Where is your peaceful hiding? - Talk about the competition of the students http://www.xlgt.com User: Black eyes and Du teacher chat feeling not bad this I thought that Du teacher is so busy, will not chat with me, although I have it above my QQ, But this afternoon, I met Teacher Du, talking to him for a long time, I feel that I have understood a lot of things, so I will thank Teacher Du. I don't know how to organize our conversation, so I feel I feel that I have a meaningful place for everyone, I am referred to, huh, huh :) Black eyes: I think you are right, but people are not only live In your own world, there is also the world, China's society I think is not very sufficient to develop, so sometimes after living, sometimes I feel very tired, teacher: This is the case, Mr. After the deposit, the black eyes are developed: I can't accept this statement, if I won, I saw that people left, my psychology was very difficult, I lost I felt that I was still very sad, I think the competition is so cruel, sometimes I didn't want to compete after seeing the dark side, I went to Du teacher: this problem is more common black eyes: I think so, this may be an excuse to escape, I sometimes feel that I am very spear. Teacher Shield Du: You are afraid of competition black eyes: I feel that competition is still good, let employers find the right candidate, huh, I don't want to be elected, so I want to be boss, I have a boss. . .
Teacher Du: There is no place in stability. Only you have continued to upgrade your own way to take yourself: I think my parents' thoughts will not support me, they always hope that I can find a faceful job. Waiting for it, support me to read Bo, I protest him to tell me "big" truth, the dark side of society, etc., I don't want me to go out, I don't want them to be sad, but I am sad, so I have n'thing. Selling my boyfriend, he compares me, I think I am at least not suitable for learning, I like to deal with people, interested in the economy, I want to go out, huh, it is afraid of wolf, I am afraid, what I have, what I have, However, because I am a girl, I will go back to compromise, huh, huh, very contradictory Teacher: You are not black eyes for your parents: Yes, I think so, they think I am their children, It should be done according to their thoughts, they are good for me, but I think I should make me do what I want to do, don't pay too much money, there will be no lots in the future, but I think about my life. I have been very happy, I will not turn into a bitter gourd to be a bitter gourd. Your parents should support you, but your current competition is not strong, definitely let the parents are in black eyes: Oh, this, maybe It is now I like to play too much. I read a year. I know that I will see "Idle" book, and I have no professional knowledge. In order to enroll students, I got a very nice name. Brightness, huh, huh, huh, I don't look, old and my boyfriend, so I have no actual things, I don't have a sense of accomplishment, I will be afraid of competition (can't be said to be complete, this is one of the reasons) I am too water. Building, huh. Teacher Du: Then you need to pay attention, this phenomenon is very common. . . Black eyes: Will not, I only have our hospital, but it is said that I haven't seriously considering these things before, after all, my university's homework is heavy, read, rest, talk about friends, who will In the case of society, even if there is also the same chair of the day, I'm going to see the problem is not as simple as the previous, and the dark things that you see are more, the psychology can not be completely adjusted, plus employment Pressure, huh, still very scary, but you will read a book, I believe that I have always rewarded it or I can realize my own value. Although the phenomenon of unfairness is, but the optimism is better, it will be better to say good. What will I do in the future? Like your professional? Black eyes: I don't know, I have to save, (now understand), then I don't know what I will do in the future. I don't like it for myself, nor denying it useful to Teacher: Reality, but you need you to plan for the future, especially your specialties and advantages. You need to do some test questions online at http://www.xlgt.com - Wonderful downloads before you can truly determine your advantage. . . These are important (oluntary) Du teacher's reply: today is a little time, so I will talk to "black eyes" for a while.
