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There is only one child
- China's only child accidental injury tragic report
Public Welfare Times reporter Li Guangshun 010-86054908
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On July 2, No. 12, Daxi Temple, Haidian District, China Population Welfare Foundation, Miaolia, Secretary General Miaoxia, telephone ringing.
The other party is the head of the China National Population and Family Planning Commission, they entrusted Miaoxia to help them buy more new books "There is only one child." Miaoxia replied: "Wait a minute, I count, how many people are going, I will buy more."
"Beijing Literature" magazine Executive editor Yang Xiaolheng's report literature "only one child" has just been listed, the leadership of the National Population and Family Planning Commission has become its first reader. Miaoxia almost became "book merchants", July 1st, her principal bought 5 books, and July 2nd, it also purchased 30 of the relevant leaders of the National Population and Family Planning Commission.
According to Miaoxia, on July 5, Saturday, Sunday, including him, many national population and family planning committees have carefully read "There is only one child" this book.
As the name, "only one child" this book and the "one pair of couples can only have a child" in the current Chinese family planning policy, and on the cover of the book, and another topic "China's only child accidental injury tragic report" phase I echo, "1" of the Arab figures have been hit a deleted red circle, which makes people feel that this single seedlings have occurred, and the whole family caught in deep sorrow and darkness.
For Yang Xiaolheng, "The pain of unveiled people is an extremely difficult thing. It is also an extremely difficult thing. But this time, I have to do the first thing to be in the best thing." Why do you have to do it? Why do you have to choose the most sensitive children in the family planning policy to do?
Yang Xiaolheng said: "When I am like a lot of three in China, I am full of peace of music, I am afraid to lose anything." "When I first learned from the media, I learned a certain one in a certain city." When the family's only child is unfortunate, I will not be cold and chestnut, and the heart is deeply felt that it is difficult to speaking and sympathy. "
So, from two years ago, Yang Xiaolheng began to enter the only child families who suffered unexpected disasters. "Some of them are not their own strength, sympathizing and guidance, to soothe the injured, still dripping the soul "I want to attack from the difficulties you have experienced, and there is a three-in-one in China's universal existence, 'only a child' family model of the blood ecological status, and there is a result of the Chinese society, The impact of the Chinese nation now and the future. "
The interview and writing of this book took two years. Yang Xiarisheng selected six typical only children's families, using the technique of reporting literature, wrote these bleak situations of these experienced only children's families. According to the plan of the book, Li Yangquan said that Yang Xiaolheng wrote this book, it took great determination, and even prepared for "going to death at any time".
From the reporter in the information you have learned prior to, the National Population and Family Planning Commission adopts rational and open-minded attitude towards this book, Yang Xiaolheng does not have to die.
Yang Xiaolheng said: "... this matter, it is not only involved in the unfortunate children's family, but also related to all the only children in China, and even the relationship to the ecological status of the Chinese nation itself and the future of China. "
Sword hanging on a single child
"One day, two days, three days ... Zhang Wei's life fire is stubborn in the wind and rain, all people are all god, and they are full of hope that the fire of this weak life will continue forever. I look forward to this. Unlimited valuable youth life can have a miracle under the careful care of medical staff, this prayer and expectation have been carried out for 9 days. When the nine-day blood, Zhang Yuxia, Zhang Wei, this burned 17 years of 265 days of life fire, still ruthless, it is regrettable. "Zhang Wei is the first one of the six typical in Yang Xiansheng, and she is a student of Beijing 18 Middle School. 17 years old. The monochri in the family, if not, there should be university graduated now. In the morning of January 19, 1999, Zhang Wei suffered a car accident on the way to school. After 9 days, the treatment was invalidated.
Yang Xiaolheng has been paying attention to the problem of accidental injuries of the only child. He began a substantive interview on the accidental injury incident of the only child. "Since I started to invest this, I have no exception, I have no exception, I can't help but pay attention to my life around. Every time I am walking on the street, I must not be owned by autonomous, observe the bustling Unfamiliar roads, they or rushed in a hurry or rushed all the way, or the wind or heart. However ... the ring is the four we live, unfortunately, it is coming. "
The distant interview with the road is a deep feeling, and the things happened to the side also make him feel the fragility of life.
