March 1, 2005 ◎ ◎ How is character to determine the fate?
A Japanese psychology master said a word: psychological change, attitude is also changed; attitude change, behavior changes; behavioral change, habits change; habits, personality varies; humanity change, fate varies. In other words, a person wants to work well, his character is best better. You can't always let others feel uncomfortable with you, so people lack your affinity, so people can be as important as the ancients say it is as important as the ancients, can't always feel too good. This kind of self-feeling is actually very losing.
There is a friend driving to work, suddenly, there is a drunken car to stop his car on the road, not to say he hit him and let the bus apologize. This is before, he will go to the drunken two punches, this time he is not. I want to think about it, I said to the drunkard: "Sorry, please forgive me." The drunkard shot his shoulders and said: "Both people, rush your sentence, walk." He. " Going back to the car, I didn't feel wronged, but there was a pleasant feeling of defeating myself.
In fact, people are a fish, society is a cylinder, if we are a tropical fish, then we must drop your body temperature instead of hope that water is heated. Survival is in a certain quality, it is later to adapt to the society. Now let you down, you can't lose, you can't go, so a targetful person must learn to be reluctant to endure in the situation of inner guidelines. Character determines our destiny (love, marriage, interpersonal relationship, parent-child education).
◎ ◎ Teach you to see a person
Look at the national education of a country, you have to look at his public toilet. Look at a man's taste, you have to look at his sock. Look at whether a woman is hungry, it depends on her hand. Look at a person's blood, you have to look at his hair. Look at a person's heart, look at his eyes. Look at a person's price, you have to look at his opponent. Look at a person's base card. Look at the friends around him. Look at someone's character, what do you want to write his words. Look at whether a person is happy, don't look smile, you have to watch the expression when you wake up in the morning. Look at a person's mind, you have to see how he faces failed and sold it. Look at the relationship between two people, it is necessary to see an unexpected situation, the other party's tension.
◎ ◎ Garfuff cat's classic definition
