Just finished "Are Your Lights". It is a bit rush, so many places, not particularly understand, especially if there are some green labels, I don't understand the true meaning of emphasis.
Although this is a book written to the computer programmer, but I think it is not only useful in the programming, in life, we have a reference value when we encounter problems.
After reading the first time, my impression is that "the problem is actually your expectation and your feelings." It is indeed this. If you don't want to think about something, you don't expect, then you will not mind the development of development, think everything is natural, it should be like this. When it is very concerned, it is full of expectations, no matter what the actual situation is better than expected, you will make you think of various problems.
In life, there is too much such thing, so there will be "expectations, the higher the high disappointment," "Shunqi", etc., actually, the distance between expectations and feelings, The question you will think will be less, and there is less natural trouble. But actually problems still exist, or you have not felt, or you don't want to feel.
