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First, the use of people
People who have been to the temple know that in the temple door, the first is Amitabha, smile, and in his north, it is the black face of the black face. However, in the past a long time, they were not in the same temple, but they respect different temples.
Milky Buddha is very enthusiastic, there is a lot of people, but he doesn't care, throwing three las, has no good management, so it is still incoming. And Wayt, although the accounting is a good hand, but it is a face, too serious, and more and less people, the last incense is broken.
When the Buddha found this problem while checking incense, they put them in the same temple, which was responsible for the public relations, smiles, and smiled. The Weve iron is selfless, and the Pearl must be more than the finance, strictly control. In the division of labor cooperation in the two, the temple is in the temple.
In fact, in the eyes of the masters, there is no waste, just as the martial arts master, do not need famous princes, picking flowers, flying leaves, can hurt people, the key looks.
Second, the parrot
One person went to buy the parrot and saw a parrot adopted: this parrot will be two languages, selling prices of 200 yuan.
Another parrot is laid in front: This parrot will be four-door language, priced at 400 yuan.
Which one should I buy? Two have a bright color, very flexible and cute. The person can not make up his mind.
The result suddenly found a parrot of the teeth, the hair was dim, and the price was 800 yuan.
This person hurriedly called the boss: Is this parrot saying eight-door language?
The owner said: No.
This person is strange: then why is old and ugly, no ability, will value this number?
The owner replied: because two two parrots called this parrot boss.
This story tells us that the real leader, not necessarily its own ability, as long as you understand trust, understand the right to december, you can unite more power than yourself, thus enhance your own value.
Instead, many people are very strong, because they are too perfect, there must be, who is not as good as they, and finally can only be the best guardian, sales representative, can't be excellent leaders.
Third, kangaroo and cage
One day the zoo administrator found that the kangaroo ran out from the cage, so I discussed, agreed that it was too low in the cage. So they decided to increase the height of the cage from the original 10 meters to 20 meters. As a result, they found that the kangaroo or ran to the outside, so they decided to increase the height to 30 meters.
I didn't expectation to see the kangaroo all over the next day, so the administrators were very nervous and decided not to do it, increase the height of the cage to 100 meters.
A giraffe and a few kits are chatting. "You see, will these people will continue to add your cage again?" Giraffe asked. "It's hard to say." The kangaroo said: "If they continue to forget the closing,"
Management experience: "This", "light weight", "rush", close the door is this, plus cage is the end, the researcher, of course, must not lead. What is management? Management is the primary contradiction between the first analysis and the secondary contradiction, recognize the "this end", "light weight", "rush", then from important aspects.
Fourth, the medical skills of Bianque
Wei Wen Wang asked the famous doctor and said: "Do you have three people in your brothers, which is fine in medical skills. Which one is best?"
鹊: "The elder brother is the best, the Chinese brother, I am the worst." Wen Wang asked: "So why are you most famous?"
鹊: "The long brother is sick, it is before the disease is in the illness. Since the average person does not know that he can eradicate the cause in advance, his name is unable to pass; the brothers are sick, it is to treat the disease. The average person thinks that he can only cure a slight small illness, so his famous arrogance is only in the hometown. And I am creating a doctor when the condition is serious. I saw that I wore a needle on the meridian, and the skin applied to the drug. Therefore, I thought that my medical skill, the famous gas is therefore in the country. "
Management experience: Afterward control is not as control, the control is not as good as before, but unfortunately, most of the business operators have failed to experience this, etc., the wrong decision has caused significant losses to seek compelling. And often, even if you invite a very famous "airborne soldier", the result is nothing.
V.
There is a guest to be a guest at someone, see the chimney on the stove of the owner is straight, and there are many wood next to them. Guests tell the owner that the chimney should be changed, the wood must be removed, otherwise there will be a fire in the future, and the owner has heard that there is no representation.
Soon, the owner fell, and the neighbors surrounded quickly, the last fire was extinguished, so the owner cooked the sheep and slaughtered the cattle, banned the four neighbors, to thank the merits of the fire, but did not ask him to remove the wood, chimney Changed person.
Some people said to the owner: "If you listen to the gentleman, today you don't have to prepare a banquet, and there is no loss of fire. Now, it is now rewarded. The people who have given you suggestions are not grateful, and people who have fired fire are It is really a very strange thing! "The owner suddenly resisted, hurry to invite the guests who gave suggestions to eat wine.
