The fourth letter gives Chinese students: universities should spend this
Kai-fu Lee
February 2005
Today, I replied to the first 1000 questions since I opened the student network. After turning off the computer, there is always a
Students come to believe in my mind, don't go:
Opening a teacher:
I have to graduate.
Looking back at your so-called university life,
I want to cry, not because of the leave, but because I haven't learned anything.
I don't know, what should I write? If I will make it blank if I have ever.
The biggest harvest may be ... Tolerance and adaptation nothing ...
This is a lot of the heart of the three, and the three students. During the university, many students let go of their own, vain
Well, there are many students who have never been found in the right way. When they were awakened by the first completion of the test, when
When they received the first when they were ambiguous, these students were surprised to find that their future is so awkward.
, Everything works seems to be too late ...
This "fourth letter" is written to those who wish to wake up from understanding, those who have never slender and greeted.
I hope that college students with their future and destiny and those who are about to enter the university threshold. In this case
In the letter, I want to say to all the students:
The university is the most critical phase in people's life. From the first day of enrollment, you should have a positive for four years.
Indefic and planned. In order to enjoy the biggest happiness in the study, in order to find your favorite work when you graduate
Everyone who has just entered the university campus should master seven learning: study self-study, basic knowledge, practice
, Interest training, proactive, control time, is a matter of people. As long as this is done, college students have graduated from graduation.
The biggest harvest will never be "the patience and adaptation of anything", but it should be "confident that you can have anything."
And eager. "As long as you do this, you can become a potential, ideological, valuable, and promising.
Graduate.
University: the key to life
University is a key stage of life. This is because, entering the university is that you finally put down the heavy burden of the college entrance examination, the first start
Chasing your own ideals, interest. This is where you leave family life, the first time I participate in groups and social life. This is you
It is no longer simply learning or reciting the theoretical knowledge. The first time I have the opportunity to practice in the same time. This
It is no longer to arrange everything in life and learning in your parents, but there is enough free disposal life and learning.
All kinds of issues are all given all the time belonging to himself.
University is a key stage of life. This is because this is your last life, there is a chance to systematically accept education.
. This is the last time you can build your knowledge wholehearted. This may be that you can use the last time you can use it for a large period of time.
The life stage of learning, may also be the last time you can have a high plasticity, concentrate on the growth of your own
Process. This may be that you can last in relatively tolerant, you can use the ideal environment that is studying as people.
University is a key stage of life. In this stage, all college students should carefully grasp every "first time."
"Let them become the cornerstone of the future of life; at this stage, all college students should also cherish every" final
Once, don't let yourself regret in the near future. In the four years, everyone should strive to weave themselves
Live dreams, clarify the direction of struggle, lay the foundation.
Everyone in four years is only once, and the university has spent four years ...
Self-repair: from the other side of three to no teacher
I remember that when I was aimed at the University of Columbia, the parents of Chinese students complained to me: "Your university
What are you teaching? My child read the big second computer system, and I actually even use Visicalc. "
I replied at the time: "The development of the computer is changing. We can't guarantee any technology as you are in the university.
After five years, it still uses, we can't guarantee that students can learn every technology and tools. What we can guarantee is that your child will learn to think and master the method of learning, so that no matter what new technologies or new technologies after five years
Tools, your children can swim. "
She then asked: "The latest software is not educational, what is the essence of education?"
I replied: "If we have forgotten the things, the last thing is educated
Ethere. "
I was said at the time from the famous educator B. F. Skinner. The so-called "remaining things", actually
It is the ability to self-study, that is, the ability to give an abroad or no teacher. University is not a "professional training class", but a
Let students adapt to the society and adapt to the platform of different jobs. During the university, learning expertise is important, but
It is important to learn the way independent thinking, cultivate the ability to raise a reflection, only the university graduate can be suitable
Should be changing in the future. I have known many friends who have read college students in China. they think
After coming to the United States, whether it is learning, work or life, the most lack of independent thinking is because they are in China
Few independent thinking and independent decisions.
