Why can't I communicate very well? If the other person is violent to the extreme, there is a source of sources, otherwise it is a matter of communication. In the project, it works well in the project. It has always been very smooth. The reason is actually very simple: everyone is more self-centered, with their own experience accumulated or one-sided book knowledge as the criterion of the judgment, more serious is Even if you feel wrong, I refuse to admit it. The absolute pair of software development is too small, and each person is slightly different in the direction of balance, and it may lead to long debates. I think the following points can improve:
One: Dare to deny your own problems without the best solution, but will definitely be better. The solution proposed by yourself is probably not harder than others, then you need to be brave enough to deny yourself, dare to admit it to others to understand the incompleteness, the lack of knowledge, and consider it. Dare to deny yourself to let go of the shelf, need to be modesty from outside. Two: praise
Third: The three-person trip to learn must have our teacher, and report the mentality of learning and people can more pour more in the "listening" person to describe the problem, and the descriptor of the problem is also more pleasant to analyze the problem, here Reduce the error in understanding. Its four: open mind how to develop a mentality, quote a few words from others: "1. When faced with you very familiar, even recognized as a very good problem, even if our views are true It is the truth of the "Test", we can also consciously ask other people's opinions and suggestions; 2. When faced different opinions, even these opinions are "ridiculous" according to our own experience, should we It is also possible to seriously explore the deep reasons for the other party's comments; 3. When we give yourself a goal, when you evaluate yourself, whether you consciously adopt a social shared value standard, not a self-emptive, and self-righteousness. "
5: Do not interruption others to speak to others, and claim that they understand it, it is likely to break chapter, which is often a common disaster that caused misne. A problem solution is often associated with a specific context environment. For the explanatory, there is necessary to clarify the context of the problem; listeners, you need carefully and patient to grasp the context.
Six: Pay attention to communication efficiency Everyone is precious, and each communication needs to pay attention to efficiency. Before communicating, I want to achieve the purpose; elaborate the problems, advance to the idea, discuss the consulting questions, and clearly discuss the issues in advance; the communication process is simple, and the discussion around the problem is, don't pull it. Far, you have to get immediately; if you encounter the problem, it is best to record the questions, and you will discuss it in the past.
Its seven: The disorder of learning communication is often derived from the obstacle to knowledge.
If you can improve your above, it is believed that the team partners will also have the same way of handling, so team members have higher trust and more harmonious communication.
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