Management experience: The average person considers that people who are enough to settle or solve the various tricky problems in the process of business operations are excellent managers. In fact, this is to be discussed, as the saying goes: "Prevention is more treatment", can prevent problems Before, it is more comfortable to the chaos, and the prevention of the company's problem is actually better than the company's problem.
Sixth, save people
In a fierce battle, the captain suddenly found an enemy plane to push down the position. As usual, I have not hesitated when the enemy plane is swearing. Captain did not immediately stayed, he found that there is a small warrior to stand in the distance of four or five meters. He can't think more, a fishing flew against the little soldier in the body. At this time, there is a loud noise, and the soil that splashes is falling on their body. The captain patted the dust on his body, look back, suddenly shocked: The position just in his own is fried into a big pit.
Seven, go out
Early, there were two brothers to take a trunk from a trunk. Along the way, the heavy baggage box put the brothers and breathe. They had to change the right hand left hand, and the right hand is tired and changed. Suddenly, the big brother stopped, bought a pole on the side of the road, hang the two suitcases on a pair of parcels. He picked up two boxes, and he felt a lot easier.
It may be a bit be far from these two stories together, but they do have an amazing similarities: the little soldiers and your brothers in the story are lucky, but more fortunate is the captain and big brother, because they are helping others. At the same time, I also help yourself!
Management experience: On our lives, it will definitely encounter a lot of difficulties. But we all know that on the way forward, move the stumbling block under the foot, sometimes it is paving your way for yourself?
Eight, the son of the fish king
There is a fisherman who has a first-class fishing technology, which is called 'fishing king'. However, 'Niu Wang' is very distressed because his three sons' fishing skills are very mediocre. So, I often tell people to distress my heart: "I really don't understand, I am so good, why is my son? I will teach fishing technology from them, from the most basic things. Teaching, telling them how to weave the net to capture fish, how to boater, the most likely, how to ask for fish, they grow up, I teach them how to know the tide, distinguish the fish .. Everyone I have a hard summed up for a long time, I have transferred to them without retaining, but their fishing technology actually caught the technology than my bad fisherman! "
After a passerby listened to his speech, asked: "Are you taught them in hand?"
"Yes, in order to get a first-class fishing technology, I teach very much carefully."
"Are they always follow you?"
"Yes, in order to let them walk less, I have always let them follow me."
The passerby said: "This is coming, your mistakes are very obvious. You only teach them technology, but there is no lesson to give them lessons. For those who can, there is no lesson, you can't make people a big ! "
Nine, the river is the apple
An old monk, he gathered a bunch of piety disciples. On this day, he got a disciple to go to Nanshan to play a fire. The disciples hurried to the rivers not far from the mountain, everyone stunned. I saw that the flood was rushing from the mountain, no matter how frivolous firewood. Nothing, disciples, have some sloppy. Only a small monk is calm with the master. The master asked her, and the little monk took out an apple from his arms. He handed it to the master. He can't do it. He can't knew the firewood. When there is an apple tree on the river, I will take the only one of the apples on the tree. Later, this little monk became the masters of the master.
There is a road that can't finish in the world, and there is no river. It is also a kind of wisdom. But the real wisdom should be a thing in the river: let go of the kite of thought, picking up a "apple". In the ancient and modern, people who have a belief in life, eventually realize the breakthrough and transcendence of life.
Ten, the right hand holds the left hand
The table is popular on the table: holding his wife's hand, as if the right hand holds the left.
Whenever some people have read: a familiar or unfamiliar table person will make fun of laughing, and the atmosphere is relaxed. Of course, this is based on people's consistent understanding of the jingle - feel accurate, described in place.
One day, someone came on the table, and the men were jealous.
Later, I found a woman on the table without laughing. The men are busy saying that they are doing. I didn't expect women to say seriously: the most wonderful thing is this "right hand holds left." First, the left hand is the most right-handed to trust; the second, the left hand and the right hand are themselves; the third, how do you want to ask you how to make your feelings, you can get your hands, only left hand, open You are missing, is it? A table man admires, praising women's understanding, deeply unique, women say that there is a deep and unique, I will go back to my wife to listen, see what they said.
There is a big place in the man, and I will go back to try my wife. Sure enough, the wife's understanding is the same as the lady on the table.
They are all left hands, and men, of course they want to think about left hand.
And they are all right hands, they are of course right.
