A coin, never see it at the same time. Ball the air, falling down the coins. We can only see its side, and ignore the other side. In life, we will know many people. When I was young, I just divided them into good people and bad people. In psychology, there is a phenomenon called a halo effect. Simple saying is: When you have the idea of your first, good people, even if he does a bad thing, we still think he is a good person. The bad guy, even if he did a good thing, we still thought he was a bad person. Very naive explanation, this is a prejudice of people. Growing up, I met more people. There is a kind of person, you will only say what you like to listen, do what you like. He has never helped you, just wants what you got from you. We call him a clown. There is also a kind of person, what he said, you don't necessarily like to listen, he does things, you don't see it. But they are in truth, he will point out your shortcomings and say your fault. Even if you will be angry, he will also say, because he is your friend. You, see which side of them. Friends: Those who have their own love except for Valentine's or relatives this is the explanation of my two words I found in the dictionary. In fact, friends are just two words, and it is not important. It is important that the meaning of these two words. Maybe you don't care about someone around you, can you become friends with you. Maybe you didn't take him as a friend. Maybe because my friend said some words you don't like to listen, but alienate him. However, when you have difficulty, when you need help, when you are lonely. Please think of me, because we are friends. I have seen a movie called "Time Machine", asked a word: people, why can't you change the past. The answer is: Because people can't go back to the past. If the world does not sell, it is impossible to go back. I won't resent anyone, I can only hate myself. If you say, you can't recover, just like the story, nail wood, even unplug the nails, the scars are still there. However, the once friend did not change. I am not praying, I only hope to see people of this article. Cherish your friends around you, if one day, he did something you unhappy, or if you are not happy, please give him an apology. Ask you, because we are friends. After many years, if we encounter, I hope you still remember me. I will definitely say hello to you, just like we meet every day. Because we are friends. Because, friends, no longer come. ------------------------------------------------ I have never I don't believe in something that predicts. But at that night, I accidentally saw a website forecassed the next day, saying that I would have a joke, destroy friendship because of a joke next day.
I didn't take serious things, but I was chatting on QQ next night, and I said a joke. Now I think of it, I also think that there is a bit too much, after all, the other party is a girl. But I am really unhealthy, our relationship has been very good, chatting together every day, go home together. We often joke. But because of this joke, she was angry, two years of friends have finished. When I apologize to her, she was very indifferent when she was forgiven, she said very indifferent: Don't bother me. I can't apologize to her, I know her character, when she is annoying a person, I really can do what I will do. May never tell me one sentence. It is said that men have tears, but I really want to cry, I really don't want to lose friends. I don't expect her now that she can forgive me, I only hope that she can be happy and happy, I am sincere blessing, I have always been the same as good friends. I have asked if I like her, I said to be a good friend, I like it, but it doesn't chase her, it will not be the kind of love. Men and women are not necessarily love. But friends are not always forever. I also finally understood that Zhuangzi said, it is better to have some reason to give the rivers and lakes. I also want to see this post. When I joking with my friends, pay attention to the words. When your friend accidentally hurts you, ask you, give him an opportunity to apologize. Because we are friends. Give him a chance and give yourself a chance. We don't want to lose friends, right?
