Sender: jiangeu (free sword), letter area: Ambition
Title: The best people you know
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And the best people you know
Active person has the fourth practice of mental health and the active person. Regardless of your real life or imagination, those people who are used to getting along will have great influence on the goal you want to be an ideal person.
Your goal should be able to "fly with the eagle". Your goal should be to be the best person you know.
You have to be with the winner, while staying from those self-violent, there is no interest. Because many can't control factors, about 80% of people are not very active, no ambition, no goals, not very successful.
They have no big achievements in life. They are wasting time, complaining every day, and when they caught the opportunity to complain. If you are with this kind of person, you will become like them.
Dr. David McClelland, after Harvard University for many years, discovered that the "reference group" you chose is the biggest factor to determine your future. Your reference group is what you agree, interact, and and your own group.
The family is your first reference group. It has a significant impact on you as an attitude of you and the environment. If you are actively supporting your parents, they will encourage you to see yourself and your ability.
During your growth process, you will naturally look for and attract those similar to you. You will agree with them because they have a lot of common points. When you do decide and take action, you will think of them in your heart. They are your reference group.
When you are growing up, your school and college students have become a member of your reference group. Your alumni and work partners have become a member of your reference group. Your social activities and political parties have become part of your reference group.
Over time, you will shape yourself and those who are similar to you in your heart. You will take the same value, attitude, behavior, ideas, ideology and beliefs of these people.
And active people will make you more active, and negative people will make you more negative. A successful and achievement-oriented reference group, whether yourself or you are reading, you will have successful.
A negative, there is no target, will make you like those people, becoming negative and no targets. Your choice for friends and colleagues will dominate your future.
Since your reference group has a lot of influence, you must keep your distance with the negative person, and deliberately avoid those who don't respect, don't envy, don't imagine them.
You must be cautiously choosing friends you wish to spend time, because they have an impact on your thoughts, personality, and anything happening on you.
Almost all successful salespersons are described by their colleagues. This is not to indicate that they are alone, or most of them are in a single time. This means that they are very selective, they are not willing to waste time on negative people.
They will try their best to avoid these people. They understand these negative people or "toxic people" will breathe their time and enthusiasm, let them feel tired and negative.
On the other hand, positive people will make you feel happy and optimistic.
They are very active and enjoyable. They will inspire and encourage morale, and they will always talk about opportunities and possibilities. You will feel happy with them, and after you leave, you will feel better to yourself and work.
Your goal is to be a person who is happy to be fun. When you become a more active and more charming person, you will find yourself will attract other active and attractive people with you.
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