Eleven, choose
A farmer saved his wife from the flood, but his child was drowned.
Afterwards, people discuss them. Some said that he did it, because the child can regenerate one, his wife can't die. Some said that he did something wrong, because his wife can marry another, the child can't die. I have listened to people's discussion, and I also felt doubts: If you can only save one person, should you save your wife, or save your child?
So I went to visit the peasant and asked him what I thought.
He replied: "I didn't want anything. The flood strikes, my wife is in me, I grabbed her to travel to the nearby hillside.
When I returned, the child had been flushed away by the flood. "
On the way home, I wondered the peasant, saying to myself: The so-called life's choice is quite like this.
12. Simple truth
Once upon a time, two hungry people have got a gift: a fishing rod and a fresh fish. Among them, a person wants a fish, and another person wants a fishing rod, so they have brought it. The person who got the fish was used to boil with the campfire in the same place. He walked to the Tiger, and there was no fine fish, turned in an instant, and even the fish with soup was eaten, soon, he Standing next to the empty fish. Another person will continue to hungry. Step by step is struggling to go to the beach, but when he has seen the blue-colored ocean not far away, the last strength of his body is finished. He can only take advantage of the endless regret to hook in the eyes of Baba.
There are two hungry people, they also got a rod and a fish of the elder. It's just that they have no rushing, but they agree to find the sea. They only cook a fish every time. After a distant trek, I came to the beach. From then on, the two began to fish for a living, a few years After that, they covered a house, with their families, children, with their own fishing boats, lived a happy healthy life.
One person only looks at the interests of the eyes, and the finals will eventually be short-lived; a person goals high, but it is necessary to face real life.
It is only possible to become a success of a success. Sometimes, a simple truth is enough to give a deep life revelation.
Thirteen, not what you imagine
The angels in the two travels are brought to a rich family. This family is not friendly to them, and refuses them to stay in the comfortable guest bedroom, but they gave them a corner in the cold basement. When they lay the bed, the older angel found that there was a hole on the wall, and it took it to repair it. The young angel asked why, the old angel replied: "Some things are not like it looks like."
The second night, the two came to a very poor farmer to take the break. The owner couples are very enthusiastic about them, take only a little food to wait for guests, and then let go of their bed to two angels. Early the next morning, two angels found that farmers and his wife were crying, their only sources of life - a bad cow died. The young angel is very angry. He questioned the old angel why it would be like this. The first family has anything. The old angel also helps them repair the wall, the second family, despite such poverty or warm, and the old angel does not stop the cows Death.
"Some things are not like it looks like." The old angel replied, "When we were overnight in the basement, I saw the wall inside the wall from the wall. Because the owner was confused by greed, he was not willing to share His wealth, so I fill in the wall. Last night, the god of death came to summon the wife's wife. I let the cow replace her. So some things are not like it looks like it. "
Sometimes the surface of things is not what it should actually. If you have a belief, you only need to believe that paying will always be returned. You may not find it until later ...
Fourteen, the road to nursing
We travel to the country, see an old farmers to shoot the forage of the cattle to a small house, it is inevitable, so I asked:
"Husband, why don't you put the grass on the ground, let it eat?"
Old farmers said: "This grass is not good, I am dismissible to put it on the ground; but I put it on the roof that makes it barely enough, it will work hard until you eat all the grass. "
Fifteen, the heart of love
This is a real story that happened in the UK.
There is a lonely old man, no children, and is weak. He decided to move to the nursing home. The old man announced the sale of his beautiful residence. The buyer has swarmed. The residential price is 80,000 pounds, but people will fry it to £ 100,000. The price is still rising. The old man is deeply trapped in the sofa, whispering, is it, or if you don't have a healthy situation, he will not sell this residential with him.
A beautiful youth came to the elderly, bent down, whispered: "Mr., I also want to buy this home, but I only have 10,000 pounds. However, if you sell the house to me, I promise to let me You still live here, drink tea with me, read news, walk, happy every day - believe me, I will use the whole heart to take care of you! "
The old man smiled and sold the house with a price of 10,000 pounds to him.
Complete dreams, not necessarily to kill and fraud, sometimes, as long as you have a lover's heart.
XVI, give
There is an old carpenter ready to retire, he tells the boss, saying to leave the construction industry, go home and enjoy the wife and children.
