A self-report of a Wang Lao, dear mm, will you marry me?
Some people are constantly told me, "I am not small, I should find a girl to get married." Yes, I am not a small age, I should find a girl to get married. I have always been lazy and some of the righteousness, I should have actions. But looking for object marriage is two-way choices, you see people, people may not consider you. The so-called finding object is just that I will consider looking for a relatively satisfaction, so I must first figure out which girls will consider themselves, so that they can be targeted, or they may lose their feelings and useless. youth. And what kind of aspects will be considered when a woman thinks about how to choose a man to marry him? I think repeatedly, summarize the following: First Fortune Analysis: A person's wealth refers to his existing wealth and the expected future income sum. No matter how we said that our spiritual civilization has developed to how to have a height, how to survive for most people is still a harsh and realistic issue. There is a meal, there is clothes, there is a room, and the sick is rich, the child is raising, and this is probably a very low-level life goal, but the vast majority of people are hard to achieve this goal. For most people to ensure that today and tomorrow can have clothes and eat, there is a room, and you must keep working. Even if you keep working, you have to buy a house for many years; you can't guarantee sick Must be rich. Everyone wants to be able to live but also live better as much as possible, although it is said that the quality of life cannot be used to measure the substance, but the word "living level" seems to be special To measure. So the vast majority of women, whether she is an ordinary rural woman, or an excellent woman with a high economic independence, and will definitely put wealth first when choosing a marriage object, of course, will also consider education, rights , Capabilities, social relationships, etc., but also to consider how much wealth can be converted to how much wealth can be converted into it. A woman is not the upper limit for men's wealth, the more better, but the rich man is too small, and men looking for a woman, but also the same idea and women's wealth can be as good as possible. There are many, if each girl is going to marry a money, I am afraid that most will never marry. Reality is also ignorant, and the general woman will be almost the requirements of men's wealth, but this "almost" is generally asking men's wealth than twice the woman. If even this requirement is more difficult to reach, it will return to the next, but the reduction requirement is also the bottom line, that is, he and his family must never be poor than yourself, even if you can't make yourself through marriage. The living standards are improved, at least can't make your living standards decreased because of marriage. In addition, if a man himself and the financial situation belongs to the local area, he probably find a girl who is equivalent or lower in its own economy, but if he belongs to the middle and lower, it will be a lot more difficult. . Because the general poor girl will change the desire to change their living standards through marriage, it is generally less willing to consider a man who is equivalent to an economical position. It's very vulgar, but the truth is like this, just how much is how to buy a room, how much a man is a woman. Generally, a man is looking for an object to choose from a woman who is less wealth. Self-race: I was born in Rural Area, Anhui, now working in Shanghai's foreign electronic factory. Parents who have a general farmer do not have any wealth to give me, or even a grass house. After working for more than ten years, relying on less absence, multi-class and saving, all deposits are more than 20,000 yuan.
No housing, have been renting a house, there is not much property in the family, the most cost-effective property is a Pentium two-pack computer, a Epson printer, a Philip 21 color TV, a three-star mobile phone, the total value of 15,000 Left and right, now I want to change when the second-hand goods sell probably more than 2,000 yuan, I have not been able to shoot; other table and chair bedside stool wrapper wok bowls, the home life, such as the warehouse, etc., is very simple. The annual salary is about 30,000 yuan, generally 100% a raise a year. Although there is a risk of unemployment in a short period of time, in this era full of variables, it cannot rule out the possibility of decline in income and even unemployment in the future. My current annual salary is 30,000, considering the stability of the work, it is hard to say how many discounts from the long-term come to see the bottom. Compared with this house price in my work and the capital city of the mainland, there is also a small town in Shanghai. One of the most common people will have a house, and a set of most common houses is me for ten years. I can't buy it, here, I am an absolute poor. Here is something that is more poor than me, just like me from the field and the low salary. But if you put your eyes far, the total revenue of hundreds of millions of ordinary farmers has a total of tens of thousands of people. The same hundreds of millions of ordinary urban residents have more than 100,000 yuan in China, and they look at all parts of the country, and they seem to have a woman in my poor. a lot of. Second geographical location analysis: Women find objects to consider the geographical location of men and the same considerations for men's wealth. There will be few people in the big city. I will marry into the small city. The girls in the small city are willing to marry the countryside, and most women in the countryside have married the towns and small towns' women's dreams to marry the big city. The woman in