Every blow has its meaning
I don't pray, smooth, all the best,
I only pray that when each problem occurs, I have the courage and perseverance to face the problem, and support it.
Every blow has its meaning
On the road, setbacks often hit from all overlays.
It may be unable to resist natural disasters; it may be difficult to expect to be born; it may be work hard, but he does not meet;
It may be a wholehearted, but in exchange for the return of the lover; it may be used hard, but can't enter the ideal school;
It may be hard to start a business, but it is endlessly designed. In the face of a variety of setbacks, everyone's "tolerance" is different.
◎ Some people can't stand it.
A high-education friend, from the refusal to accept the girl's accommodation of his feelings, jump in the building, leaving unlimited regrets and regret.
"His conditions are so good, is it afraid to find a more beautiful girlfriend?"
"I didn't expect him to be so handsome, and they will also be mysterious!" "Why is it so embarrassed? Where is the grass!"
Most of the relatives and friends think he is a dead heart, in fact, people who know the internal feelings know, small to big, he doesn't know how many girlfriends have been abandoned, let many people are sad, but they can't stand it. People discard it once.
◎ Some people can't stand it wrong
For many years to study abroad, I mentioned the past, and I still get angry.
Due to the place of work, it is almost late for parking spaces almost every day.
Directly, he hopes that he can go to work on time, we recommend that he stops the car in the company's parking space.
Due to the low position, the years are shallow, friends think, "What is the company's parking space to get me?"
In order to seek care, he will ask the boss again. "Don't there be a problem? Is it really stopped?"
The boss patted the chest to ensure that "there is absolutely no problem, you can stop!" I accidentally stopped the car on the company on the first day.
Shortly after work, the boss suddenly called him, "Your phone." Pick up the microphone, the head was taken by a strange woman, "I am the company's deputy, immediately drive your car. Who told you The car parked on my seat, harm me late! "
It was inexplicable by the other party, but the boss said, there is no, and the friend immediately puts forward, and it is useless.
◎ Some people can't stand the wrong mistake
I know a very good friend, he is good, that is, you can't stand the wrong mistake. As long as someone points out that he is "where to do something wrong", he will resign.
Many interviews his supervisor did not call, with his academic qualifications, I have been promoted, why have you been in place? When he raised his resignation, he suddenly realized that he could not stand the wrong mistake.
◎ Some people can't stand it is not perfect
Daughter's birthday, specially invite a few beautiful aunt to celebrate the children.
When cutting cake, a little guest got a cake's missing angle, he immediately pushed the cake, "I don't want to break the cake of a hole!"
"It's just a small corner, the cake is still very delicious!" Ren aunt whispered, he did not accept this missing cake, and finally changed a "perfect" cake to him.
Seeing that he refuses to eat a cake for a little deck, I am worried about his future. Whether you can change to a perfect cake every time?
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1. Have you been frustrated?
2, is it rejected?
3, is it misunderstood?
4, is there been a mistake? 5, is there a failure of failure?
6, is it expected to fall?
7, is there an imperfect existence?
"Setsetting tolerance", is "a person who has a hitting ability."
The stronger the ability to afford the strike, the more experiences learned, the more successful success and the capital.
The weaker ability to bear the strike, naturally I will find a way to avoid setbacks and lose the opportunity to hood themselves.
Frustration is the best gift for young people
I remembered that I have seen an article. The author mentioned that when he just retired from the army, only high school education, no technique, had to go to a printing factory, served as "send goods".
One day, this young man will send a whole car four and 50 bundles of books to the seventh floor of a university; when he first puts two hundred bundles of books to the elevator waiting, a fifty-year-old security guard Come over and say: "This elevator is given to the professor, the teacher is taking, and the other people are not allowed to take, you must take the stairs!"
The young man explained to the guard: "I am not a student, I am going to send a book to the seven floor, this is your school book!"
But the guard is ruthlessly said: "If you can't do it, you are not a professor, not a teacher, don't take the elevator!"
The two people have no more than half a day in the elevator, but the guards still don't release, the young people think, this car is going to work, at least 20 of the seven-story stairs, will be exhausted! Later, young people couldn't stand this "unreasonable martyrdom", as a heart, put four, fifty bundles of books in the corner of the hall, regardless of everything.
Later, young people explained the original committee to the printed factory, but also resigned to the boss, and immediately went to the bookstore to buy a complete set of high school textbooks and reference books, and the tears swear, I must work hard, I will not be university, I will never Let others "look down".
This young man reads two years in the first half of the joint test, because he knows, his time is not much, he has no retreat, whenever he is lazy, slack, think of " The guard is not allowed to take a lift, and the scene of being humiliated and discriminated, and the spirit is played, and the effort is diverted.
Later, this young man finally came to a college medical school.
Today, more than 20 years have passed, he also became a middle-aged doctor in an open clinic. However, he thought about it. At that time, if he was unreasonable and discriminated against, how can he cut tears from humiliation, Brave stand?
And the guard who hated him is not the benefactor in his life?
People only have setbacks, they are unresolved by others, they can "awake themselves", let themselves have been awakened by "When I drink"! "
Is this the most precious gift in a lifetime?
If now setback, you can bring you a happy future, please endure it. If you are now, you will bring you unfortunately, please abandon it.
"Every setback in life, every hurt, every blow, there is its meaning."
I wish you all the difficulties that you can't break through.