The boss will not wait for his good workers, ask if he can help build a house, the old carpenter said it. But everyone later saw that his heart is not working, he uses a soft material, out is rough. When the house was built, the boss handed him the key of the door.
"This is your house," he said, "I gave you a gift."
He shocked and stunned and ashamedless. If he knew it was to build a house for himself, how would he do this? Now he has to live in a crude house! We are not like this again. We don't carefully "build" your own life, not positive action, but negatively deal with it, and everything is refused to excel, and you can't do our best at the crucial moment. Waiting for us to surprising your situation, I have already been deeply trapped in the "house" built. Take you as the carpenter, think about your house, you knock in a nail every day, plus a plate, or put a wall, use your wisdom to build! Your life is the only creation in your life, can't be smooth, even if it is only one day, it is necessary to live beautiful, noble, the nameplate on the wall: "Life is created by himself."
Seventeenth, remind yourself
There is a old lady sitting on the road, looking at a high wall, always feeling that it will collapse immediately, see someone to go to the past, she will remind him to say: "The wall is going to fall, far away Let's go. "The reminded person looked at her out of the wall root in the middle of the mother - that the wall did not fall. The old lady is very angry: "Why don't you listen to me?" Someone came, the old lady was advised. Three days have passed, many people walk over the wall and have not encountered dangerous. On the fourth day, the old lady felt a little strange, some disappointment, could not help but went to the wall root. However, at this time, the wall fell, the old lady was buried in the dust bricks, and she was killed.
Remind others that it is often easy, very awake, but you can make a moment of remind yourself. Therefore, many dangers come from their own, and the sorrow of the old lady is sick. Eighteen, window
There is a lazy wife who constantly complains about the opposite year. "The woman's clothes are not clean, look, she is drying in the outer court, always having a spot, I really don't know, how did she even washing clothes? Wash that look ... "
Until one day, a friend who had a soul of the autumn to her home, and found that the wife's wife was not clean. The careful friend took a rag and wipe it off on the gray stain on the window of this wife. "Look, isn't this clean?"
It turns out that it is dirty in the window of your own home.
19, habits and nature
A small column, a fine chain, a thousand elephants, this is not ridiculous? This ridiculous scene can be seen everywhere in India and Qin State. Those tamers, when elephants or small elephants, use a chain to tie it on the cement column or steel column, no matter how the little icon is struggling. The elephant gradually habits unscrupulous until it grows into elephants, and it can easily break freely, and it is not struggling.
The tamer is also as successful as the tamer, and he let the tiger get from the snack until the Xiaohu grows. The tiger does not know the meat, naturally will not hurt people. The fatal mistake of the tamer is that after he fell, let the tiger lick his flow in the ground, the tiger is not accepted, and finally will eat the tinner.
Small elephants are tied by the chain, while elephants are habitually tied.
Tiger has been habitually tied, and the tamer died in habits (he is accustomed to his tiger without eating people).
Habits can hardly tie everything, but can't be tied. For example, that occasionally tasted the blood of the tiger.
Twenty, leave a gap to others
A famous entrepreneur is reported that a listener asked: "You have achieved great success in your career. Excuse me, what is the most important to you?"
Entrepreneur did not answer directly, he picked up a chalk on the blackboard, but did not draw a complete, leaving a gap. He asked: "What is this?" "Zero". "Circle" / "Unfinished career" / "success", the audience under the stage is born.
He has not been able to answer these answers: "In fact, this is just a complete period of not painting. You ask me why I will achieve brilliant performance, very simple: I will not make things a lot, just like drawing a number, Be sure to leave a gap, let my subordinates fill it. "
Leave a gap to others, do not indicate that you are not strong. In fact, this is a intelligence of management, a higher level with global success.
Give the monkey a tree, let it climb; give the tiger one mountain, let it freely and horizontally. Perhaps this is the highest realm of enterprise management employers.
Twenty-one, horse
Ma, originally in the mountains in the mountains, thirsty to drink mountain springs, tired, sleep on the ground, dry worry. However, since I have a Bole, the fate of the horse has changed, and I put it on the head, put the saddle in its back, put it, the mortality rate of the horse is already ten, then then Forced it to transport things, forced it to daystology, on its feet, the mortality rate of the horse is over half. The horse is the animal without any rules, so that it will learn the essence of the sun and the moon, the auction of the heavens and the earth, which is useless to enjoy the whole year, tonify it, let it know how to understand, but harm it.
