1, the situation is different
A small pig, a sheep and a cow, is closed in the same corral. Once, the shepherd caught the pig, and its loud voice called, violently resistant. Sheep and breasts hate it, said: "He often catch us, we don't call Xiao. Little pig listened to reply:" Catch your and catch me is completely two things, he catch you, just want you. Mao and milk, but caught me, but I want my life!
Unlike people in the position, it is difficult to understand the feelings of the other party; therefore, therefore the frustration, setbacks, pain, should not be pleasant, and should be careful. To have a tolerant heart!
2, rely on yourself
Small snail asked mom: Why do we have to carry this hard and heavy shell?
Mom: Because our body has no support, it can only climb, and it is not crawling. So the protection of this shell!
Small snail: caterpillar is not bone, can't climb, why don't she have to carry this hard and heavy shell?
Mom: Because the caterpillar can turn into a butterfly, the sky will protect her.
Small snails: But the younger brother didn't climb the bones, nor will it become a butterfly he doesn't have this hard and heavy shell?
Mom: Because the younger brother will blister the soil, the earth will protect him.
Small snails cried: we are so pitiful, the sky does not protect, and the earth does not protect.
Snail mother comforts him: "So we have the shell!" We don't rely on the sky, and we rely on yourself.
In every corner of the world, men can only rely on their own animals. I said before: Moscow does not believe in tears, now today, men don't believe in tears, the biggest sympathy and tolerance for a man may make him feel that they rely on it ...
3, shark and fish
Some people have done experiments, put a fierce shark and a group of tropical fish in the same pool, then use the strengthening glass to be separated, originally, the sharks constantly impress the can't see the glass, Tle, Tle, it is only futile, it Never go to the opposite, and the experimenter has some squid every day in the pool, so the shark has not lacking the prey, but it still wants to go to the opposite, want to try the beautiful taste, still impress the glass every day. It tried to do every corner, every time it is exhausted, but every time I always get the scar, I have a broken bleeding, and I have a good day. Whenever the glass occurs, the experimenter Add a thicker glass immediately. Later, the shark no longer collided with the glass. It is no longer concerned about those treasure tropics, as if they are just moving murals, it starts waiting for the squid that will appear every day, then use his agile instinct to hunt It seems like returning to the sea is not a fierce domineering, but all this is just a false image. Experimental to the final stage, the experimental person took the glass, but the shark did not respond, and every day, it is still fixed in a fixed area. Not only do you look for those tropical fish, even when those squid fleeted there, he immediately gave up chasing, saying that there was no longer passing, the experiment was over, and the real insperient was laughing. It is the most weak fish in the sea.
People may be the most cruel animals in the world. The human society has the will of people, and those who lack faith will set less psychological obstacles for themselves. The man is also like this, and the fight and loss will make most men no longer have ambition of the past, no longer have ambition ideal, and replaced by the reality of the reality, the shark is the case, is there anyone? 4, miracle
A remote town of France has been transmitted with a special kind of water springs, often there is a miracle, can treat various diseases. One day, a veteran who had a crutch, less legs, a rumored to walk through the road of the town, and the towns next to him said with sympathy and said: "Poor guy, is he wants to give God Pray that there is another leg ?? "This sentence was heard by the veteran, he turned to him:" I don't want to pray to God has a new leg, but I want to help me, call me. After no leg, I also know how to live. "
Imagine: Learning for the lost gratitude, accepting the lost fact, no matter how life is to lose, always make your life full of bright and glorious, no longer dull tears, and work hard.
5, fishing rod
An old man fishing around the river, a child walked over to see him fishing, the old man skills were so familiar, so did not catch a full of fish, and the old man saw the child very cute, to send the whole fish to him, children shake Shake your head, the old man asked: "Why don't you?" The child replied: "I want your fishing rod." The old man asked: "What do you want to fish?" The child said: "This squid didn't have long time." If I have a fishing, I can catch myself, I can't finish my life. "I think you will say: good smart child. Wrong, if he only has a fishing rod, he can't eat him. Because, he doesn't understand the skill of fishing. It is useless to have a fishing rod. The wind and rain on the road, so, it will inevitably fall on the muddy ground. Just like a child look at the old man, I think that if there is a fishing rod, I have a fish, like the staff look at the boss, thinking that as long as she is sitting in the office, there is a rolling financial source.