At noon on May 7, 2001, a 12-year-old girl was killed, and he did not stop, and he kept asking: "Is it true that the disappearance of life is like a meteor. After the moment, is it destined to have no sound? "
A young girl who lived with himself because of the emotional crisis, he looked at the blood that quickly solidified on the cement, and it was difficult to calm down the sea: "It is only the difference in life. The original beautiful life may instantly destroy, never to save - Is she born? "
Every accident from the individual person, to Karamay fire, Luoyang fire, Beijing Blue Bags, etc., the tragedy of the fire network cafe, and he lamented: "The disaster is always letting you make you so causing. You pray for the happiness of life, eager to live in the health and peace of life, sometimes the disaster is pair with you. The most interesting thing is that sometimes the disaster is not only an individual of life, but a group of life. Let you get swearing, feel desperation; let you unbearable, difficult to face. "
After combing a group of data collected by yourself, Yang Xiaolheng was shocked:
- In June 2002, a national survey released by the Intermediate Injury Prevention and Control Center of the Chinese and Australia, the child's malnutrition disease and infectious disease declined year by year, accidental injuries accounted for about 40% of child death factors. ;
The special survey of accident deaths in children aged 0-14 years in the 1990s showed that in various causes, accidents have taken the first place, accounting for 31.3% of total deaths; according to estimate, my country under 15 years old Due to death due to accidental injuries, there are more than 400,000 to 500,000 people.
- According to incomplete statistics, 16,000 primary and secondary school students in my country have died due to non-normal causes such as food poisoning, drowning, traffic accidents, suicide, and average every day, a class of students left the human world due to accidents;
- In the main risk factors that cause accidental injuries, in turn: traffic accidents, drowning, burns burns, food poisoning, falling, suffocating, suicide and he kill.
"There are 3-11 times the mortality in my country in China. There are more than one class (40-50 people) died due to accidental injury every day. There have been nearly 1 million families in my country who have lost their only children. Accidental injury has become a sword that is suspended on our only child's head. "Yang Xiaolheng said:" 'Best' means the only one, but the only thing is can't afford to hurt, but fortunately. "Loss alone How difficult family is
How difficult is the family life that is lost in Yang Xiaosheng? Lin is the story of loyal family.
Lin is a loyal family living in Beijing Guang'anmen, and his son Lin is riding a bicycle to the official park every day. On December 30, 1999, Lin was died of traffic accident on the way of school in China.
After the father of Lin is losing his wife, after the lifetime, the mood is low, and the grandson did something, he couldn't bear this suddenly, he was ill. Fortunately, there are other children and grandchildren to take care of him, and they can also rely on them.
But my grandfather lost my only grandson. Before Lin is still there, every weekend or holiday, his wife Liu Chunhua has always brought together her husband and children. When I watched the love of the grandchildren, this news took them down, and the two old people fell in the hospital. I can't get my eyes in the evening. I can't sleep, I can't sleep, my eyes are in front of them. Mage, the ear is desperately screaming when you are in a car accident. The grandfather couldn't stand this blow, and I was unfortunate in less than half a year.
Lin is a couple of couples have not returned to their homes in the son. Because they got home, the son last time, the sound smile, the sound of the sounds when they bid farewell, and they were always in front of them. Especially the wife Liu Chunhua, anything of the family can play a strong thoughts and clear memories of his son. She has dilestry, she is full, she can't live in normal life.
For the body's consideration, Lin is loyalty decided to leave the door and move to other places.
First, I live in my father, but I'm going to the weekend, Lin Yu Zhong's brother, my sister brings the children to see the grandfather, this kind of lively, Liu Chunhua. Lin is the first Spring Festival after the Chinese, everyone has a bowl to eat a reunion, and I have found that Lin is Huahua, a bleak, strong thinking feeling, and quickly blooming Lin Xiangzhong couple, and soon affected the whole family, this The happy New Year's Eve became a sad night.
After Lin Yi Zhong's uncle knew that they were, it proposed to live in their own. He has two sets of houses, letting a set of Lin Yin Zhong temporarily live, Lin is loyalty to the arrangement of uncle. Later, the unit gave them a set of two living rooms. In order not to have a wife to touch the scene, when the moving, Lin is handled by all the furniture, leaving only a TV, and the other furniture is completely replaced with new.
Despite this, Liu Chunhua after the fatal blow, the body is grateful. After the son did something, her spirit suddenly became, and it was sluggish all day. At the same time or friends care about her, come and see her, she also speaks with the spirit, but there is no power.
Concerned old "complement"
Since I lost the monochri, there is no "replenishment"? Yang Xiaolheng said: "Yes."