What is it not so? Under the constraints of the rules, we also lost this, follow the righteousness to make the righteousness to make, forced things that they don't want to do, how much is the limited life? Twenty-two, the director is useless
There is a Ruoyi specializing in tea, his wife is good at weaving. He wants to move to Yueko. Friends said to him: "You go to Vietnam, you will be poor." "Why?" "Snark shoes, it is used to wear walk, but the Vietnamese is used to walking barefoot; white silk, is used to be a hat However, the Vietnamese is used to the drape. With your strengths, you can't use your place, so that you should not be poor, is it possible? "
This story tells people that a person has to play its own expertise, it must be suitable for social environment. If the needs of the social environment, its expertise will lose value. Therefore, we must decide our actions according to the needs of society, and better play their own expertise.
Twenty-three, mice on the Buddha
A mouse, a mouse, a mouse, in the top of the Buddha.
The life of Buddha is really happiness, which can be accepted between all layers, and enjoy a rich supplies. It also also enjoys the privileges that others can't imagine, those who are not known, it can chew freely; people don't dare to face the Buddha statues, it can be free and leisure, even when they can even stay in the Buddha statue .
Whenever a good man is burning incense, this mouse always looks at the intoxicating smoke, slowly rise, it fierce his nose, the heart is smiled: "The ridiculous human, the knee is so soft, saying Just kneel! "
One day, a hungry wild cat came in, it grabbed the mouse.
"You can't eat me! You should worship me! I represent Buddha!" This noble prisoner protested.
"People will worship you, just because of your position, not because of you!"
The wild cat ridiculates, then, it took two halves like a hamburger.
Twenty-four, stories of steel glass
A farmer, Junior high school is only two years, and the family has no money to continue to go to school. He dropped out of school and helped his father to cultivate three more acres of farming. When he was 19 years old, his father died, and all the family's burden crushed on his shoulder. He wants to take care of the mother, and there is a grandmother in the bed.
In the 1980s, farmland contracted to households. He digs a piece of water into a pond and wants fish. However, the cadres in the township told him that the waterfield could not raise the fish, only crops, he had to fill the pond. This is a joke, in the eyes of others, he is a person who wants to make a fortune but very stupid.
I heard that the chicken can make money, he borrowed 500 yuan to relatives and raised the chicken. But after a flood, the chickens have a chicken fever, and they are all dead in a few days. 500 yuan may not be anything about others, for a family who lives only by three acres of thin field, does not have an astronomical figure. His mother can't stand this stimulus, and it is meterless.
He later brewed wine, caught the fish, and even gave people to people on the cliff of the stone mine ... I have not earned money.
At the age of 35, he did not marry his wife. Even if you are divorced, a woman who has children can't see him. Because he has only one diverted house, it is possible to collapse after a heavy rain. A man who can't get a wife, no one can be seen in the countryside.
But he still wanted to fight, and he borrowed money to buy a hand tractor. Unexpectedly, it is less than half a month, and this tractor carries him into a river. He broke a leg and became a scorpion. And that tractor was made up, it has been broken, he can only disassemble it, as a waste iron. Almost all people say that he is over this life.
But later he became a company in the city of this city, with $ 200 million assets. Now, many people know that he is suffering from the past and the legendary entrepreneurial experience. Many media interviewed him, many report literatures described him. But I only remember such a plot.
The reporter asked him: "In the days of suffering, what once again, once again?"
He sat behind the big luxury boss and drunk a glass of water in his hand. Then, he took the glass cup in his hand, and asked the reporter: "If I let go, what will this cup?"
The reporter said: "Far on the ground, broken."
"Then let's try." He said.
His hand is loose, the cup fell to the ground to make a crisp, but did not break, but intact. He said: "Even if there are 10 people present, they will think that this cup must be crushing. However, this cup is not an ordinary glass, but made of FRP."
So I remember this classic dialogue. Such a person, even if there is only one breath, he will work hard to pull the successful hand, unless he is deprived of his life ...
Twenty-five, machine
A White-collar workers in the joint venture, I feel that I am full of ambition, I'm going to be appreciated. I often think: If one day I can see the boss, I have the opportunity to show my talents! !
A colleague B, also have the same idea, he will further, go to the boss to get a time to get off work, do he probably go to the elevator, he also take the elevator at this time, I hope to meet the old, have the opportunity You can say hello.
