Chinese ancients
In recent years, we often hear the word "Yin Shengyang Disease", which is a description and evaluation of the Chinese people's ability to play and character in their own societies. Although its scope and extent need to be detailed, this word expresses people's true mental impression. One of the reasons why this impression is that the Chinese man has the psychological traits of "Yin", and when they participate in the rigid style competition, they will
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Psychological feelings feel uncomfortable, feelings that you can't play your potential. The contradiction between the intrinsic traits and the external rules has contributed to their psychological shadows.
"Yin Shengyang Decision" is common in contemporary, this is expected to be in the "Yin Shengyang Disease" impression that people often hang in the mouth now, but also from the 1980s Chinese women's volleyball Wake the World Championship. At that time, the female ride has established a typical image of China. Although the Chinese men's volleyball team also achieved the best results in the same time, people still send out "Yin Shengyang Diseases". The male row tavern called Wang Jiawei as "a flying man", and he can beautifully show his heaven. The women's volleyball team is called "iron hammer" and can determine the winning and negative. Compared, Lang Ping is more masculin. After years, even until today, the entire Chinese sports community gave people the impression of "Yin Shengyang Disease". The scope of this impression continues to expand, and it has a wide range in Chinese society.
In recent years, in many middle schools, universities, and in other competition areas, people can find that many girls perform their own performance, actively participate in competition, and many boys are better facing, and avoiding positive competition. Many boys lost to girls in competition, which is also true phenomenon. For thousands of years, men's weak women are weak in human society, so people often do it. Can be used in the actual performance of men and women in Chinese society, "Yin Shengyang Delivery" will become more prominent. The formation of Chinese men is directly related to the spirit of "Doukang" in the traditional culture. What is the reason for the original contrast between men and women?
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In fact, the weakness of Chinese men is related to their "yin soft" psychological traits, and this intimate character is affected by traditional Chinese culture. Because Chinese men are most exhausted in the process of forming "yin soft" ideas, they can also never internalize these ideas into self-laminated.
Mr. Yan Hongming once said that the brush can express the spirit of the Chinese, and its pen tip is soft, but it can write the words. The character advocated by Confucianism is gentle, "thick" supports "soft" behind, so it is soft and weak, and internal strength is full. The Taoist family is strong, and the idea of "yin soft" is more thorough. These ideas penetrate into the Chinese people's daily psychology. They are more willing to hear the books, Lu Bu and Yanqing, as a peach blossom, and Yan Qing, who is a leopard, and Li Wei's martial arts, and Zhuge Liang, the feather fan, and the merits. The reading man showed soft and ridiculous shape, the general people also implicit, and gently made a face. Even when you are integrity, people don't directly force, but the mid-to-earth, which corresponds to this, and the Chinese conspiracy will also enter.
The conspiracy of the conspiracy means that "yin soft" has aesthetic meaning, and the two sometimes contradict each other, but sometimes cooperate with each other. Their distinguishes and cooperation, they cooperate with the efficacy and value, to grasp and judgment in the overall "soft" back (yin). The fun of "yin soft" is expressed, and the overall consideration is performed, and Chinese men are often more opportunities than women, and their performance is more better. When Chinese traditional "yin soft" encounters the Western "masculin", its own defects have been highlighted from traditional Chinese, especially men, with "yin soft" psychological traits, which helps them at the time at the time. Speaking of people, playing creating wisdom, building a harmonious relationship, accumulating material wealth. Therefore, this intimate can be quite large to play people's potential, which is a thick "yin". For thousands of years, the Chinese people have had conflicts with the ethnic and "masculin" people around them, and they have failed in the power resistance. But people did not lose confidence in "Yin". On the contrary, the glory finally played a heavy force to incorporate "masculin" into their own arms, and the scope of Chinese culture continues to expand. However, when Chinese traditional "yin" encounters the "masculin" in the West, "Yin" is lost. Because the Western "Mangang" is not the original, it promotes Westerners to play the mind, establish science, create wealth, conquer the nature, establish equality society, and can explore the mystery of the soul, discover the original emotions, this is a thick "mascuous". It can be included in the big and delicate emotions, so "just" is not crisp. The missionaries rushed to the story of the poor, and the American soldiers left tears for Vietnamese children, which made us feel this "masculin" has a deep emotional source.
