Yu Haiqian University graduated two opportunities for her choice: one is a project manager for the branch, so she can be unique, but she is worried that she is insufficiently experienced; one is to do personnel assistants in a group company, can learn there. Many high-level management experience, but the assistant work is cumbersome, she feels very unhappy. I want to go, sleep at night, considering that I can't make a choice for more than a week, she is very painful to ask the author. She said, "I am very difficult to make a decision, whether it is usually buying things, or choose a job, always considering a lot, afraid that it will be unpleasant, and it will be unfavorable." In the journey, we will always encounter some turning points, let yourself think about the future direction. Or graduate, I don't know if I have a choice of postgraduate, I feel awkward; or like the case of Haiyan above, facing new work changes, I think, I can't make a choice, and finally Leading arrangements. Why is this? The above performance reflects the different styles of the decision, and DinkLage is summarized as eight types of people: the first is a impulse man, and the decision is often based on impulses. The behavioral character is to say first, then think about the consequences later. Its benefits are not to take time to collect information. The second is a fate type, handing the power to the destiny or others. This type of people often hang in such a few "boats to the bridge" naturally ";" There will be a big child in the sky ";" Everything is destined. "The advantage is not to be responsible, reduce conflicts. The third is a compliant person, you want to make a decision, but you can't adhere to you, often succumb to the instructions and decisions of authorities. The advantage is to maintain the surface harmony. The fourth is a delayed person, knowing the problem, but often does not make decisions, or to the last moment. They often think like this in their hearts: "What is eager? Let's talk about it tomorrow!" The advantage is to extend the time to decide. The fifth is the intuitive person, according to the feeling, not thinking. Just consider what you want, don't care about external factors. They often say: "It feels good, it is so decided." The advantage is relatively simple. The sixth is a paralyzed person, the result of fearing the decision, and is not willing to be responsible, choose paralyzed himself to escape the decision. I often hang in the mouth is "I know what to do, but I can't do it." The advantage of this is that it can be temporarily not decided. The seventy is the hesitant person, the selected project is too much, and it is impossible to make a hierarchy. It is often struggling. I often think: "I must not decide easily. If I choose, it is miserable." The advantage is to collect full information. The eighth is a planned person. When making a decision, he will listen to its inner sound, and consider the requirements of the external environment to make an appropriate and wise choice. The inner belief is: everything is in me, I am the master of destiny, is my own master. The advantage is active, facing problems, solving problems. In fact, there is no decision type is absolutely good or absolutely bad. The key is to have a decision-making understanding, so you can use advantages to avoid disadvantages for different specific circumstances. Plans type has many advantages, but it is often hesitant when faced major choices.
The disadvantage of hesitation is that it is not decided to have a negotiation, but it is possible to miss the opportunity, but at the same time, the advantage of hesitation is "Collecting a full and complete information", which reminds this type of person to repeated consideration when making decisions. Considering is not necessarily what Bad things, the key is to play the advantages of "collecting a full and complete information" while repeatedly considering the advantages of fullness, avoiding emptiness and not preparing for deciding. (Author Zhang Ran Tian Xian system Beijing Institute of Social Sciences Applied Psychology Research Center Vice-director, special researcher, national registered vocational instructor, 9CBS career management consultant. Zhang Yuantian teacher has long been in Beijing And individuals carry out "career planning" training and consultation, see: http://www.career-edu.cn)