When you go to Middle School, the teacher will repeat the key content in each lesson again. But after entering the university, the teacher will only
Acting as a leader's role, students must study, explore and practice independently. After walking on the job, self-study ability is displayed
It is more important. Microsoft has done a statistical: in every microsoft employee, only
About 10% is that employees have accumulated in past learning and work, other knowledge is re-learning after joining Microsoft
. This data sufficiently indicates that a person who lacks self-study ability is difficult to stand in a modern business like Microsoft.
Self-learning ability must start cultivation during college. Many students always complain that teachers are not teaching, knowing, learning
The school's curriculum arrangement is not reasonable. I usually advise these students to say: "It is not as bright as the curse, not as bright as a candle. Big
Students should not only follow the teacher, but should take the initiative to walk in front of the teacher. For example, a university teacher
In a class, you usually have to cover the information content of dozen pages in the textbook, just through the classroom, it is impossible to put all knowledge.
Learning, learning. The best way to learn is to ponder the relevant questions in the textbook before the teacher lecture.
The explanation of the teacher in the class is made up for the shortcomings of understanding and understanding.
Middle school students are more in learning knowledge, and college students should ask their own "understanding".
Knowledge and be good at proposing questions. For each knowledge point, you should ask a few "why". Once you really understand
On the comment or method of the dragon, everyone can learn other knowledge, solve other problems, and even reach no teacher.
Attached realm.
In fact, many problems have different ideas or observation angles. Don't always always learn knowledge or solve problems
Still a thinking mode, don't let yourself become a slave of textbooks or experiences. Only in learning dare to innovate, be good at
New perspective thinking, students' potential thinking, creativity, and learning ability can be truly stimulated
Come.
"Books. Journal": "Suddenly, there is no friend, then it is ignorant." In other words, college students should be fully profound.
Use the talent resources in the school to absorb knowledge and methods from various channels. If you encounter a good teacher, you can take the initiative to him.
As you should ask, or ask them to recommend some extracurricular reference books. In addition to the senior professor, young teachers in the university
, Doctoral student, master student and even his own classmates are the best knowledge source and learning partners. Everyone's problem
Understand and understanding are not the same, only to help each other, everyone can make progress together.
Some students have told me that they envy me to have a master of the Master who has obtained the Trum-winning. In fact, although I am very advocating my teacher, he didn't teach me how much expertise during the university. He is just
Give me a big direction, let me share his experience, give me the resources of research, and teach me to be a way. he did not
There is no need to guide me to learn specific expertise. I have accumulated expertise during the college
Learn. When I first started, I have repeatedly red face to ask my brother to ask the most basic knowledge content, and I will discuss it.
I have asked a lot of skin shallow problems, and I also took the initiative to discuss and learn from classics. "Three people must have my teacher", big
The surroundings around the students are good fortune. Just cherish these rare opportunities, boldly ask, often learn, we can
Learn the most useful knowledge and methods.
College students should make full use of libraries and Internet, cultivate the skills of independent learning and research, in order to adapt to future work
Prepare for further deep repairs. First of all, in addition to the course of learning the teacher, college students must learn to find
Books and literature in order to exposure to broader knowledge and research results. For example, when we discovered his own in a class
If you have a topic, you should actively go to the library to check the relevant literature and understand the problem of the dragon and the current research in this topic.
dynamic. Skilled and fully use library resources, this is college students, especially those who are interested in scientific research.
One of the necessary skills. When reading, you should use some English original textbooks. Some original textbooks write deeply, with
There is a lot of examples, which is also suitable for self-study than Chinese materials. Second, outside the book, the Internet is also a huge repository.
College students can find all kinds of information online with the search engine. "Opening Student Network" has been opened for half a year, I sent it
Nowadays, many students do not have a good job of searching for the Internet, sometimes they ask questions as long as they are searching
The engine is simple to search, you can easily find the answer. Some students are easy to believe in rumors on the Internet without using it.
