Permission to fail

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Permission to Failby Aletha Jane Lindstrom

Each of us fails from time to time. If we are wise, we accept these failures as a necessary part of the learning process. But all too often as parents and teachers we deny this same right to our children. We convey either by words or by actions that failure is something to be ashamed of, that nothing but top performance meets with our approval. When I see a child subject to this kind of pressure, I think of Donnie.Donnie was my youngest third-grader. He was a shy , nervous perfectionist His fear of failure kept him from classroom games that other children played with joyous abandon He seldom answered questions -.... he might be wrong Written assignments, especially math, reduced him to nail-biting frustration He seldom finished his work because he repeatedly checked with me to be sure he had not made a mistake.I tried my best to build his self-confidence. And I repeatedly asked God for direction. But nothing changed until midterm, when Mary Anne, a student teacher, Was Assigned to Our Cl assroom.She was young and pretty, and she loved children. My pupils, Donnie included, adored her. But even enthusiastic, loving Mary Anne was baffled by this little boy who feared he might make a mistake.Then one morning we were working math problems at the chalkboard. Donnie had copied the problems with painstaking neatness and filled in answers for the first row. Pleased with his progress, I left the children with Mary Anne and went for art materials. When I returned, Donnie was in tears. He 'D Missed The Third Problem.my Student Teacher Looted At Me in Despair. Suddenly Her Face Brightned. from The Desk We Shared, She Got A Canster Filled with Pencils. "Look, Donnie,"

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