Chinese men do not appreciate in their bones, not suitable for the masculin, and conflict with rigid competition rules to contemporary society, self-realization has become people's ideals. American psychological analysts Maslow found that the typical characters of self-realization have a strong dominant and external character. They have considerable aggressiveness, which can make self's potential directly outward. Maslow described is some people with prostate character, their "just" has a deep emotional support. Modern competition rules are conducive to rigid to self-potential. And many Chinese men feel that in daily work, study and life, there is attackers, aggressive, directly to serve others, they are not good at, they are not willing to do, they are also difficult to pick up
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Even in Western societies, a Chinese man who has been successful than they are more than they in exotic wife, girlfriend. They often feel cultural differences, which make them fade with their potential. There is often a kind of voyage in my heart, has not yet issued, and I will sink. This is the "yin soft", which dragged their hearts and participated in their shadows.
The contradiction between the "yin" characteristics and rigid rules is not short-term. Chinese men need to continue their self-reflection and transform their character. At the same time, this transformation cannot be separated from the original foundation, and they should find the original thick force. This kind of power is not in the individual, and people need people to communicate, transfer and stir. When this kind of force is cultivated in a society, it can participate in the revision rules to facilitate its play. Only through the process of consistent inside and outside, Chinese men can get out of the shadow of "yin soft". Background Knowledge The Chinese classical culture from philosophy of philosophy in Chinese classical culture, emphasizes just softly, and then emphasizes Jouji. "Laozi" is most concerned about this: "Silver and weak" It is unbeatable by soldiers, and the wood is competing. Strongly, the weak is on the weak. "List · Yellow Emperor" said: "There is a long way to win, there is no way to win. Chang Shengzhi is gentle, and it is often a great way." Ancient Book "Army" residual articles: "Pure Just pure, its country will die. "" Sangshi · I'm slight "also said:" The soft man is also. The thief of the people. The help of the weak people, the strong people's complaints. "The above Simple dialectics on just soft. The deep meaning of this "precious" thought is: From the long-term, big strategy to see, weak new things have truly powerful vitality, and things in the easeous period seem to be strong, and ultimately to decay under certain conditions. decline. The softness of water is not complex, and it is always in a low position, but the impact of water (such as flood, waves) is powerful. According to this principle, one person only puts themselves in the proper position, to understand the waiting for people, so that it is possible to maintain a growing situation. And if you rely on the advantage, you will be sinking everywhere, arrogant, so you will change to your back, you will enroll in the future.
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"Yin Shengyang Decision" is common in contemporary, this is expected to be in the "Yin Shengyang Disease" impression that people often hang in the mouth now, but also from the 1980s Chinese women's volleyball Wake the World Championship. At that time, the female ride has established a typical image of China. Although the Chinese men's volleyball team also achieved the best results in the same time, people still send out "Yin Shengyang Diseases". The male row tavern called Wang Jiawei as "a flying man", and he can beautifully show his heaven. The women's volleyball team is called "iron hammer" and can determine the winning and negative. Compared, Lang Ping is more masculin. After years, even until today, the entire Chinese sports community gave people the impression of "Yin Shengyang Disease". The scope of this impression continues to expand, and it has a wide range in Chinese society.
In recent years, in many middle schools, universities, and in other competition areas, people can find that many girls perform their own performance, actively participate in competition, and many boys are better facing, and avoiding positive competition. Many boys lost to girls in competition, which is also true phenomenon. For thousands of years, men's weak women are weak in human society, so people often do it. Can be used in the actual performance of men and women in Chinese society, "Yin Shengyang Delivery" will become more prominent. The formation of Chinese men is directly related to the spirit of "Doukang" in the traditional culture. What is the reason for the original contrast between men and women?
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In fact, the weakness of Chinese men is related to their "yin soft" psychological traits, and this intimate character is affected by traditional Chinese culture. Because Chinese men are most exhausted in the process of forming "yin soft" ideas, they can also never internalize these ideas into self-laminated.
Mr. Yan Hongming once said that the brush can express the spirit of the Chinese, and its pen tip is soft, but it can write the words. The character advocated by Confucianism is gentle, "thick" supports "soft" behind, so it is soft and weak, and internal strength is full. The Taoist family is strong, and the idea of "yin soft" is more thorough.