Search engine self-examination, try to In addition to search engines, there are many websites and communities on the Internet very good.
Garden.
When you learn from school, don't be complacent because of the requirements of the school, don't think that you have a homework in college.
enough. Today, in the 21st century, talent has become an international concept. When you feel your own
When I am satisfied, I suggest you start myself some international first-class university courses. For example, the US MIT (MIT)
Open courses have been released online, everyone may wish to see MIT's online courses, do MIT's online trial
question. When you can master MIT courses, you can face international challenges more confidently.
In short, be good at raising an anti-Three, learn nothing, this is the best gift you can send to yourself in the four years.
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Basic knowledge: mathematics, English, computer, internet
I have said that a major advantage of Chinese students is a solid basis, such as mathematics, physics, etc. However, recent
In a few years, the students have witnessed many quick examples (such as Ding Lei, Chen Tianqiao, etc.), and urgently hope to drive success.
Expressway. This gradually formed a pursuit of fasting impetuous. Many college students can immediately be able to graduate
Be "manager", "boss", and many college students have chosen "management" professionally, because they think
After graduating from such a major, you can become a business manager. Many students have entered the management of management.
Now you have no interest in this major. In fact, like management and other majors are the basic knowledge and
Where the basic method, no major can guarantee that students can take a leadership position when they graduate. No matter what students
Which professional is learning, university graduation is the real start of personal careers. I want to do business leaders or want to do management work.
Learning must also start from the grassroots level, we must first learn to be people in terms of people, and lay a good foundation in schools. If the University is a platform for learning and progress, then the foundation of this platform is the basic course in the university.
. During the university, students must learn the basics in which the use of mathematics, English, computer and the Internet.
And the basic course required by this major (such as the financial, economy of business schools). In the development of technology, the new month
Days, many seemingly highly technologies in the application are replaced by new technology or tools after a few years. Only knowing the base
Learning can be used for life. On the other hand, if there is no good foundation, college students are hard to really understand.
Profic application technology. Finally, in many Chinese colleges, professors have more rich in basic courses.
Teaching experience.
Mathematics is the basis for the essentials of the scientific students. Many students think that mathematics is the most difficult to learn in high school, to the university
Once this major is discovered that the requirements of mathematics are not high, they will completely relax the learning of mathematics knowledge, and they can't see it.
What is the real application or employment prospect of mathematical knowledge. But don't forget, most of the professional knowledge of science and engineering
It is built on the cornerstone of mathematics. For example, if you want to learn computer engineering, at least discrete mathematics (including
Collection theory, chart, mathematical logic, etc.), linear algebra, probability statistics and mathematical analysis; to learn more
Master's or doctoral degree in machine science, may also need higher mathematical literacy. At the same time, mathematics is also human for thousands of years.
Accumated wisdom crystallization, learning mathematics knowledge can cultivate and traine people's thinking ability. Through the geometric learning, we
You can learn how to use interpretation, reasoning to ask questions and think; through learning probability, we can know how to avoid
Drilling to drill into the death of thinking, how to maximize the opportunity in front of you. So, everyone must use your heart to put mathematics
Ok, you can't perfunctory. Learning mathematics can not be limited to elective multi-door mathematics courses, but to know what he is
Learn Mathematics, to master awareness and thinking from learning mathematics.
The most important communication tool in the 21st century is English. Some students only have four levels and six levels in the university.
And learn English, some students just use English as a skillful skills, and even people think they learn
And using English is equivalent to Chongyang. In fact, the fundamental purpose of learning English is to master an important study and communication.
tool. In the next few decades, the world's most comprehensive news content, the most advanced thoughts and the highest deeper technology,
And exchanges between most intellectuals will be carried out in English. Therefore, unless you are willing to be a person with international outset.
English learning is critical. In the software industry, not only the programming language is designed in English, but also the heaviest
It is mostly written in English to textbooks, papers, reference materials, and user manuals. Learn English is never equal to Chong
Ocean. China is going to the world, China needs to learn the advanced ideology and advanced science and technology in the West, learn English
Is true patriotic.
