Many times (especially when I think others is wrong), in order to prevent my own temper, I always said to myself: "
He is so forgive, will be in his heart, maybe he is in his position, doing things
Not as good as him! "This sentence is still very tube, most of which can make my mood calm down."
However, there is a thought flash today. When I carefully think about this thought, I found myself (with my own
This matter is not true tolerance and forgiveness, more is a kind of deception and comfort.
Imagine if 'I' really in the 'He', what happened to 'he', then 'I' or 'I
'? Even if 'I' is still 'I', then 'he' is still 'he'? 'I'mhold' I
'Put in' he ', you can't make me a' he ', and it is impossible to make' I 'to press' He' think.
, In other words, 'I'm can't put the' I 'full of' He 'position, so' I 'thinking
significance. Speaking of meanings, what I can think is, it is a mental self-comfort, a kind of split herself and others.
Thought, it is serious, it is "I am different from him, he can't think about my thoughts (and I can think about his thoughts), he wanted this, so he did wrong.
So I want to forgive him.
This is a terrible scary: when doing something, many people can know what they think,
But few people can realize what they have thought in.
I think it should be "he is as good as him, there is no reason." Since there is no right, what is talking about forgive?
Just know 'no right', there is no much improvement in the cultivation, you need to discard 'forgive' (the extension is to separately separate the forgiveness of religion).
Pay attention to and cultivate your own subconscious. But this is hard, it is difficult, I can't know how difficult he is, can't know how to practice.
I have to continue to study.
