In my life and work, there are a few words that have a very important guiding significance for me. I am willing to share with you ...
The first excellent is a habit
This sentence is an ancient Greek philosopher Aristotle. If you are excellent, it is a habit, then lazy is also a habit. When people are born, in addition to temper, because of the nature, the other things are basically formed, and they are the results of family impact and education. Therefore, our words and lines are the habits of the accumulation of the month. We have some people form a good habit, and some people have formed a bad habit. When we were about 20 years old, we already have a conscious consciousness, and it has begun to understand what habits will benefit us for life. So we have to turn out the excellent behavior from now, so that our excellent behavior is often, becoming our second day. Let us habitually go to creative thinking, habitually go to do things seriously, habitually appreciate nature, habitually appreciate nature. Many of my habits are gradually developed in the "New Oriental", including the attitude towards teachers and employees, to many things. You have developed an excellent habit, you will be excellent in people's eyes. For example, let us learn to smile today, leave the sadness to yourself, bring happiness to others. No matter what you are really a professional smile, as long as you laugh, you will be beautiful and beautiful, you will leave a beautiful impression. In Western Society, you walk to many places are smiling, although you know that is occupational, you can still feel that these smile people are very kind. If we are "new Oriental" employees, everyone will go to work, everyone will feel like suffocating, maybe we give him more money, he is not necessarily in "New Oriental", unless he is a favorite Abuse.
The second sentence is a process
Despite the results of the career, it is more important to do things, because we are living in the process of every day, every day is not happy, equal to the whole life is not happy. So even if we pay attention to the result of your career, because the result, we will happier, but the process makes our lives.
The final result of human life must be death, we can't say that our lives are meaningless. Joy is the desire of life itself. Humans are animals that will laugh in the world, but they are not the only animals that know the joy. All animals have joyful nature, which can be seen from many small animals. Human survival must often have a higher goal than to maintain survival, because human beings must have a spiritual life in addition to material life, so humans must pay more difficult than animals. In terms of substance, we hope that the salary of 2000 yuan this year will become 3,000 yuan from its own efforts next year. After all, 2000 yuan and 3,000 yuan give us the quality of life. The quality of life is different. But in addition to this, we must also make spiritual life.
Zeng Guofan said: "But ask hard, don't ask for harvest." He is not said that we don't want to gain. Zeng Guofan's meaning is very simple, put the seeds into the ground, the seeds naturally grow, and it will last naturally gain, but it is more important to water water and fertilize it in the process of maintaining crops. Because only this, the crops will be strong and strong, and the harvest will be better. In addition, you will work every day, the laborest labor process is your best experience in your life. Welcome to the sun to the beautiful earth, look at the sunset, go home, this feeling is not very good? Almost in the realm of Tao Yuanming's "Chrysanthemum under the East Term Festival, see Nanshan".
So everyone must seek fullness every day. There are very few eternal in the world, college students are in love, every day, I will love you forever, this is actually unreal, just expressing a wish. But we are still saying, because at least at that moment, our expression is the reveament of true feelings. Pursuing eternal love is a common dream of human beings because people are always enriched in love. But the real life is not the case, and the statistics show that college students talk to falling in love with 90 pairs will break up, and then half of marriage will divorce. Do you say that love can eternal? So the most authentic saying is: "I am today, at this moment, I really love you." Tomorrow may lose love, we will experience the pain of falling love after falling in love. Then let's experience, go to experience, this experience is also a process that enriches your life. The shortest distance between the third sentence is not necessarily a straight line.
Especially in the relationship between people and people and the process of doing things, it is difficult to do things well. We sometimes need to wait, sometimes need to cooperate, sometimes need to be skill. Perhaps the aircraft can fly between two points, but even if the aircraft is flying, if there is a atmosphere in front, it usually only bypass the atmosphere flight. We will encounter a lot of difficulties and obstacles, sometimes we don't have to hard, hard, we can choose to have difficulties around, there is obstacles to go around, maybe this is more smooth. Everyone wants to think, we have to think about which sentence is better to talk to others. Especially in this more complex society in China, everyone must learn to understand other people, to make people feel that you are mature, very good, you can make things.
The fourth sentence only knows how to stop talents know how to speed up the speed
The higher the quality of the car, the faster the opening. For example, like Mercedes-Benz and BMW, their high quality is not only reflected in the engine system, but also on the brake system. When you open these cars, you will dare to drive at high speed, because you know, as long as you step on the brake, the car will stop steadily, not to turn the car or go outside the road. But when we opened the summer, we will not open the same as the Mercedes-Benz, because we know if it makes it run too fast, it is difficult to brake, maybe it will hit the railing or turn it. So, people who don't have to hold down are people who are not running.
When I am skiing, the biggest experience is can't stop. I didn't ask the coach when I first started learning to learn, watching others skiing, I feel very easy, isn't it slipping from the top of the mountain? So I put on the ski board, slipped down, and I slipped down from the top of the mountain. I actually rolled down to the hill and fell a lot of fight. I found that I didn't know how to stop, how to keep balance. Finally, I repeatedly observed how others stopped, how to slip, then a little bit of geography, repeated exercises how to stop on the snow, slopes. After practicing a week, I finally learned to stop, sliding, and stopped on any slope. At this time, I found that I would ski, I dare to rush from the top of the hill. Because I know that as long as I want to stop, I can stop. As long as you can stop, you will not hit the tree, hit the stone, hit people, you will not be hit. Therefore, only those who know how to stop know how to advance.
The last sentence gives up is a wisdom, the disadvantage is a kind of benefiting
Once I read this sentence on a book, I started not understanding, but in life and work, I finally began to understand the meaning. In life, our flexible behavior is too persistent to your own things, pinching your things, don't give up. As a result, you don't put it, others will not share his things with you. There is no way to give up, this is what I understand. I am here to tell everyone to share the theory. When you have six apples, don't eat them, because you eat six apples, you only have six apples, only to eat a taste, that is the taste of Apple. If you take the five of the six apples to eat, although you have lost five apples on the surface, but in fact you got the friendship and good feelings of other five people. You can get more, when someone else has any other fruit, you will definitely share with you, you will get an orange from this person, and that person gets a pear, and finally you may get six kinds. Different fruits, six different flavors, six different colors, six people friendship. People must learn to use what you have to exchange more important and rich. Learn to exchange and share between people and people, this harvest is hundreds of times you will have six apples. This is because you gave up five apples, so everyone wants to think, give up, is it a kind of wisdom? What is the "disadvantage is a kind of grace? Just like we just started to say, if we are perfect, we have no development space. Every life is all, what is the live girl? The biggest pleasure is to get what we want by struggle. So a disadvantage means that we can further perfect, scarce means we can further work. I have seen a TV film in the United States. It is said that a rich man left an endless heritage. As a result, his offspring has become a drug, suicide, enters prison, or mental patient. Why is this so? Because this rich will have too much money left by the future generations, so they can inherit a lot of property. Inheriting a big fortune, I can buy almost anything. Everyone knows that the role of the money is that all things you need in the world, but only if you can't buy it is your heart, your friendship, and your sincere love. Because these are not can't buy, so you have money, the soul is more empty, you will try to fill your emptiness, and finally there is no way to replace it, so that you can enter an illusory world. So I said that when a person is not lacking, his living space is deprived. If we wake up every morning, we feel that you have a shortcoming today. I feel more perfect. I feel that I have pursued it. It is a very happy thing!
