A girl's speech (boy does not look unfortunately) (reproduced) Send a letter: a mess BBS (Sat Jun 26 21:19:55 2004), this site (Ytht.Net)
I am a girl, I saw a girl who wants to chase your favorite, I don't dare to chase, I still want people to chase her, I am very disgusted.
From the perspective of a girl, I compare the psychology of the girl. Most of the girl will not take the initiative to pursue the boy you like, except for it too much or that is more personally brave girl. So, if you like a girl very much, I think she is also a little means to you, then take the initiative, don't let her take a knot, I am uncomfortable, I may have painful people.
Any child is chasing, the psychology is very complicated. She may be very happy, but she took some fear, she had a boy who broke into her calm life, and she did not intentionally. Don't think she is testing you, she is actually fighting with themselves, she is afraid of being hurt.
Don't be afraid that your active will bring her dislike, you don't take the initiative, she doesn't take the initiative, and it is slowly faded. If you start the confession by her, it is normal. Don't be discouraged, who knows what this girl is thinking about?
Maybe you have a twice, she will be hired by you, a good girl with a good heart is very easy to move.
If you have received a setback, you will leave, then you will not answer this girl, protect yourself tightly, silently lick the wound, while you are painful, I don't know, the girl may be regrettable, regret ! Maybe she will secretly cry, regret to refuse you, then see your eyes, she is very painful, but she will not tell you, it will never ask you to chase her. Your excessive self-esteem may hurt the sensitive heart of girls.
She will think that you are not sincerely like him, or if you don't give up her?
Some people say that boys are really difficult, and they are too easy to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social role of men and women, from physiological and social perspectives, women are always passive. If you turn, let the men have a shame, the woman has become brave, the world is chaotic! The woman's shame is always beautiful, moving ~~~ I always heard how much a brave man is overwhelming, and finally won the heart. The opposite example is relatively very.
Some boys, I am afraid that others say what they die, falling down. But I think boys pursue my favorite girls, and I have been in a good set of frustrations. It means that people really like it. It is very sincere. If there is no success, it is not sorry, there is nothing? Who let people like it? I hate others to follow, and I hate the kind of boy who has no idea, too care of others to see yourself, live this boy can't find my girlfriend.
It is a man who is brave, and the girl is in vitality and is easy to immerse in love. Although you have worked hard, once your sincerity touched her, then you got more than a longer double love. Such an example, all around us is. The girl is very gentle and very intimate to her boyfriend. In order to exchange this sweet, what is the hard work? And most of the good girls have loved very special.
Therefore, it is recommended that there is a boy to pursue your favorite girls. Don't be so fearful to shrink. Let people think that you have no men's air, two is your own strange, but the most important thing is : Finally, you can't get anything. Happiness always earns, don't expect others to give you! Add another sentence, I feel that the initiative is very good, because your goal is that you really like it, girls often passively, passive can only choose to accept and refuse, so I would rather take the initiative, love me love, no love I have no regrets! !
