Are we too much feeling? A young writer first went to New York, Mark Tween, I asked him to eat, more than 30 people accompanied, all of which were local. When I got into the seat, the more fear of the writer, the more scared it, and I was shaking. "Where are you uncomfortable?" Mark Tween. "I am afraid to die." This young writer said, "I know, they will ask me to speak, but I really don't know what to say, I think of the ugly in front of them, I will be god." " Oh, you don't have to be afraid, I just want to tell you - they may ask you to speak, but no one does not expect you to have an amazing speech. "Mark Temperature is suitable for many young people. . For young people, because they have been eager to fully show their talents, when the opportunity suddenly comes in front of them, many people will become a sudden. The first speech, the first time I did independent, I was first delegated to the mission, you might be nervous to sleep well. At this time, you must understand that people around you have their own things, they don't have much attention to you so much, they still treat you as an ordinary person, they don't expect you However, however, however, as long as you do it with others, press the class to do it, say, even if you have successfully completed the task. Some people may say that it is difficult to have a chance, why don't you borrow a shocking? In fact, in this increasing reason, a person's advantage is that through a long period of time, after a series of events, it will only appear in the drama. On the contrary, the excessive standards of the premium, which are easily caused by people. The only thing you have to do is to let people see you have made full preparation for this, you have a very serious attitude, this is enough. When reading high school, there is a recognized "Song" in our class, no matter how difficult the song, it will become uncomfortable in his mouth. Once, the school held a song competition. He didn't participate in the presence, directly by the class teacher to the final scene, but because of the spirit, he did not play a certain level in the game, only had the last one. This thing has been in the past long, he is still in this way. He went to the class teacher to explain it over and over again. The teacher comforted him: there is no relationship, I believe you! But he believes that the teacher is perfunctory, still seeing the teacher, put this matter, and make teachers not tired. Despite this, he finally became the spirit. Perhaps this is a relatively extreme example. But it can give us an enlightenment: Are we too much feeling? For example, you accidentally fell in the road, and you laughed. You must be very embarrassed at the time, think that people in all the world are watching you. But if you think about someone else's perspective, you will find that in fact, this is just a small episode in their lives, and even sometimes the episode is not enough, they will smile, and then this matter forgotten. On the road of life in a hurry, we are just a landscape in the eyes of others. For the first participation, the first failed, it can be smirked, don't entangle in the mood of the lost, your cry can only remind People have noticed that you have once. You laugh, others will forget it. There is a saying: "When 20 years old, we worry about our ideas. At the age of 40, we ignored others to our thoughts.
