is easy to change, it is difficult to move. The reason why the personality can't be changed is because it is always integrated with our lives. Some behaviors can't change it, not because you don't know it is not good, but Because it is deeply buried in your life, becomes a trap and it is difficult to extricate habits.
Therefore, it is necessary to eliminate bad character, and we have to make determined. One of the ways to enhance determination is to get along with those who have the advantages you have, so that you can be infected and better. "Then Yang Bin talked a joke." Some people want to be a training beast, and they will find high people to learn. It was found, and the high person was worried about the disciples (the seniants in all stories were still pleasant to come to see the status and the humility of the people).
The high person will soon be out, and the apprentice said, 'Do you see the goldfish in the cylinder? Can you train it nodded? First of all, you have to nod it, it looks at you, I will nod. After half a hour, I will come back and see if it learns to nod.
After half an hour, Master came back. The apprentice told him that I didn't want to make goldfish nod. Master called him and try again, and then flew away. After a week, Master came back and saw that the apprentice was in a daze, turned into a bucket, and a mouthful of goldfish in the air. One is one. "
It is said that Yangbin laughs with people around you.
"This joke is to say if you can't affect others, then you will be influenced by people around you. If you want to optimize, you will be with the optimism. A person's behavior pattern determines his mind and mind, and decides him. fate."