From the above chat record we can see that parents have played a lot in the choice of classmates. There are two aspects of the problem, one is that parents lead their students with their own point of view, this is a lot of parents, the characteristics of each era are different, and good flowers cannot stay in the greenhouse forever. In fact, from my personal experience, I will no longer educate my children to live with a stable work, but to exercise my ability, so I am not afraid where it is. I have worked in the software company. The young "sea turtle" boss said: "Mr. Du, there is a meal!" This is the best praise for me, this "where" is the world can Not necessarily China, not necessarily the United States, Africa can, huh, huh, because I will solve a lot of work in "114" phone, many customers are found in "114", I will be I have a friend with others in a very short time. This ability is not a lot of people. This is a famous school school than you, what big companies have worked. For an example, you have learned mathematics, and any natural science can learn well. Ha ha. The second question is: The state of the students now really make parents can't rest assured. Social competition is extremely fierce, but our classmates are a little fear of competition, afraid of society. In addition to learning, many classmates learn very little about society, understanding is also a negative thing. Many graduate students have an evifex attitude. Undergraduates are not good, they will take masteric students. When they graduate from the master's degree, they are not satisfactory, and they will read, life is spent in reading. I hope that the students can truly face reality, Lu Xun said: "Directly bleak life" This courage is still required. Otherwise, it is hard to life in the future. Regarding the level of competition, I will give an example. I have given a chief representative. He told me that his wife was developing abroad. He has developed in China. His wife said: "Why do you want to treat others so much? So fiercely treat your competitors?" His wife has begun to enjoy the leisure life in foreign countries, he said: "Dear, you don't I know that it is not easy to earn money now. I used to work hard. Now it is desperate job! "There are many students who are very suspicious. In fact, this is a real life, it is like it to say, the college entrance examination is to see the score, and it will not work. China is now in this fierce competition, there is no way. Learn to survive first, this is very important. It can be said without exaggeration. Competitive warfare has been burned abroad in China, and many of foreign multinational companies have a lot of practices represent the future development direction of Chinese companies. From this point, students should cherish the current learning opportunities. Many students will pass the exam, take a diploma, but that is not the fundamental goal of your postgraduate. Postgraduate, professors, academicians have depreciated, only you have learned the true events. As far as I know, many graduate students spend great time to download movies and fall in love. This is a pity. If you just got a degree, this degree is very easy (since China's college students "big leap forward", graduate students are more jumped!), Then, do you think that society is willing to buy this "single"? The market rules are odd and are precious. If the university is more than a factory, then the certificate of classmates is a diploma, but people engage in the market know that there is no password not to be the most important, it is important that this product is produced according to the market needs, Can't meet the needs of society, if not, even if you are a post-job, this case is much more.
Our lovely education department, respected mentors won't be laid off, this is like China's stock market, one lost, self have to rush, the stockholders have jumped, but who I heard which stock exchange ( Not a securities company? So, every classmate, especially the graduate students must cherish their great time, learn something useful, don't take the degree as your purpose. Otherwise, you will be more confused. In another case, a master student of a famous university, students think that all of them are good, but they can't find a job. why? She will learn, according to China's examination system, it is easy to obtain a master's degree from a famous university's popular professional master student. This major is still popular in three years. However, as she said, because she thinks her own professional, I downloaded the movie every day, and I will take a diploma with the instructor. When I graduated, many employers were looking for her, but why can't I "sign"? Every time it is "one side", there is no news, she is very confused. Her students are also very confused, this classmate is very good, why can't I "marry"? After half an hour, I will know that she does not miss the degree of famous university, and she is not short-tempered. It is not a beautiful appearance. She is mainly lacking is a competitive awareness. She regarded her graduate as a chip of her so-called good rice bowl, but she never thought, can I bring what benefits from the company? - This is the core issue of all recruitment units. She always thinks: "I am a master's degree in a famous university! I am a big thing, I can't do a little thing, I can't stand the unstable work, I want to take high welfare of state-owned enterprises like my father, need one Raise me for a lifetime, I want Beijing account, I want to pay high salary, I can't do the challenge! "- A high-priced vase! Which company boss dares to be such a master? ! Confusion is not terrible, terrible is that it can be self-changing. I hope that the students must seriously think about this problem. In the face of the fierce competition, how should students plan their future? Is the university campus a place you have been learning? ! Maybe each classmate is not the same, but a person who lacks competition awareness is hard to stand in this society, even if you are said, graduated, mix, teaching, I am afraid it is not so good. ? Northern Northern Northern Northern Northern Personnel has opened the presence of personnel reform? Which place is your peaceful hiding? The answer I want to think, let's write. Mind communication, restore is the essence of people
