I have been in a state of confusion for many years. But once a learning point woke me up.
On the podium, the teacher said to a lady: "Can you make 200 volt (" Ms. answer: "You can't do it." "Give money." "Can't do it." "So you listen "" The lecturer solemnly said "I am a robber now. If you don't don't have 200 ambush, I will kill your son. I want to think, I want to answer again." Ms. thought, bite his teeth :"can."
I suddenly understood that I have lack a reason, a reason for a success over the years. From this, I began to embark on a reason. Friends, give yourself a reason, your road will get wider.
responsibility
I don't know if you have seen a movie called "smiling". One of these plots makes me very moved. In the film, there was a nurse in the SARS, and I called my boyfriend and said: "I see them all sign up, I will report it. I really are afraid. I am very afraid before signing up: I will not be improper in my next life. Nurse, now, since I chose a nurse, I will need to go. Because, this is my responsibility. "
In the face of the threat of death, any hesitation and fear can be understood. At this time, she thought of the responsibility. Although I want to die, but still go, because she decided to take her own responsibilities.
Each of us, in this world, play a certain role. Or doing a child, or for a parent. If you want to think about it, we will have your own responsibility.
No matter how you choose [You can even choose anyone]. In this life, since you have done it, you must let your parents Antena, you must let your child receive the best education, let your other half of the lives of peace. Because this is your responsibility.
So, success is not what you want, and it is no longer do you want, but you must do it. For the responsibility, go to work, go to work, straight to success. This is no more difficult than the face.
Be a wonderful yourself
Life is just a form, everyone has their own different choices. But I don't know if you think about it, what is the meaning of life?
Everyone's birth and death are the same, *** naked, *** naked. The only difference is just a process. Most people repeat their lives every day: go to work, eat, go to work, eat, sleep, go to work - so recovered, 365 days is equal to 1 day. And this cycle is broken, and its life will fall into a deadlock. So a life process, are you satisfied?
People live in this society, we can only go with yourself. Because if you and Bill Gates, and Li Jiacheng, you must be a failure. And if you must compare with those African refugees, you have succeeded. It can be seen that one is alive, it is to do yourself. Every day, it is a little bit, even if it is a percent. You will grow 3.65 times a year. As long as you continue to make progress, continue to work hard, keep playing your energy, you must live a most exciting yourself.
Do you understand
There is a rural college student, very introverted. He always doesn't understand how the voice control light in the student apartment is bright. But he is not so embarrassed to ask people, afraid that others say that rustic in his soil. One day, he took back to the next night, and a person walked on the aisle, thinking about a problem for forgot to turn, "touching" hit the head, the light is on. He suddenly understood: It turns out that the head will be bright.
Who deceived him? He himself, his ignorance and blind self-confidence deceived him.
Many people are immersed in some so-called experiences, and they are unable to accept some new things. In fact, you think carefully, if your so-called experience is true, what should you be a situation today? What do you think about this experience to teach you? Your parents, teachers, relatives, friends. Can they have succeeded in themselves. No. Then they can teach you something. What do you want to get something, you must ask for people to travel. Only in this way, you can know, what should I do, why, how can I do it. I want me to be willing
Everyone wants to succeed. In this world, the true sense of success is very small. why?
This world is really fair, you have to get something, you must go to other things. The so-called "she is" "she" said that they have to have a good time. If you want to be a success, you must give up the happiness of some ordinary people. For example: play mahjong, chat, look at some boring TV series. And it is necessary to withstand some of the pain that is unwilling to bear. For example: loneliness, loneliness, not being understood. This is why many people can't succeed, don't give up happiness and suffering.
People with strong success, they see that they are successful. Because they know: Only success can truly relieve their pain and meet the happiness they want, so they must succeed. And they know more about that some things on the road to success are required to give up and bear. So they are willing.
The reason why the winner will succeed, naturally there are many reasons. But one of them is very important because they resolutely determine:
I want, I am willing.