the central area wants to marry the central area. This is also the consideration of wealth. Due to the existence of local economic differences, people in the general economically developed areas are rich in unresponsible regions, and people in large cities are rich in small cities, and people in the small county are rich in rural people. In addition to wealth, the average person always hopes to live in a better place in an environment, the place where the birth is not choosable, but the marriage is equivalent to the second time, too many women hopes to change through the marriage. Your own living environment. Search: The place where I work is a small town in Songjiang District, Shanghai, an hour drive from Shanghai, is 20 minutes drive from Slunjiang City, not very prosperous, and the ordinary town of the mainland is almost, but consider Shanghai and medium. The city is not far away, there should be some small and medium-sized or rural girls willing to marry here. Third: Girl's original work analysis: I don't know if it is a society's progress or degradation. In ancient generals, a family makes money enough to make money enough, but now, in order to meet the needs of continuous improved material life, in order to Others are not very bad, and their family's living standard is not bad better than others, at least too much, except for a very few successful people, most families need couples to work. If a girl is to marry the field, she will give up the original work to re-work. For ordinary people, there is a job is not easy. There is a good job is more difficult. A common people do not have a communication. For example, if a secondary school teacher in Guangxi resigns to Shanghai to find a job, it is probably unable to enter Local school re-acts, for example, I am doing mechanical engineers in this company now. If I quit, I will never find the same salary, but I'm even more salary than now. The work can't be found.
If a girl gives up his original work married to the field, and she can't find a job after it, don't talk about the so-called love, then to ensure that she will not decrease her original living standard because of this marriage, even if they don't consider The price is poor, not only his current wealth can't be much less than her, but his income is minimized. In fact, a woman who left his parents home away from the country, and something to sacrifice, if there is no big improvement in the new place to live, I think she will not consider. Generally, his property is at least three times more than her property. Search: There are several distant MMs on my QQ, civil servants, teachers, and white-collar workers, I sometimes will laugh with them, my laughter, of course, I can, I can't casually. Don't say just a language game, even if you really have a good job, whether they give up their work to me, I will give up here, I am not realistic. Under normal circumstances, a long-distance woman is willing to leave the original life to marry me, her original economic status will not be too good, the work income is not high, or there is no job, it can't find it under normal circumstances. jobs. It seems that there are other possibilities, such as the teacher MM or the civil servant MM or the white-collar MM, in order to marry the original ideal work to my factory is a general worker without regrets (if you are willing to marry my girl In the distance, I should introduce her to my factory work, just usually can only do workers on the production line), or she rely on her own ability and opportunity to find a very good job. Good development is still in love with me, I don't marry. . . Oh, some dream, who I am? The fourth appearance analysis: Whether it is a man or a woman, it will generally hope that the other party can be as beautiful as possible. Relative to women do not put this one in the most important position, if other conditions are almost, women are familiar with men. Most of the appearance, you can close one eye. Search: Don't be handsome but it should be ugly, not high but not very short. Just although the woman's requirements for men are relatively as high as men's demographs of women, they generally ask men's height than yourself, I am not a meal of me, the girl is 168cm or more, should not consider me. In addition, very beautiful girls generally be higher for men's wealth, I should not be considered. Fifth: Moral analysis: General Women's marriages always want to have a good life, so a man who follows the law is almost all the foundations, otherwise the family's live boat may be completely subversion. Of course, there will be some greedy and daring women in reality, and even support men in order to fight. Self-race: Absolutely good people, in line with the vast majority of women's requirements. Sixth: Body analysis: The body is all the money, the general woman will definitely hope to marry a healthy person, probably only some young women who have an attempt to marry the oldah will hopes that his body is getting worse. Self-race: Although it is not high, it is absolutely healthy. When I was a child, I can't remember it, but I have never been to the hospital since I have graduated from primary school. It seems that I have eaten a few cold medicine. It should comply with the vast majority of women's requirements. Seventh: Consumption habits: Analysis: Most of the contradiction between general couples is caused by the consumption of both parties. Men suspected women spend too much money in costume makeup, women resentful men smoking and drinking too much. In fact, the woman often does not consider how much he earns, how much can he consume in the money before marriage, how much can give himself or give home. A husband who has incorporated five hundred flowers a month is more practical than a husband who earns three thousand spends more than one month.
