Woman's secret is generally written in diary, locking into the drawer, even posted in a whisper that is said in a friend's ear, ... then men? Generally in my heart. Women's secrets usually need people to share, and men's secrets are like a deep, they can only chew themselves. If you are a woman who loves him, we must first know that what is his secret is a "private property" that cannot touch, or it may be his difficulty.
Secret 1: His emotional record
Case: Jacky, 32 years old, company project manager - I have had a girlfriend before marriage, and she made a breakup because of all of the reasons. I am very painful for a while, until the wife is married. I have never told my wife, but she didn't know what I heard, I always wrapped with this matter, sometimes I didn't intend to neglect her, she took a vinegar to ask me. : How have you been to her in the past? Will n't it be indifferent to me? I have an obey. I really want to tell her that I don't have to be so interested in my past, but I am afraid that she misunderstands deeper, I really don't know how to open.
Men's ideas: Almost every man has a green emotional life, but in the heart of the man, "the past woman" and "the current woman" is two planets, men are reluctant to tell this to women. It is not a man who is shameful, but a man who believes that there is another cultivated woman loves to eat vinegar. If a man self-unique "ugly", will there be a good day in the future? Therefore, all of this has become an extremely depressed secret.
Women's response: Let his emotion experience become a dusty past. In the heart, the secret is set to "Lei District", always reminding yourself not to involve, even if you hear it, don't put the roots, your stubborn and qi have to arouse his memories and even think of the "her". Benefits, what is good? Smart woman knows that it is not self-cultivation.
·Key words:
1. Lost: Because it is very lost, therefore just don't mention it.
2. Online love: Men not admit that this kind of behavior is not very bright.
3. Yes: There is a feeling of stealing, men feel wonderful, and feel the best way to enjoy it as a secret.
4. Emputation: For married men, this is the secret of him.
Secret 2: Psychological needs of all kinds of "female chemical"
Case: Cui Tao, 36 years old, deputy general - in many people's eyes, I am the so-called "successful person": Have a high salary, big house, a car, in fact, I have a secret, such as hitting tired I also want to rely on the shoulders of my wife to rest; I have a grievances and sad, and I will think about it quickly and quickly. Sometimes I really want to have a child. If you have worry-free, you will have a long time, or sprinkle Spirit ... But I am very afraid that Mrs. I will know the "glorious" image that I will affect me in her mind.
Men's ideas: From the individual's individual, in fact, men are more fragile than women, but no matter whether they are women or men, they are absolutely absolute, and it seems that men mean the rigid, strong, pragmatic, big, not trimming ... In fact, there are many "female-cultivation needs" that men who are not known, but this is a secret that only don't say it, women can't open it.
Women's response: Men are a "face" animal, like women's appreciation and worship, so the man's secret is very subtle, can not easily uncover the answer. Women can only face it calm, understand, you will understand it, don't complain about the mouth, let alone encourage him "weak", "child", or men will think you will look low. He, this is what he can't stand it; about his love vain and smelly is also a matter of heart, this will only be angry with him. ·Key words:
1. Vanity: To make the money in your pocket, it is very difficult, but you have to make yourself like a rich person, it is easy.
2. Weak: men also have weakness, but this cannot be disclosed.
3. Smelly: Men generally die, do not recognize their love dress, this is also a "secret" of men.
4. The child is angry: it seems like Lai Lee, which is also spoiled, but it is not suitable for large-scale development.
Secret 3: The so-called "man's own thing"
Case: Liu Ming, 30 years old, media reporter - I will meet with a bunch of friends after get off work, I am very pleasant to gather in the mountains, drink some wine, I feel very comfortable. But my wife always doesn't rest assured, sometimes I have to play a few calls in a night. Where are you? And who is together? What are you doing? It is not annoying. There is also something I work, and she always wants to ask. I know that she is doing this because of care, but I really don't want her to intervene in these my own things.
Men's ideas: women workers in detail, like communication, love, or even drill angular pointers. And men, many times, I will feel that there are some men's own things, women don't have to be a big surprisingly, because men must do a man.
Women's response: When the husband needs you to be a wife, don't try to be a planner of his work and life. Everyone has a psychological needs of their own living space. The man is naturally no exception, so the woman's wise choice is: from him to crazy, what kind of fox dog friend, working condition ... His "self-staying", by him !
·Key words:
1. Work status: Some work is secretized, in order to don't want to take the day of the day in the night. So, men don't like women intervene.
2. Entertainment: Men like to play with the same-sex friends, do not like women to intervene.
3. Fortune Dream: Desire to get rich almost every man's dream, but to carry a wife to do it, and hope that one day can give a love woman a big surprise.
Secret 4: Anxiety on sex
Case: ANSON, 40 years old, company staff - I and my wife are more harmonious in love, but I always worry about independence and anxiety, such as worrying that my size is not enough, the number of times, the time is satisfied ... ... But my anxiety is reluctant to let the wife know, but I don't want her to take the initiative.
Men's ideas: Sex is a man's life, very care, and think once every six minutes. Sexual is an important cornerstone that makes up the man's self-esteem, whether it is a man, is reluctant to admit that he is incompetent. Men or less have anxiety for their own performance. But this is a big secret, can't let the woman know.
Women's response: behind men "sex", it is actually struggling. So from the wife's appreciation and trust, it is the best "Viagog" that is a man who is caused by what is the cause of the situation. As a wife, the wife should not touch the color, and it is more unable to complain.
·Key words:
1. Summary: men usually have false reports, and are more news.
2. How long: In terms of duration, men are all right, such as bottles, don't trust your wife. 3. "The widow is ill": The safest code is that killing does not say!