Their colleagues C are further. He learned about the process of struggle of the boss. After that, I finally talked with the old general a day, soon I got better position.
The fools have disappeared opportunities, and the wise man is kindly, and the winner creates opportunities. The opportunity is only for those who are ready, this is ready to say, not to talk.
Twenty-six, madman and nerd
A psychology professor visited the madhouse to understand the living status of the madman. One day, I feel that these people are crazy and epilepsy, acting unexpectedly, can be made old open.
When I wanted to return, I found my own tires were down. "Which madman must be dried!" Professor is indignant, and it will take the spare tire to prepare.
Things are serious. People undergoing the tire actually put the screws. No screws have spare tires too!
Professor is a war. When he was soaring, a madman came over and sang a unknown joy song in his mouth. He found a professor in the dilemma and stopped what happened.
The professor is too lazy, but it is still in court or tell him.
The madman laughed: "I have a way!" He took a screw from the top of each tire, so that three screws put the spare tire.
Professor is surprised, and it is very curious: "How did you think of this approach?"
The madman laughed Xiao: "I am a madman, but I am not a nerd!"
In fact, there are many people in the world, because they have discovered the fun in the work, will always show different fanaticism with ordinary people, which is difficult to understand. Many people are laughing in jokes, others may not laugh at tits. Make people stay, smart in China, especially in China, is a kind of homoa.
Twenty-seven, doctoral
There is a Ph.D. to a research institute and become a person with the highest degree.
One day he went to the small pond behind the unit to fish, just the deputy director in his left and right, also fishing.
He just nodded slightly, these two undergraduate students, have you talking about it?
In a short while, the head of the director puts down the fishing rod, stretch back, squatting from the water to the opposite toilet.
Dr. The eyes are getting down. Water floating? No way? This is a pond.
When the head is back to the toilet, it is also a way to float from the water.
what happened? Doctoral students are not good, they are doctoral!
After a while, the deputy director also stood up, took a few steps, and smiled in the water toilet. Dr. this is almost faint: Will not come, come to a place where the rivers and lake is concentrated?
Doctoral students have emergency. There is a wall on both sides of this pond, to go to the opposite toilet to go to the road, and back the unit is too far, what should I do?
Doctoral students didn't want to ask two director, after half a day, got up and got up to the water: I don't believe in undergraduate water, my doctoral students can't live.
Only heard the sound, the doctoral planted in the water.
The two director pulled him out and asked him why he went down, he asked: "Why can you go through?"
The two director smiled: "There are two rows of woods in this pond. Since the rain rose in these two days, we all know the position of this wooden pile, so you can step on the pile. Why don't you ask? ? "
The diploma represents the past, only learning power can represent future. People who respect the experience can only bend less. A good team should also be a learning team.
Twenty eight, jumping slot
A to b: "I have to leave this company. I hate this company!"
B is recommended: "I raise your hands to revenge! Broken company must give it a look. But you leave, not the best time."
A Q:? ? ?
B said: "If you are going now, the company's loss is not big. You should take advantage of the opportunity to be in the company, desperately pulling some customers, becoming a company's unique person, then take these customers to suddenly leave the company, The company will be significant, very passive. "
A I feel that B is very reasonable. So working hard, what is willing to work, he has a lot of loyal customers after more than half a year.
Goodbye ~ ask a: It is time to be a time, you have to jump!
A is a little smile: the old hold talked about me, preparing to lit me to do the general manager assistant, I have not left it for a long time.
In fact, this is also the original intention of B. A person's work is always just for your resume. Only pay more than getting, let the boss really see your ability is greater than the location, will give you more opportunities to create more profits for him.
Twenty-nine, three gold people
I have had a small country to come to China, I have tried three models of gold, Jinbi, and I am happy with the emperor.
However, this small country is not thick, and there is a topic: which is the most valuable?
The emperor thought a lot of ways, please come to the jewelry to check, weigh the weight, see workmanship, all the same. How to do? The messenger is still waiting to go back and report it.泱泱大国, will not even understand this little thing? Finally, an old minister who returned said he has a way.
The emperor will invite the messenger to the main hall, and the old people have three straws, insert the first golden person, this straw comes from the other side. The second golden straw fell directly from the mouth, and the third gold, the straw fell into the stomach, and there is no sound. The old minister said: The third gold people are the most valuable! The messenger silently, the answer is correct.
