know
this
Seven
thing
Do not
in vain
One
Born
Have you planned your life? Still doing a day and hit a day, everything is affected? If you don't have a clear goal, it is likely to lose. In today's society, it is very intense. You don't know how to survive. If you want to divide you, grab your work and girlfriend, in short, you will defeat. If you want to win, you must understand some rules for survival. All this is no mystery, just need to face the facts. You can dismissive, continue to fall in the life road, don't know why you are not successful; you can also do your own life. Law 1: Understand others, strive to support the leaders of business and other people, and most of them know how to make things you have to do. They will convince others to accept their views and know how others will do. You want to get support for others, what do you know what they value most? What beliefs and fears? What do you want to say to get their trust? You have to control others, and you must respect the self-esteem of others, and he feels that "this matter is good for me." You have to learn from people dependies on, experienced. For example, you find a new job, you should listen to the way of the company's operations to one or two old employees. They are familiar with the company, you can tell you the high-level preference, even tell you the secret of promotion. You must understand what you are "why" and "how to" do your current work. You have to understand the nature of humanity, only this, everything you do can cause resonance of others. French 2: You must also understand that you must understand your behavior: you should be responsible for your behavior. If you don't like the current job, if you are not happy, your responsibility is on your own body. As long as you admit that the current situation is caused by yourself, then you can analyze how you can lead to today's situation. Have you misunderstood others, or forgot to put forward your own requirements, or too low for yourself? Understand your responsibility, you will open it, will not say anything, "Why are they doing this to me?" You will say: "How do I do this? How do I have self-transformation?" You understand? "You understand Solving the problem, you will take yourself, you will take action to change your life. Pay attention to I didn't say you blame yourself, just say that you have to be responsible for your behavior. The difference here is very important. I want you to understand: how to choose, how to do things are determined by yourself, so you should be responsible for the results. Even if you have a painful experience when you have a childhood, then you are unable to resist; now you are adults, you can definitely ask Du Fu. You must understand that in the past, the future is the future, you have to know the house. French three: People are, more attention to you want to die, no mouth can't help but don't help but can't help but lose your temper; you don't want to make steps, but finally. This is constant, what should I explain? You violate the idea because you can get the reward. The simplest example is the excessive diet. You know too much good health, but for you, you can't stop. If you want to stop a certain behavior, you must eliminate this behavior will bring you the idea. If you want to affect the behavior of others, you should first understand what they seek, if they do it, then you can get the return. For example, many parents have heard the baby crying, just pick up the child. The child thinks that as long as you cry, you can have a return, so often use this trick.
It can be seen that inadvertent rewards may encourage the behavior you don't want to see. Is there a similar thing between employers and employees between employers and employees? Understand and master the return of the behavior, you can control your or others' behavior. This principle can make you control the ability of things greatly increase. The law four: It is impossible to solve the problem if you don't want to face the problem. You have to understand your own, not afraid to question your beliefs and behavior: Are you too lazy? Too timid? Do you have a living objective? Is it often confused about yourself? You can't find an excuse to take responsibility for yourself. Shut off responsibility will kill the dream, and even make you embark on the road. If you always go to the committee, escape, you will never face the problem, so you can't solve the problem. You have to admit that you are not perfect, you have to learn from experience, courage to choose, and change the status quo that is not ideal. Law 5: How to reward people how to see you, will be a punishment, depending on your behavior. In other words, the action is the most important. What do you think in your heart, people will not care. No matter what kind of thought or reason you have, if you don't put it, there is no value. For example, the doctor knows that you have a breath, but you don't know if you are still dead; knowing that your marriage has had a crisis, you still don't work hard, and the marriage will finally take the divorce.佻 There is only a case of cutting, and you can change your life. Please take action to do something for life. These things can be looking for new jobs, in short, the actions will bring new motivation for your life. You will know new friends, find new opportunities, and will soon find a lot of life. Law 6: Don't be dismissed that life is impossible to have difficulties and troubles. Some people may live in a family life, but it is not going well; some people are opposite, work well, family is a mess. Accepted this fact, you won't think every problem is a crisis, and you will not think that you will be the loss of your life. You are your own manager, you must talk about efficiency and fight for a rich return. If you are not a good manager, you have to cheer up, not determined to solve the problem, not an inverse. You have to develop a full plan for yourself, don't let the fate. To understand: Everything you should get should not be poor than others, you have to work hard for yourself. If you don't seek great rich, you may have a very comfortable day, but this kind of life is too heavy, it is not necessarily a blessing. To be a good manager for yourself, you have to go out of comfort, work hard to achieve higher goals. Law 7: Identify the goal, strive for me to confirm, suppose there is a wreath from the bottle and say: "Please tell me what you want?" Most people will open the tongue, do not know what is good. They probably say: "Don't anything." But this can not. You must identify your goals. I suggest you have a big plan for a little more. If you want to build a more intimate relationship with your child, don't wait for them to grow up again, there is no need. At that time, when you find that you missed the opportunity, you will regret it. What is successful? What is the feeling of success? How will you fight for success, where are you fighting, and who is fighting? You have to be bold, but you can't get rid of reality. If you have been 45 years old, you can't jump and you can't run, but you want to be a professional athlete, that is too unreal. You may have to choose another goal. If your goals are high or unusual, please don't be 启 启.
