On human hypocritical
Text / Tailbo
2004.4.6
Seeing "The street" "the man's vanity" not only thought of the word. I dare to say that most people have this vanity, and many people are willing to admit that this vanity is in the existence of themselves, so hypocrisy? Today, I defined this proposition to the height of "human beings". To tell the truth, I am a little virtual, but the truth is more and more and more, the truth is more and more clear, so let me talk to everyone to talk about this human hypocritical The problem.
First of all, what I want to say is that hypocrisy is not human nature.
This problem has earlier, and there are two kinds of people who are not hypocritical, one is a baby born, one is a mentally ill patient and dementia. Then, the reason is obvious, the hypocritical thinking is related, Laozi said: "Knowing Hui, there is a big pseudo." It is the truth.
Second, we need to further look at what kind of human hypocrisy.
The first, in order to make private profits, this kind of hypocrisy is in the body of occupational fraud, the hypocrisy is high; the second, because the group or political interests need to be hypocritical, this hypocrisy is in business people or politics Home, this hypocritical or harmful, or beneficial, hypocritical level; third kind, due to vocational needs, this hypocrisy appears on the actor and artist, they need to be disguised, it is not harmful, The hypocrisy is low; the fourth kind, because of vanity, this hypocritical number, even if it is harm, it is also a small area, the hypocritical level is low. Of course, there is still a false false, etc., etc., etc., etc., etc.
Next, let's take a look at why people are hypocritical?
First, the class is evolved from animal, and our body inevitably has many animal habits, and the animal is greedy, cruel, selfish, selfish, etc., is normal, and people's The greatness is rationally suppressed the habits of these animals, hidden in the depths, making themselves a person with human products, constantly improving their own humanity in social transformation and self-reflection, in this sense, we Everyone is hypocritical.
Second, the suppression of family and school education makes us become hypocritical. The newborn baby is red sincerity, what is going to do, and the ability is more, such as the baby wants to pee, will not think about it. Bathroom, very simple, directly sprinkled in bed, parents will not allow such, relying on the suppression of the ass to change him. For example, if the child is born to play, you can do not allow him to make him like this, suppress some habits of his learning and adapt to adults. For a long time, even if you think about anything, you don't dare to make it easily, learn to hide your heart. The idea, this is also hypocritical.
Third, the pressure of social survival has also made people become hypocritical, people's survival need to be greatly relying on society, in order to be able to survive in society, people inevitably adapt to this society, and society It is made up of many individual people. In interpersonal communication, people must violate their inner hearts, otherwise they don't have a foothold, unless he is a wolf child, Confucius said: "Qiao said, fresh!" Zeng Zi also said Over: "Ribed shoulders smirked in Xia Tian." They also proposed: people who are good at speaking can avoid disasters. More fleshy is that Confucius and Mencius have the following point of view, "Adults, do not have to do, do not have to be fruitful, and the defense" This shows that in order to adapt to society, it must be hypocritical. In three o'clock, analyze the nature of "the deficiency of human beings" from a netizen. Of course, I have denyed his point of view at the beginning, but these three arguments are unfortunately, it is used as people why it is hypocritical. It is also good, I hope that you will explore.
Ok, I have said so many cases we need a few cases to help us understand human hypocritical.
Case 1, "Change Mold" There is a magical mask, and people who wear it will make his nature, but we have seen something, it is a terrible disaster, maybe we need to hide the pair Mask because we don't have to "truth". As we wish, the protagonist put the magical mask and threw it into the sea.
Case II. Helen in the "Crow" may be a typical model. Such a fictional woman will almost let all the readers sigh in the hearts of the "people's heart", yes, such people are abhorrent, even we don't even It is not necessary to sympathize with such a person, but if Helen is going to Mai Mai on the plane to go to Singapore: I don't have money, I am going to Singapore is going to be a small dragon, just to make money. So what will her ending?
The above two cases may not be wonderful enough, the most exciting case is naturally coming from human marriage, because in all inventions of human beings, it probably has more mankind than marriage. Since ancient times, many people who think that smarters have sent a lot of thinking witness to this topic and said countless moment. If you get this point, if you have a married man, if you don't tease the stupidity of marriage, you can't show your smart. If he actually praises marriage, it is simply open to his stupid.
The case three, Byron wrote in "Tang Juan": "Every tragedy ends because of death, all comedy ends because of marriage." Despite this, he is still married, for: I want to have a companion Child, you can play together. According to Shangford's statement, love is interesting as a novel, marriage is bored as a history. Perhaps, we can refute: no, a married comedy is open - small mouth, reconciliation, jealousy, beg for mercy, suspicion, explanation, the last scene is divorced.
The case is four. Some people pay attention to the view of marriage to Xiao Bona, and Xiao Bona replied: "Mrs is not dead, who can tell this man?
The case is five, Lin Yutang said he most admire the woman next to the family and the cradle. He is in life, it is also to follow the marriage, but he does not have a smelled comment on marriage. He said that the so-called happy marriage, but the result of the couple moved to each other and habits, just like a pair of old shoes, it becomes fit for a long time. In a no longer, a gentleman of the ancient Rome also took marriage to be a shoe. He divorced, a friend's question: "Is your wife not? Is it not beautiful? Isn't you educated?" He pointed his own shoes: "Who can't help it, what is it, I'm holding my feet."
Haha, marriage, is it the irony of human beings? The marriage creates a beautiful myth, and it is also a reason to give us a hypocritical reason, isn't it. Finally, I need to make a summary of the expression.
There is a class of animals very good at using protective color to prey or refuge. If I regard hypocritical views as a protective color of human beings, I don't know if it is appropriate. So in this complex and varied society, aren't you in vome? I think it is the hypocrisy, I have to be hypocrisy, for example, someone robs you, ask how much you have, how can you tell him about it in order not to be infertile? For example, in order to keep your work, when you hate your boss, you can't you be a face? Including the condition of concealing patients, this is normal, but there is an inch, can't be too far, otherwise it will play the opposite role, it is not humble.
Here, I want to say that we need hypocrisy.
That's right, we need hypocrisy, I don't want to say that I don't need any obscure, and I just contrary to this, I'm trying to keep this piece of methadimous.
The Chinese is given "hypocritical" is a completely derogatory, and traditional virtues are left to "hypocrisy" is ruthless, so we have weaving a thick layer of thickness outside of themselves outside the vulnerable soul. We don't dare to be red sincerity, because the fragility is ridiculous, weak is sad. So the Zhang appeared in a strong face, and the pair of dual fitch's eyes had every place in life. Not hypocritical, isn't we really do?
We don't have to pretend to be hypocritical, as long as it is a hypocrisy that does not harm the interests of others, it is shameful to satisfy your own desire. In the face of other people's hypocrisy, don't blame him. To analyze the reason for hypocrisy, it is necessary to expose and stop with your heart. Sometimes, although it is to meet your own desires, if not too much, it is not damaged. Too many interests of others must guide him, and they can't see him.
The hypocrisy is the weakness of human beings, and it is impossible for a while, I hope you think more.
Refer to the article "On the nature of deficiency is human," Seriously living in hypocrisy "