Women in Guangzhou is a member of the "replenishment". In the summer of 1999, Ms. Wen's 20-year-old son died of an accident. After three months of life, the 47-year-old Wen Ms is strongly demanding a child. The destiny is that Ms. Wen has menopause, can't be pregnant again, and the life of life is not repeated, and the inner snow of the text is grieved, and it is bitter.
In desperation, only one technology called "Test Tube Baby" can help women re-pregnant. Ms. Wen in the desperate saw hope, he began a home run, and a method and cost of taking a test tube baby one by one. Experts shook their heads. Some warned her: "There is an abnormality in the abnormal pregnancy like you, and the senior maternal sickness has occurred during the operating table." Ms. Wen said: "There is no child's home can only be a homage, life Money has been meaningless for me. For the 'Mama', even if there is only one hope, I am willing to try, I will do my mother in this life. "At the age of 48, she made her husband. A bold decision, try test tube babies, tract love. In December 2000, their husband and wife came to the Guangdong Collection and Infancy and Treatment Center. On February 20, 2002, Ms. Wen was finally pregnant, and still twins.
Ms. Wen family is not affluent, her husband has retired, only a few hundred dollars per month, and Ms. Wen himself has not fixed work, relying on riding tricycle transportation. Before the death of the son, she saved tens of thousands of dollars. I plan to leave my son to marry, but this money is flown after the test tube baby. Even so, these money is not enough, and there are no items in home. Ms. Wen after pregnancy can't get an extra money to add a baby to myself and the baby. In order to earn a baby, it has been broken for 3 months of pregnant Wen Wen, and there is still a doctor secretly go to Hongde Road, three-wheeled car, and a car earned 5 yuan.
In 2002, Guangzhou's summer is also very hot. Women's hands and feet are edema because they are pregnant, and they are particularly touched, and they have a lot of laid. There was a woman who rode the car and was stumbling on the road. The whole person fell from the car. Fortunately, only wipe the skin, did not hurt the fetus, she didn't dare to tell her husband and doctor, secretly sneaked it. medicine. In order to earn money, she has been working with her pregnant.
Ms. Women has been half a hundred years, but still embarrassed the old pregnant woman who reborn the road, and there is no person in Yang Xiaosheng. Because "only re-acquires children, we can repair the pain in their hearts; only to get a child, in order to make them re-picked up the confidence of life, re-ignite the future of the future ..."
Who is born in the city
Since the child is suffering from accidents, it is so difficult to re-raise the second child. In the city, have there any direct birth of the second child? The National Committee of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference, Huang Jingfu, Tianjin Children's Hospital, in a county in Hebei Province, told him how to live in the second child: "There is an authority, there is money to buy birth, no money to run," Yang Xiansheng in the book Say, this is the case in the big city in Beijing.
Wang Hui is the mother of two children. She is Beijingers, Beijing A University Accounting Professional graduated, first in a company under Beijing University, and later, with her husband, go down the sea, have their own computer line, and then opened A flower shop.
In 1994, Wang Huisheng got his daughter, less than two years, she gave birth to her son. When she was born in the second child, the neighborhood committee stared at her. But she saved her child and made him safe. The second child made the family planning department to give a penalty of 20,000 yuan.
Wang Huisheng's direct cause of the second child is worried that the fire like Karami is coming on his head. She said to Yang Xiaolheng: "At the end of 1994, when Karamai fired in the Xinjiang branch, I witnessed the disaster brought by the fire. I still remember that the fire died 288 children, all of which were life dragon Primary and secondary school students. Dasting children are mostly the employees of the oil field. The Oil City Oilfield Authority is particularly strict in the family planning, and those children are basically the only child. After the children die, the oil city will give them later. Parents a certain subsidy, giving them a holiday, let them go home to reborn children. But most of the female employees have been in the middle of 40, the interval is so long, the uterus is degraded, how is it easy for children? ...... This kind of thing It is also afraid, it is afraid, and whoever has been in the ground. Whoever has suffered such a tragic encounter? "Wang Hui told Yang Xiaolheng's second child who are people:" These people belong to the freelancer, than those in the traditional system. Personnel, relatively free, there is not much constraints and regulation; and economical they are mostly more worse, and raise a child at all, they are willing to bear the fines of the family planning sector. Therefore, this kind of person is in today's city The main body of the second fetus. "
Population behind the only child policy
"They are a pair of 90-year-old old age, in order to go downstairs, it has already discussed for a few months. 5 layers of stairs, constitute an insurmountable divide, so they were imprisoned in the small world in the home. Day after day, they can only face each other, and the only links with the outside world are the TV. They want to go to the sun, listen to the children's playful voice - all for others is too peaceful. And for them is a luxury - only like this, they will only feel that they live, live in a world. They only have a son in foreign countries. Because living in the 5th floor, they usually I rarely go downstairs, and I will buy a vegetable and daily necessities to maintain life for them every week. "
"In a sunny winter, they finally decided to implement a long-awaited downstairs. For two senior people, the next 5th floor, no distinction in an adventure, maybe a foot station is unstable, will be from The stairs fell, and the consequences were unimaginable - as long as someone had an accident, life is not going. But they have to go to the sun, or if the bones will be more loose, they will not even walk along the road. So, the two have helped, if the thoughts of the ice stop, I didn't expect that when they just walked into the sun, the two felt the sky at the same time ... "
"When the director of the neighborhood committee passed through the flower bed, I saw that the two old people were tightly squeezed to sit on the side of the flower bed, and they were frozen. If they know, they can't go home because they are unable to go upstairs. Frozen and hungry sitting here is a whole day! Director quickly called a few young people on the top 5th floor. "
"The expedition of the lower building ends, and since then they have never come to the world outside."