Many Chinese students' English exam results are good, but also high-level tests, six levels, TOEFL, but study abroad
It is difficult to understand the curriculum in the class, and it is more difficult to communicate with foreign students. How do we learn English well?
Since English is the most important communication tool, then the most important learning method is to combine with practice, can't
Only "learn" does not "use", learn English only by reading. When reading, please try to read the original profession as much as possible.
Textbook (if English is not good enough, you can look at the textbooks of China and English) and read some interested in it.
Professional papers, this can improve the knowledge level of English and related majors. Second, improve the best in English listening and speaking skills
The method is to talk directly to foreigners who are native to English. There are now many foreigners who study and work in China.
Many people in them are very willing to talk to Chinese students in order to learn Chinese. This is a good learning opportunity. In addition, don't take English as a bitter thing, you can learn English with interesting methods. For example, you can see more
Some celebrity dialogues or speeches, see some novels, drama and even comics. Beginners can find English original teaching festivals
That is to learn, there is a certain basic basis, you should read English TV or movies. It is best to look at a English movie.
When there is a subtitle, I will check the words, familiar with the sentence, and then look at it without subtitles, only
Listen to your ear. Listening to English radio is also a good way to practice English listening, you can take it half an hour every day.
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The information age has arrived, college students have become their society in information science and information technology.
One of the essential basis. Although not every college student needs to understand computer principles and programming knowledge, all college students
You should be able to use your computer, internet, office software, and search engines, you should be able to browse your information online.
And find professional knowledge. In the twenty-first century, using computer and the network is like using paper and pen.
Basic work. Don't learn your computer, you can't get the knowledge or information you need in a quick and comprehensive.
Finally, each particular professional has its own basic course. Taking computer majors, many students are only hot
Learn the latest language, technology, platforms, standards and tools, as many companies will ask these parties in recruitment
Foundation or experience. Although these new technologies should learn, the study of computer basic courses is more important because
The development of the words and platforms is changing, but just learn the basic course (such as data structure, algorithm, compilation principle, computer original
Rational, database principle, etc.) can do not leave the Zong. There is a student to vividly compare these basic courses as computer
The industry's internal strength, and the new language, technology, platform, standard, and tools are quprine. Those who only understand fashionable
Students finally only know some moving fur, without internal accumulation, they can't become a real master.
Although I have always encouraged everyone to pursue my interest, but still need to emphasize here, there are some things in life.
Interests must also be done. For example, lay the foundation, learn the use of mathematics, English, and computers is this kind.
Things to do. If you are interested in mathematics, English and computers, then you are lucky, you can enjoy the fun of learning;
But even if you are not interested, you must also make these foundations. Playing the foundation is hard work, I don't want to suffer, I can't repair it.
Fruit.
Practice penetration: "Tale to understand"
When high schools on high school, many students will propose "why? What is the use?" To the teacher, usually, the teacher gives
The answer is "not allowed". After entering the university, the answers to these issues should be "not allowed." in the University,
Classmates should know how to combine every discipline, how to combine, especially
This is a student in Engineering.
There is a proverb that practice: "I will forget, I can remember, I have done it.
Really understand. "
Regardless of the professionalism, what kind of course, if you can practice hard in your studies, you can get through the intensiveness, we can
With more deep understanding of the knowledge system, you can firmly remember the knowledge you have learned. Therefore, I suggest that the students have more choices.
Practice related professional courses. When practical, it is best to cooperate in several students so that it can be practical understanding of expertise.
You can learn how to work with people to cultivate team spirit. If you have the opportunity to do some actual items under the teacher, or walk
Out of the school door, these practices are worth encouraging as long as they do not affect the course. Don't only go out to work or do projects
Visible salary treatment (unless there is really difficult to live), sometimes it is unsatisfactory, but there are many training and practices
Opportunity, we are also worth a try.
