1. If you want to pick honey, don't hive;
The objects we have are not absolutely rational animals, but full of emotional changes, visiting, conceivable and vanity.
Criticism is like a pigeon, and finally the finals will fly.
We want to blame or correct the object, they will argue to themselves, even in turn to attack us, or want Tofl offset: "I don't know what to do."
Sharid criticism and attack, the resulting effect is equal to zero.
There is only a smart talent criticism, accusing and complaining others --------- indeed, many stupid people do this. However, understanding the people and forgive others, need to have self-made Kung Fu.
Thomas Carlaire said: "The great man shows its greatness from the behavior of the small person."
→ Don't criticize, blame or complain others.
2. The most profound driving force in human nature is "hope to be important."
Carnegie prepared the epitaph prepared by himself: "He is lying alone, he knows how to kid people who are smart than him."
→ Sincerely praise others.
3. Only one method under the sky can affect people, just propose their needs, and let them know how to get.
Tomorrow, you may have a chance to ask someone to do something, remember, before you open, stop and ask yourself: "How can I let this person want to do this?"
→ Impressing the urgency needs of others.