This story tells us that the most valuable person is not necessarily the people who can most. God gives us two ears a mouth, which is that we will listen less. Being good at listening, is the most basic quality of mature people.
Thirty, lace
One of his disciples told him that his disciples told him that his disciples told him. The master nodded, kneeling down and smashed. After the disciple turned, kneel down and put the lace.
There is a bystander to see all this, I don't understand: "Master, why do you want to make a lace?" The master replied: "Because I played a tired traveler, long journey to make him The shoes are loose, you can express his tiredness through this detail. "
"Then why don't you tell your disciples directly?"
"He can carefully discover my lace loose, and let me know about it, I must protect his enthusiasm, encourage him in time, so that why do you want to unlock the lace, more The opportunity teaches him to perform, you can say it next time. "
People can only do one thing for a while, and understand the focus is true.
Thirty-one, I am Chen A Tu
Chen Alu is a farmer in Taiwan and has never been far away. I got a half of the money, I finally participated in a tourist group.
Everything in foreign countries is very fresh, the key is that Chen Atri participated in the luxury group, one living alone. This makes him novel.
In the morning, the waiter came to knock on the door and said loudly: "Goodmorning Sir!"
Chen Atri lived. What does it mean? In your hometown, generally strange people will ask: "Your surname?"
So Chen Alu said loudly: "My name is Chen Alu!"
If this is this, it is three days, it is the waiter to knock on the door, saying loudly: "Goodmorning Sir!" And Chen Alu also replied: "My name is Chen A Tu!"
But he is very angry. This service is also too stupid. Every day, I ask myself, tell him that I can't remember, I am bored. I finally couldn't help but ask, "GoodMorning Sir!" Means, the tour guide told him, God! ! It's really lost.
Chen Atrine repeatedly practiced the word "Goodmorning Sir!" In order to deal with the waiter.
One day in the morning, the waiter is as usual, and the door opened Chen Alu, "Goodmorning Sir!"
At the same time, the service life is: "I am Chen Alu!"
This story tells us that people communicate with people are often the contest of willpower and willpower. It is not that you affect him, that is, he affects you, and we want to succeed, be sure to cultivate his influence, only have high influences can become the strongest.
Thirty-two, dumpling tip
There is a rich family, especially love to eat dumplings, eat every day. But he is especially true, only filling, and the two skins will throw away behind the latter. The good scene is not long, in his sixteenth year old, a fire burned his whole family, and his parents were angry. Here, he ordered himself, and he is not so embarrassed. The neighbor is very good, give him a bowl for a bowl. He tried to study, three years later, got it back, must be grateful to the neighbors.
Daxie said to him: Don't thank me. I didn't give you anything, all the dumplings you gathered in the past, and installed a good sack after the dried, I was going to have time required. Just give you something, I will also give you.
The official thinks for a long time, for a long time. . . .
There is a famous three eight theory: 8 hours of sleep, eight hours of work, this everyone is the same. The difference between people is in the amateur time how to spend. Time is the most emotional, and most ruthless, each person has the same, very fair. But people with resources are not necessarily successful, and those who use resources will succeed. The daylight is survived, and the evening is developing, this is the requirements of talent in the 21st century.
Thirty-three, request
There are three people to be put into prisons for three years, and the prison will give them three people a request.
Americans love to smoke cigars and have three boxes of cigars.
The French is the most romantic, and there is a beautiful woman with a beautiful woman.
And the Jews said, he wants to communicate with the outside world.
After three years, the first is the Americans, and the nose is filled with cigars. "" Give me fire, give me a fire! "He forgot to fire.
The french is coming out. I saw a little child in his hand, and the beautiful woman took a small child, and the belly was still in the third.
The last is the Jew, and he held the hands of the prison. Shrys! "
This story tells us that what kind of choice decides what kind of life. Today's life is determined by our choice three years ago, and today our choice will determine our lives after three years. We have to choose the latest information to learn about the latest trends, making better creation of your future.
Thirty-four, when the tiger is coming
Two people met a big tiger in the forest. A will quickly remove a pair of lighter sneakers. B is dying, and he said: "Why do you do it, you can run the tiger!"
A said: "I just want to run better than you."
In the twenty-first century, there is no crisis is the biggest crisis. Especially in the entry, telecommunications, banking, insurance, and even civil servants we think that very stable and guaranteed companies will face a lot of variables. When more tigers are coming, we don't have your own running shoes?