Today was about to eat, it is a famous small house. After all of the doubles, the owner enthusiastically got a "big bowl squid", it is a signature, which is said to have a good taste. Unfortunately, I have a special feeling about the squid - I am relieved after I teach the demarcas of the murder. But I think the owner should be a bite, based on the starting point considered for the other party, I have not filed an objection. During the seat, I stopped the squid, and the owner seems to be a bit unpleasant.
On the way back, the owner asked me if I had opinions on this table, I said no. However, the other party asked the spirit of breaking the casserole, I had to tell the opponent, I am far away from the squid.
I complained about me: "You don't like to eat, you should tell me."
I said: "It doesn't matter, you are happy, I am also happy, let alone eat yet."
The other party is not very happy: "I am not happy if you eat it."
I argued: "I didn't say it for you to be happy."
The other party is more unhappy: "I am doing you to eat, you don't like to eat. And you don't seem to be happy."
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In the project, we often reproduce similar scenarios, in order to satisfy customers with satisfaction, some of their own conditions cannot be completed, and in the implementation of the project, it is reluctant to do these forces in the process of project implementation, and the result is not a half of the parties. satisfaction.
Many times we are thinking about yourself, but I ignore myself when I am thinking about the other party. We must learn to consider the other party. More importantly, learn to cooperate on the basis of appropriate expressions on the other party, and can work with each other, so that some issues can be fully understood and find appropriate The solution will solve it.