Taking computer majors, practical experience is essential for software development. Microsoft wants to apply
Programmer's college graduates have more than 100,000 lines of programming experience. Reason is simple: practical technology should be in practice
high. The computer is inserted into the end of a practice, and it is always going to learn. Therefore, the most important thing is not
High scores in the written test, but practice capabilities. However, in the process of communicating with Chinese students, I was surprised to find that
Students in some school computer systems in China have not been programmed. The teaching methods and courses in these universities do need
To update. If you can't read it in such schools, you should find from the process of working, self-study or online.
Seeking opportunities for learning and practices. Many practical items can be found online, for example, students with a batch of hobby programming
A website (www.diyinside.com) to discuss software technology, share their knowledge and practical experience, and
Successfully organized many events (such as holding a campus technical education meeting in major universities), and also published the help of students improve their skills.
The book, answering the difficulties, and many members have obtained the title of "Microsoft's most valuable expert".
Cultivate interest: pioneering horizons, settled
Confucius said: "The people who know is not as good as those who are good, and those who are good are not as good as those who are happy." I am "the third letter to Chinese students."
"In depth, it is the key to the success of happiness and interest is a success. If you are full of passion on a field, you have
You may play all your potential in this area, or even forget it. At this time, you are no longer
Hand learning, but for "enjoy" and learn. In the "third letter", I also talked about how I am in
During the university, I gave up the legal major of I was not interested in learning to learn from my love.
Some classmates ask me, how can I find my own interest like I? I think it first must be objectively evaluated and
Looking for your own interest: Don't take social, family or friends as yourself as your hobby; don't think
Interesting things is your own interest, but to experience it in person and make judgments with your own mind; don't think there is
Interesting things can be their own career, for example, I like to play online games does not mean that you will like or have the ability to open
Send online games; don't think that interested means you have this talent, but you can find talented talent as possible.
And the best combination of interest, for example, if you have talents to mathematics but also like computer majors, then you can
Do research in computer theory.
The best way to find a point of interest is to open up your own field of view, contacting many areas. Only contact you can try
Only try you to find your favorite. And university is such a one that allows you to contact and try numerous fields.
Unique place. Therefore, college students should better grasp the school time and make full use of the resources of the school.
Use library resources, listen to the course, search for network, listen to lectures, working, participate in the community activities, communicate with friends, use
Email and electronic forums have different ways to get more areas, more work types and more expert scholars. when
Year, if I just go to the legal system, don't try to listen to the computer system, I will not calculate
Machine center work, not to find a computer system to learn from the assistant, will not find its own interest in the computer.
Through the development of perspective and contact, if you find your true interest hobbies, you can try the possibility of tuning, try to learn lesson, elective or listen to relevant courses; you can also find some working or holiday internships
Opportunities, further understand the nature of the relevant industry; or try to take the professional graduate students who are interested in themselves, re-
Conduct a professional choice. In fact, undergraduate reading is a major decided to decide the direction of graduation, just as I am
In emphasized, the learning process during the university is your learning ability, as long as this ability is, even
Things are new work, you can also get enough knowledge and experience in the process of doing sidelines.
In addition to "choose your love", everyone may wish to try "Love you". Some students regret themselves when they enroll.
Professional, so that the lack of interests, there is no learning motivation; some classmates are "walking because of the interest
I am fired, I have discovered the lessons of this major after graduation; other students have encountered difficulties in learning or
This major has a prejudice, just as an excuse, it is not willing to face his own major. These practices are incorrect. in
In the university, the transformation may not be easy, so everyone should try to try this major, and in the process of learning
Gradually cultivate your interest in this major. In addition, there may be a lot of different fields in a professional, maybe you have professional
There will be interested in a certain field. Now, there are many majors that have developed cross-disciplines. The combination of two majors is often new.
Growth point. Therefore, as long as you contact, try, you may encounter your own direction that is really interested. "digital
Dr. Wang Jian, inventor Wang Jian, is responsible for the user interface of the Microsoft Asian Institute, but who can think of him from undergraduate.
