The Buddha has encountered such a thing: One day the king came to the Buddha to hear the previous hearing, and began to practice the inner view, and usually at home, as long as someone started to learn, slowly, the law will affect the other people in the home. Because the king is the master of a family, the length of the country, his influence is natural, all people in the family are practicing this method, and the Queen Mary has become a good practitioner. They are often in the same Zen in the palace.
After one day, after an hour, the king asked the Queen: "If someone asks you, who is your favorite person? How do you answer?" "" When I am, the same problem, I found out, I found out In fact, in addition to yourself, I don't love it. "The king smiled and said:" It's good! I also have the same problem, the same answer. "The same answer." So he went to see the Buddha to tell him this, the Buddha said: " Say it! Say it! "
This is the first step in the pain. When a person begins to discover the problem of this problem, you can go out, solve the problem, otherwise it will live in the imagination. I love me, I love my wife, I love my husband, I love this, this loves. "In fact, you don't love you, you only love yourself; love your desire, hope to be with your dreams, I love this person because I expect him to achieve my ideals, once his behavior and attitude have to go to the road, so Love disappears, so I am not love others, but love yourself, as long as I can, I can easily remove private thoughts, I can get out of self-centered habits, so this is the first important thing for inner view. Experience.
We often have no perfect love and lover in the world, but often ignore the people who want to go, people are still god, often hopeful with perfect romantic love, but ignore the romantic and reality difficult to compatibility.
We often fall in love with the feeling, fall in love with the tacit understanding, fall in love with romance, but do not necessarily love this person, I don't know if you are your choice, no life is a perfect, if you really Falling in love with a perfect person, then what growing in the days you have in the days? He has some shortcomings to let you learn to accumulate, let him have some shortcomings to make you up for him, such love has intensive, these lives have traction, then you still have to love a perfect relationship? In fact, you love is just a perfect standard! Learn to love a body of a body and soul!
Love your choice and his imperfections
愛愛 is an object
But not an idol
Let love will fill it up with each other's shortcomings
Let love will be satisfied with each other's life.
A person's breakfast is just an egg two people's breakfast is a love.
A person's hug can only hold two people's hug of true pain
How is a person's happiness? The happiness of the two people is full of you.
One person's pain has to have at least two people's pain at least personal sharing ~
