Happy source
The festival is a book from Dresmond Morris "Happy Essent", first express thanks!
After reading this article, I feel that as long as we can find yourself really happy, it is very helpful to your personal positioning. Don't believe you carefully. Also, if you are a manager, it is also helpful to how to use people - if you can discover your employee's excitement.
1. Happy Target ... Successful
As the most curiosity, exploration and creative animals. We will have new experiences. When we work, it will be excited because of busy and grades. At the end of each experience, if we are successful, the sudden satisfaction will make us have an extreme pleasure. After a slight rest, we will go toward the next goal. This is the happiness of the hunter, which is inherited from the hunting ancestors in the history of evolution. Similar things.
2. Happy competition ... winner
Victory always costs with the failure of the other party, and has to pay great efforts. I am always being shocked by the boxer after winning a 15-round game. The smore-swollen face is a happy ray. This is exactly what we see on all the victors' faces, whether the process they defeated opponents is.
3. Happy cooperation ... mutualists
The behavior of cooperation looks like selfless, but in fact, he is selfish as competing behavior. If we feel happy from helping friends. This is because evolution ensures mutual support between tribe members to avoid overall failures. Single people can't kill a huge quarry, build a house or protect your family. Personal happiness is to link with the success or failure of the whole tribe, this is the active cooperation of members.
4. Genetic happiness ...
From the long evolutionary process, human beings have this extreme passion experience to ensure that gender love can naturally evolve the feelings as parents. Genetic determines that parents will make strong reactions to new generations, take the initiative to protect and raise it. The love for partners or children exceeds friendship with other members of the tribe, because genetic factors have played.
5. Moses ...
The strongest form of flesh happiness is sexual or climax. Every species need to feel a reward from the inside of the body in the critical moment. For humans, men's rewards are also sexual behaviors when women do not ovulate, and women can be sexually actful when they don't ovulate, and women's rewards can feel the same strength as men. Therefore, the flesh happiness has been greatly improved in human biological evolution. It is a emotional link between the main partner relationship.
6. Happy intelligence ... mental workers
Since the human brain has been greatly expanded during the evolution, it is now happy to get happily through the game. These activities can be playing cards, computer games, or artistic creation or scientific research. Take scientific research as an example, in the view, it is an extremely strict program, and its final goal is to benefit mankind. In fact, the truly fun of research is to think of complex mental problems, constantly put forward new questions and find new answers. Happy feelings appear when you find new things. The benefit of human beings is an additional reward.
7. Rhythm Happy ... Dancer
When any human activities have rhythm, people may feel a wonderful, a bit of dizziness. We feel this from dance, singing, exercise, sports activities or even religious ceremonies or military drills. In essence, they gave people an original body feel that the high-end thinking of the brain was suspended, and the muscles were able to enjoy the repeated action of a period of time. This back contains a physiological response, namely a large amount of release of the body's natural analior pain.
8. Hazardous happiness ... Adventurers
For those who believe that life lack challenge, special voluntary adventures is one of the sources of happiness. Our hunters ancestors are often the frequent adventurers. Nowadays, no matter how gambling is still a limit, after the adventure, it will feel the original pleasure in the blood vessel. It seems that the more society is trying to make the residents comfortably safe, and people will find the stimulus of adventure activities. 9. Deviving and happy ... believers
The key factor here is a completely blind faith for a religious creed. Those gods must be all-round, and their will have to follow at any time. Devoters gathered together to pray together, most people can feel the sacred, mentally unparalleled. At this time, it is a safe feeling that is a long-lost baby period, and the effective child protects his (her) parents feel full of happiness.
10. Happy Comeds ... Laughter
When the baby can recognize the mother until 4 months, I will laugh because of the fun. He began to be vigilant against strangers and used their mother as their own protector. This means that the mother conveys two-story meaning when deliberately teases the child: Some hate will let the baby want to cry, but because this is your mother, so we have never been afraid, we have been understanding to enjoy "safe fear", this is also It is the comedy to give us. We know that you don't have to say the comedy actor is true, we are safe, so I will laugh.