"Men from Mars from Mars, Woman from Venus" in Su Qing:
The deepest fear of men is not good enough, or not qualified.
Men are particularly susceptible to his mistakes. This belief makes him fear failure. He wants to give, but he is afraid of failing, so he refuses to try. If his greatest fear is not good enough, he will naturally avoid any unnecessary adventures.
Ironically, the more you care about the failure, the more give it, in order to avoid the embarrassment, he also stopped for the people he most want to give.
The original text is:
A Man's Deepest Fear Is That He is Not Good Enough Or That He is INCOMPETENT.
A man is particularly vulnerable to this incorrect belief. It generates within him the fear of failing. He wants to give but is afraid he will fail, so he does not try. If his biggest fear is inadequacy, he naturally is going to avoid Any unnecessary risks.
Ironically, WHEN A Man Really Cares a Lot His Fear of Failure Increases, And He Gives Less. To Avoid Failure Hestows Giving To The People He Wants To Give To The Most.
