First, you care more about the other side, you are talking about falling, but you don't know the idea of each other; you think you are very suitable, he is not thinking about it; he doesn't think about him, you don't seem to be different, what is it? ? "If the two different hearts, can you go with a single walk?" (Amo Sub-3 chapter 3) sometimes has a situation in love, if it is in a sound feelings, there will be alternating phenomena, two People turn the role of pursuing and being pursued; but if there is a party always playing the pursuit, this kind of feelings are not perfect, you will last, you will be hungry, you will feel that you will be angry, you will be angry, deceived, pain. Second, your love is the potential of each other, your love is the potential of the other party, not the other party's true look, you love the other party's future, then he is not your partner, but you have transformed objects. Every time we make a marriage, we will ask, if the other party will change, will you be satisfied? If you have always hope that you can change the other party, I feel more satisfied, that is not love, but gambling, use the happiness of both sides as a bet. When you interact with one person, you have to love and respect the other's book, not his future look, you can expect him to continue to grow, but you must be satisfied with him. Third, do you want to help each other you often feel that the other party is very poor? Do you think you have a responsibility to help each other? Will you be afraid if he leaves each other? If so, you are probably a "savior". "Savior" will not find a suitable object, but find an object he sympathy and can help. Find a person who has been trauma, fragile, dependent, not loved, wronged, you will love it, he will be grateful to you, such feelings are a rescue mission, not sound, balanced feelings. So we don't encourage brothers to counseling sisters, or sisters tutoring brothers because there are seven-made people who will love. People who serve as a rescue mission often make sympathy to love. The key to keep in mind is "Respect". You must be a person you can respect. You must be proud of the other party, your partner doesn't want your rescue, but you want you to really understand him. Fourth, the other party as a young female star in love, college students fall in love with professors, secretary love the boss .. Fall in love with the object of worship, this kind of feelings are difficult to maintain normal, because the two cannot be equal treat. Both men and women must treat equally, I don't point to the status, but attitude, can't overocate each other. People who will fall in love with the people worship, usually calm down, they feel that they are very bad. Jesus said: You have to love people, if you can't love yourself, how can you love others? If you have excessively worship each other, this feelings will not have results. 5. You are just attracting everyone who is attracted by the other party, right? If you find that you are deeply attracted to some of the other person, you have to ask yourself, if the other party doesn't have the blue big eyes, the magnetic sound ... If the other party is not a model, you will not play basketball ... I still Will it be with him (she)? Gorge is false, beauty is a virtual floating; only the Women of the Lord, must praise. Sixth, a chance to get along with each other, you and the other party share a certain job, often try to work together, so you feel fell in love with each other. You go for three weeks, I know a man who is coming to vacation. You feel like you fall into the news ... Briefly, you can't stand in a special situation, not a normal rail, this kind of feelings can't last longer, because In a short time, you can't let you fully understand the individuality of each other.
7. In order to rebellious to choose this object, the parents are always emphasized, to find a rich object, a poor shot of each boyfriend; from the little parents, you can manage you strictly, and your girlfriend is very casual. From the little father, it is the most important thing to pass through the incense, and your girlfriend is not can't live, just don't want to be born. If you choose the object, you always make your parents are angry. It is likely that you just want to rebellious. You feel that you must prove what to fight against, when you can't control your choice, you don't love each other, this feeling is destined to have no results . Eight, the other party is not free to stay this to the end, because this is not a feeling. The first prerequisite for choosing a lifelong partner is - the other party is "free body". If the man you fall in love will break up early and another woman; or he said he doesn't love the woman, he loves you; or his original object accepts your existence, they don't plan to break up, but he I want to be with you for a while; or he just break up, but may break the mirror ... These are not free. Don't interact with married or objective people, no matter what excuses, the result is the same, you are destined to be heartbroken. Don't forget, you just receive another part of the left. ◆ Conclusion Selection rights in your hand, responsibility is on you, you have to choose people. If you have an object of contact, and you are one of the eight feelings mentioned above, go to the counseling, don't waste time, and better objects waiting for you.