To doctoral students are psychologically psychologically, and the user interface is the best combination of computer and psychology. another
On the one hand, even if you graduate, you can do your professional reading, you can also become
You are in the new industry. For example, there is a classmate who doesn't like reading work, I want to enter the service industry after graduation, I will
It is recommended that he first reads the engineering, in the future, in the service industry as its own specialty.
Life is very long, everyone can have a lot of different hobbies. In addition to interest, more importantly
To find a loss of life. An author of a book has visited hundreds of success, asking where they have something
They have already understood today, but they left a regret when they were young. In the respondent's answer, the most one is
: "I hope that my seniors tell me when you are young, encourage me to pursue my ideals and ambitions." In comparable, interest
Although the key, the ambition is more important. For example, my ambition is "maximizing influence", for many years, I have
Many hobbies, such as voice recognition, game software, multimedia, research to development, management, to meet users
Demand, speech and writing, help Chinese students, etc., interest can be changed, but my ambition is always unswerving. therefore
You don't have to take some interest as your last goal, you don't have to completely cut any development path of interest.
Under the guidance of ambition, different interests can be developed in parallel and make the best choices when necessary. ambition
Just like a compass, interest is like sails, the two complement each other, is missing, they can let you save the ideal harbor.
Active: decisive responsibility, create opportunities
When you create a "Remote Student Network", my original intention is to "help students help themselves." But I am surprised that more
Many students hopes that I will help them make decisions, even after short introduction, I will tell me directly: "
Only if you can tell me, what should I do ". Is there a stranger to know what you do more than you? I will slowly realize that this passive thinking is cultivated in the educational environment in China. Passive people are always habits
Sexually think that their current situation is caused by others and the environment. If others do not point, the environment does not change, they only
Have a negative life. People holding this attitude, the career has not started, I have been defeated, I have never
I have seen such a negative person can achieve continuous success.
From the first day of the university, you must take the initiative from passive steering, you must be the owner of your future, you must
It is necessary to actively manage your academic and future career, which is simple: because no one is more careless than you.
Work with life. "Let the university life value for yourself" is your responsibility. Many classmates have only begun to do life and
Vocational planning, and an active student should start planning your future from entering college.
Active active first step is to have a positive attitude. Everyone can use my method recommended in the "third letter",
Actively plan your own life goals, pursue interests and try new knowledge and fields. A fortunate in a concentrated camp in Nazi Germany
Victor Victor. Frankel once said: "In any particular environment, there is still a final freedom, that is
Choose your own attitude. "
Active second step is to be responsible for everything that yourself, bravely face life. Don't take uncertain or difficult things
Love is awkward. For example, some classmates think English is important, but the school does not learn English; or
Some students feel that they need to participate in the community to hone interpersonal relationship, but they do not actively register because they are shy. However, we must
It is necessary to realize that it is also a solution that is not to solve, and it is also a decision. This solution and decision will make you face.
The opportunity to be lost before. For this negative, timid style, you will pay a price one day.
Active third step is to make full preparation: everything is intent, do your best, don't wait for the opportunity to go to the door;
Grasp the opportunity and create opportunities. The academician of Zhu Qingxian, the president of the China University of Science and Technology, was allocated to Qinghai to do foundry workers in the third day.
. But he doesn't give up learning like other students, playing poker all day, drinking. He still dried a diamond and English at the end of the day.
Six years later, the Chinese Academy of Sciences be an important project in Qinghai. At this time, Zhu President stood out and started his brilliant.
Career. Many people may say that he is lucky and is assigned to the Qinghai lack of talents. But if he
There is no effort to learn, and this opportunity cannot be seized. So, make full preparation, when the opportunity is coming, you can catch
Live it.
Active fourth step is "in terms of end", actively planning the university for four years. Any plan will become you
The end of the stage will also become the starting point of your next stage, and your ambitions and interests will provide you with direction and motivation.
If you don't know your own ambition and interest, you should be an excavation and interest plan; if you don't know how to
What should I do after the industry, you should immediately develop a plan to try new fields; if you don't know what you are, what is the most deficiencies?