This is the story of Yang Xiaring's next pair of 90 old couples to the building, and such a story has become more and more performance with the further continuation of the only child policy. Because the loyalty is not two, the more people have the rest of the matter, the more and more people are busy with their own old parents, and they are busy with their careers in the far place.
Such families are called "empty nest" families. According to the surveys in Beijing, Shanghai, Suzhou, Guangzhou and Hong Kong in 1995, such "empty nest" family proportion of 36.3%, one-third of the total number of standings.
It is undeniable that China's only child policy has contributed to the control of China's population. However, the book is written in: "China's family function has also undergone fundamental changes: the family size is shrinking, the family of three, the family is more family, and even the family is not in a small number; the family structure is changing, don't say the four generations The family is also a family of three generations. Because the above two changes have led to the third change, it is the change in family functions. It is important to have a family pension care function to be delayed to society. But according to statistics, China live In various pension facilities, the old man is less than 1 million, less than 1% of the total number of old people ... In the pension facilities in all parts, the best occupancy rate is only 30%. "However, even if the old man returns to the family, even if they The only child is also filial, "42-1" (four old people, with the family of the only child and a child) model, there is a small (or two less) middle-aged couples, how to be able Under such a heavy life pressure? How do they do your filial piety? Are they doing filial sons or sacrificed future? "For a family, if the next generation of the only child is still a single child, then a young person may have a pair of young people to support 12 old people, and the family burden can die."
Call of the National Committee of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference
The problems caused by the only child policy have attracted the attention of the two National Committee of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference. They are the Huang Jingfu of Tianjin Children's Hospital, and He Zhukang in Beijing. Since 2000, they began to submit proposals on adjusting the planning of family planning policies.
The proposal of the Huang Jingfu committee in 2000 is "proposal to recommend the adjustment of family planning policies to the recommendation to adjust the plan to consider the adjustment of family planning policies, and gradually change the only child policy to the" second child "policy," If the only child policy continues, it will produce the aging of the population, the proportion of men and women, the problem of unbalanced population, and the psychological problems of only children. Huang Jingfu suggested that from the perspective of social relations, expand domestic demand, pension, employment, "Recommendation of relevant departments to seriously study the negative impact of long-term 'only children' policies, hoping to change the only child policy to 'second policy" within the 22nd "
At the same government agreement, the proposal of He Zhukang committee recommended that the relevant departments will adjust the family planning policy to "encourage one child, allow the second child, and eliminate the three children."
At the 5th meeting of the National Committee of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference held in March 2002, Huang Jingfu committee once again submitted "proposal to consider family planning policies from a more comprehensive perspective". Huang Jingwu said in the proposal that China's family planning policy has achieved great results, and population control has maintained low growth, but the only child policy has been too long. It has been quickly close to 1/4 century, and the social aging problem has exceeded. 10% of the population; the long-term children's policy will reduce the national strength, reduce the comprehensive national strength; the annual annual age of men and women is too long; the psychological problems of the children, the problem of education growth is increasing; modern medicine cannot guarantee the healthy growth of each single child. Due to the disease, the death of the dead, the death of the accident, the child's parents can't make a replenished, and the damage is unable to describe ... Huang Jingfu suggested that "the only child policy in China's family planning policy is changed to a double child."