These ideas penetrate into the Chinese people's daily psychology. They are more willing to hear the books, Lu Bu and Yanqing, as a peach blossom, and Yan Qing, who is a leopard, and Li Wei's martial arts, and Zhuge Liang, the feather fan, and the merits. The reading man showed soft and ridiculous shape, the general people also implicit, and gently made a face. Even when you are integrity, people don't directly force, but the mid-to-earth, which corresponds to this, and the Chinese conspiracy will also enter. The conspiracy of the conspiracy means that "yin soft" has aesthetic meaning, and the two sometimes contradict each other, but sometimes cooperate with each other. Their distinguishes and cooperation, they cooperate with the efficacy and value, to grasp and judgment in the overall "soft" back (yin). The fun of "yin soft" is expressed, and the overall consideration is performed, and Chinese men are often more opportunities than women, and their performance is more better. When Chinese traditional "yin soft" encounters the Western "masculin", its own defects have been highlighted from traditional Chinese, especially men, with "yin soft" psychological traits, which helps them at the time at the time. Speaking of people, playing creating wisdom, building a harmonious relationship, accumulating material wealth. Therefore, this intimate can be quite large to play people's potential, which is a thick "yin". For thousands of years, the Chinese people have had conflicts with the ethnic and "masculin" people around them, and they have failed in the power resistance. But people did not lose confidence in "Yin". On the contrary, the glory finally played a heavy force to incorporate "masculin" into their own arms, and the scope of Chinese culture continues to expand. However, when Chinese traditional "yin" encounters the "masculin" in the West, "Yin" is lost. Because the Western "Mangang" is not the original, it promotes Westerners to play the mind, establish science, create wealth, conquer the nature, establish equality society, and can explore the mystery of the soul, discover the original emotions, this is a thick "mascuous". It can be included in the big and delicate emotions, so "just" is not crisp. The missionaries rushed to the story of the poor, and the American soldiers left tears for Vietnamese children, which made us feel this "masculin" has a deep emotional source.
Chinese men do not appreciate in their bones, not suitable for the masculin, and conflict with rigid competition rules to contemporary society, self-realization has become people's ideals. American psychological analysts Maslow found that the typical characters of self-realization have a strong dominant and external character. They have considerable aggressiveness, which can make self's potential directly outward. Maslow described is some people with prostate character, their "just" has a deep emotional support. Modern competition rules are conducive to rigid to self-potential. And many Chinese men feel that in daily work, study and life, there is attackers, aggressive, directly to serve others, they are not good at, they are not willing to do, they are also difficult to pick up
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Efforts to defeat them in this way. That is to say, they don't appreciate in the bones, they are not suitable for the masculin, so they are more depressed than the female compatriots, which is more energetic than girls, and consume more heart efforts to regulate their emotions. Even in Western societies, a Chinese man who has been successful than they are more than they in exotic wife, girlfriend. They often feel cultural differences, which make them fade with their potential. There is often a kind of voyage in my heart, has not yet issued, and I will sink. This is the "yin soft", which dragged their hearts and participated in their shadows.
The contradiction between the "yin" characteristics and rigid rules is not short-term. Chinese men need to continue their self-reflection and transform their character. At the same time, this transformation cannot be separated from the original foundation, and they should find the original thick force. This kind of power is not in the individual, and people need people to communicate, transfer and stir. When this kind of force is cultivated in a society, it can participate in the revision rules to facilitate its play. Only through the process of consistent inside and outside, Chinese men can get out of the shadow of "yin soft". Background Knowledge The Chinese classical culture from philosophy of philosophy in Chinese classical culture, emphasizes just softly, and then emphasizes Jouji. "Laozi" is most concerned about this: "Silver and weak" It is unbeatable by soldiers, and the wood is competing. Strongly, the weak is on the weak. "List · Yellow Emperor" said: "There is a long way to win, there is no way to win. Chang Shengzhi is gentle, and it is often a great way." Ancient Book "Army" residual articles: "Pure Just pure, its country will die. "" Sangshi · I'm slight "also said:" The soft man is also. The thief of the people. The help of the weak people, the strong people's complaints. "The above Simple dialectics on just soft. The deep meaning of this "precious" thought is: From the long-term, big strategy to see, weak new things have truly powerful vitality, and things in the easeous period seem to be strong, and ultimately to decay under certain conditions. decline. The softness of water is not complex, and it is always in a low position, but the impact of water (such as flood, waves) is powerful. According to this principle, one person only puts themselves in the proper position, to understand the waiting for people, so that it is possible to maintain a growing situation. And if you rely on the advantage, you will be sinking everywhere, arrogant, so you will change to your back, you will enroll in the future.