You should write a resume immediately, find your teacher, friends to score, or review it yourself, see where you need to improve; if you finish
If you want to go abroad, you should think about how to have specific research experience and academic papers before applying for abroad;
If you want to enter a company after graduation, you should collect the company's recruitment advertisements so that your own resume is
Comparison, see what experience is still lacking. As long as you carefully develop, manage, assess and adjust your life planning, you will
Getting closer to your own goals.
Controlling time: It is proneous, people should be self-control
In addition to positive active attitudes, college students must learn to arrange their own time and manage their own affairs. A classmate is such a college life:
"There is no difference in the university and high school, every day is still studying, it is still on each exam.
Heart test results ... Different is only a lot of time and sleep time, and there is a lot of stress.
"
This classmate didn't understand, "there are many time many" is a huge difference between college and high school. More time,
Just arrange your own time, scheduled time, management time.
Arrangement time out to do a schedule, more importantly, "Subject is proneous". Seven of "high performance people
"In the book, the author Steven. Kevi proposed," important things "and" emergency things "differences are a waste of time
One of the biggest reasons. Because people's inertia is to do the most urgent matter first, but this will lead to some important things.
Drop. For example, I think that all kinds of learning in this article are "important", but they are not necessarily a teacher.
The compulsory course, the students who adopted my suggestions will still be ruined because of the emergency things such as exam, handling operations.
Good foundation, learning to be people, etc. Therefore, a good way to manage every day is that it is determined in the morning.
Emergency things and important things, recall before going to bed, have no balance between the two this day.
Everyone has many "emergency" and "important things", wanting to do everything best. I
It is recommended that everyone will separate "what must be doing" and "try to do things". The thing you must do is best, but try to do it.
It is trying to do our best. It is recommended that everyone uses good attitudes and broad mind to accept things that you can't change temporary.
Pay more attention to those you can change. In addition, pay attention to the operational law of the biological clock, work on time, work and rest
This will have the best state in learning.
The university is the most prone to the direction. College students must have self-control ability, let them be with good friends,
Learn some habits, don't add it to your habits (such as online games). A active, active Chinese student
Advise other students in "Remove Student Network": "Don't play games, don't play online games. I know
There is no online game in university-level university-level university friends. Into the online game is an escape for reality,
Is it unwilling to face yourself insufficient? I think that you have to go from online games, you have to cherish your precious university time.
Find the direction of interesting, do something meaningful and able to bring you a sense of satisfaction. "
For people: cultivate friendship, participate in the group
Many college students have left their parents for the first time, leaving their own growth. Enter the campus to start collective
After living, how to get along with colleagues with classmates, friends, and associations, have become part of college student learning. University
Everyone can learn, cultivate, and train opportunities with people in a relatively loose environment. in the future,
In the society, the ability to get along with people in the work will become more and more important, and even more than the work itself. and so
College students should take the opportunity to cultivate their own exchange awareness and team spirit.
"Interpersonal communication skills are not strong enough, the interpersonal circle is not wide, but there is no expertise can cause everyone to pay attention,
I don't know how to effectively establish contact with others in the community. "This is some college students often in interpersonal communication."
I have been confused. I have recommended interpersonal communication skills during college, my suggestion is:
First, treat people with sincerity, personally defend oneself, to yourself. For others, hugging, tolerant chest
Whether you have a self-criticism, you have a must-have attitude toward yourself. When you interact with people, how do you treat others, others will
How to treat you. This is like the mirror, your own expressions and attitudes, you can come from others to you.
And attitude over the attitude. If you are looking for people, others will treat you with sincerity. If you host others, others will host you. The most sincere friendship and the most difficult hatred are gradually caused by this "reflection" principle. So when you want to correct
When others, you should fix yourself first. Do you want someone to you, how should you be to people? You want others to understand you,
You must first understand others first.
