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To all my friends, regardless of marriage and unmarried this is a very good article. If you have no time to taste, please seize your heart when you have time, look at it. A good article is really not much ... Single, sometimes it is no longer a noble. Single may be free, but the freedom has a synonym, called loneliness. Because people don't like someone else; sometimes good things need to be shared with people, sometimes it is difficult to comfort. The reason for single aristocrats is due to economic independence, independence of personality and independence. Independence? Independence is required without relying, an independent person needs an opposite sex, not dependence. Before doing the lover, she should be a friend first. After she became your friend, she appeared in your life, she may know you, know you, know your strengths and give you a good feeling, further develop emotions, become a lover, object. The color of the world is not only white and black, and there is a very long gray zone between black and white. As long as you have more, you can find the advantages of the other party, produce a good sense, this is the natural process of developing emotions. "Seeing the feelings" and "from one and final" feelings are unrealistic. What we need is not this unrealistic and illusory feelings. Some people describe with heterosexuality, as if they pick up the stone by the sea, everyone will like the one. Once you have a favorite stone, take it home, treat it, because it is your only stone. And remember, don't go to the seaside from now. Always believe, I have found the biggest, most beautiful, and best for me. The most important thing to interact with the opposite sex is nothing, but what is how good he is for you. If a person is very good, there is a hundred points, but this is only given you three or forty, or a twenty part; for the contrary, another person may have only seven or eighty points, but he But treat you wholeheartedly, then you should choose that one? In fact, everyone's conditions are the same. No matter how good you are, someone is better than you. Although you can't do a "best person", you can get a "best person to each other." Every boy can say: "Although I am not the best man in the world, I am the best man in the world." In contrast, the girl is also the same, this is what everyone is doing. The most important thing is that he is good for you, not what he himself. But if there is a person itself is already very good, I am sincerely sincere, I really love you, then you can really entrust his life to him. Now that women consider the only condition of marriage, it should be that you love him, he loves you, is it really true to you, will not have pressure with him, will not be happy, not what he is! The true love in the world is very difficult. It's hard to find a person who really loves you, really can live with him for a lifetime. If you are expressing, or if you are afraid, there will only be a true love that may have once a lifetime, that is, it is a pity, so we must take the initiative, say the words in your heart. If a boy can't look at him because of a girl, the boy is not a boys, but a beast. What's more, happiness is important than the face. If you sacrifice for a long time, you can change your life, it is very worthless, bravely telling your heart, don't hide your own sincerity. Don't say that the fate is not until there is, but the fate is everywhere, but it is slightly, if the "edge" is not in time, then there is no "copy". Most women are biased with their feelings, and men are biased in substances.
In addition to the affiliate of the girl, the boy must learn to be responsible for the girl. It is necessary to use all the girls in the world to be used for a girl. In addition, Just Yi Munger can't ask the girl, so I have to learn about the girl's sweet words, say more. Men, sexual love; woman, for love. A relaxed, happy feelings are easy! A difficult and painful feelings are not easy, then there should be some choice. We are all Fan Fu, as is ordinary and happy and happy love. For all emotions, the process is far more important than the results. why? Because all feelings are no results. What is the result? Married? Have a happy day after marriage? It can be seen that we don't evaluate its value feelings without the results of emotion, nor will it be argued in its value. For feelings, all there are existence, all have valuable. Every paragraph in the world, every minute, every second is worth cherishing. Marriage is the biggest gamble in life. In this unlimited time, we have to show each other to see each other. Different marriages and love are: love can spend two hours to dress themselves, and the spirit is attentive, considerate, and easily completed the task. However, marriage cannot maintain a state of high and oldest. Therefore, marriage is a big bet, there is a full preparation, a weekly plan, full trust, then go to it, even if it is, it is possible to lose. So if you are gambling, you know that you are not willing, don't love him, don't want to spend a lifetime with him, then this bet is destined to lose. Don't marry any reason outside of love. The preciousness is not that I can get anything from the other side, one aspect is a dependence, the feeling of being needed. Someone relies on me, I need me, I will get it. In the face of emotions, what we have to take is the three non-policies: the first is not anxious: don't worry. Although marriage is a good thing, don't worry, it is yours. The second is not afraid: don't be afraid. It is necessary to work hard to work hard to maintain your feelings. You can't get a beautiful feeling of "get", you can only find a person you beloved, to work together, create, complete a good feelings. If you are not determined to do a good job, then you can't get a good woman. There is no bad man in the world, there will be a good woman, the bad man will only have poor women; the same, no bad woman will have a good man. Moreover, there is a person who works with us and wants to do it well. The opportunity of this partnership success is very big, the key is whether you are willing to work hard and pay. The third is not to give up. When you have been hit, frustration, hurt, when you feel discouraged, when you are disappointed, there is unconditional, always standing on you, support you, encouraging you, comforting you, let you stand up to face this world. This power is that the parents who can't give us anymore, it is goodbye to give us another friend, only the beloved partner found in the journey of life can give us. In fact, love is the only life, truly precious; is also the only thing that is really pursuit. As long as you have a beloved person, you have original power, you can face the world. Comrades feel good, 嘻嘻