Second, cultivate real friendship. If you can do the first point, many friends in the university will become your life.
confidant. On the road to study and seek its own development, such friendship is precious. Don't only go to friends
Look for friends who are similar to you or only with you. Good friends have a lot of kinds: optimistic friends, wisdom friends,
Founded friends, humorous friends, motivate your friends to enhance your ability, help you understand
His friends, friends who are telling the truth, and so on. In addition, when you are in love, you can teach you how to take care of others and improve
Cooperate and self-control, but love this thing should be followed, don't have to fall in love with love.
Third, learn team spirit and communication skills. The community is a microscopic society, and participating in the community is the best before entering the society.
Mood. In the community, you can develop the ability and leadership of teamwork, and you can also use your professional expertise. But more
Importantly, you have to be a sincere and sincere server and volunteer, or actively playing classmates when he is working as a student.
Teacher communication between the bridges and exercises their communication skills, serving classmates and teachers. Such learning
The process will not be very easy, setback is definitely, but don't be discouraged, interpersonal relationships in the university community are not
The study of "paying tuition fees" has made mistakes.
Fourth, learn from the people around them. In the class, in the community, I will observe the surroundings, especially those you.
I feel classmates who have a very strong communication skills and communication skills, how they are in people. For example, see how they are
Conflict in the conflict, how to convince others and affect others, how to play our own cooperation and coordination skills, how to express
Respect and sincerity for others, how to express their thumbs up or oppose, how to fully display individuality without felt others
Wait. By observing and imitating, you will gradually discover that your interpersonal communication skills will not intend to improve. Learning
At school, every friend can be your good teacher, their enthusiasm, humor, wit, blogging, straight, communicate,
Politeness and other character can be your learning object. At the same time, those you don't like, you can ring the alarm for you.
WARNING Don't do that people and things. Of course, you should also generously help every friend, try to be their
Good teachers and models.
Fifth, improve your own cultivation and personality charm. If you feel that there is no special, there is no hobbies, you may become your own interpersonal.
An obstacle to improving your ability, then you can consciously choose and train some hobbies. Common happiness
Interests and hobbies are one of your way to build a deep feelings with friends. Many people who have built trees in their careers will only
Most of them have their own interests and hobbies. I have a colleague in the Microsoft Asian Institute.
Master of painting, bridge and sports. Amateur hobby is not only a way of interpersonal communication, but also let everyone
Discover your potential outside your reading. For example, physical exercise can use your sports potential or cultivate you
Teamwork spirit. If there is really no hobbies, then, read more good books to enrich your knowledge.
Improve your own interpersonal communication skills, because there is nothing more than wisdom and profoundness, it is more charming.
Therefore, learn to get along with people, this is also a "must-have course" in the university.
Expectation of college students
When walking into the university school door, you are still a busy, green, passive, score-study, homework
Middle school graduates.
When you study college, you should master seven learning, learn from self-study, basic knowledge, practice, interest training, proactive, control time, for people.
After four years, you will establish self, seek truth from learning, experience the autonomy from independence, from
The time is planned to exercise from the communication, and the taste is mature from the dating, and win the value from the practice, from the interested
Send happiness, get strength from the pursuit.
When leaving the university, as long as you do this, your biggest harvest will be "confident and desire to have anything.
"You can become a hostess with potential, thoughtful, valuable, and promising China's future.
Therefore, I think the university should spend this.
Dr. Li: The global vice president of Microsoft Company is the first dean of the Microsoft Asian Institute. In academic field,
He is a scientific research genius that attacks the reunion; he is in the management level, he is a leading person. As a superiority
Chinese scholar, he is creating another miracle. At the same time, Dr. Li Kai Fu is extremely concerned about China's education.
I wrote three cases of concern to Chinese students, have a huge impact in domestic young students. He also
The country has opened "Opening the Student Network (www.kaifulee.com). Recently, Dr. Li Kai Fu wrote "to China
The fourth letter of college students, through the "China Youth Daily", "China Youth" magazine, "China"
Student "Magazine," Wenhui Reading Weekly "published.
