Carnegie once bounty with two hundred dollars, asking for a question of "How I happily", the most helpful to people can also motivate people's true stories. Mr. Three reviews in this essay competition is: Eastern Airlines Chairman Eddie Reconbeck, Lincoln Memorial University's principal, McCarrin, Dr. McGurin, and Broadcasting News Reviewer Ka Tan Bowen. They received two very good stories, so that the three review members had no way to select the first place, so that the two applicants scored a bonus. Here is one of the stories of the prize - the writer is living in Putton, Spring Tamquat, Missouri. "I lost my mother in nine years old. I lost my father when I was twelve years old." Mr. Ponden wrote: "My father died in a car accident. My mother left home in a certain day of 19 years ago. I will I have never seen her. I have never seen my two little sisters she took away. She has been writing to me after seven years. My father died after the mother left home. A car accident. He bought a coffee shop in a small town in Missouri, and the partner sold the coffee shop when he was on a business trip. After the cash, a friend called to the father, told him to return it. Home, under the hurry, father killed in Shalin City in Kansas. My two aunt, they are poor and old and sick, bring three of our five children to their home. No one wants I have a little brother, we have to help people in the town. We are soon called orphans, or they are asked for orphans, but what we are worried is very fast. I and a very poor people I lived in the town, but the days were very difficult. The male owner lost the industry, so they had no way to raise me again. Later, Mr. Luofu Ting took me with his wife, let me live in the town of the town. Mr. Luo Fusi is seventy years old, he told me that 'As long as I don't lie, don't steal something, I can live there, I can stay there. These three requirements become my Bible, I Follow their lives. I started to go to school, the other children came to find me trouble, take my big nose to smile, say that I am a stupid, I still say that I am a 'little odor'. I am hurting, I want to fight them, but shelter Mr. Luofu, Mr. Luo Fuding, said to me: 'Always remember, people who can walk away, more people who have to drive more.' I have never played with people. One day, A child grabbed a chicken in the school's yard, lost on my face. I took the little son a little, and I made a good friend. They said that the guy would be. "I have to Luofu Ting." A new hat bought for my wife is very proud. One day, a big girl pulled my hat and filled the water inside, and broke the hat. She said that she put the water inside, it is to "those water can get wet my big head, let my corn flower are not blasphemy. 'I have never cried in the school, but I often cry after going home. One day, Laofu Ting gave me some advice, so that I eliminate all the troubles and worries, and change my enemies. Be a friend. She said: 'Luov, if you are willing to interested them, and pay attention to what they can do for them, they will not tease you, or call you "little ods".' I accept Her advice, I have to use the work. Soon I became the first place in the class, but I have never been a man, because I am always trying to help others. "I helped several male students writing, writing very A complete report; there is a child sorry to let his parents know that I am helping him, so I often tell her mother to say that he is going to catch the kangaroo, then go to Mr. Luofu, put his dog. In the barn, then let me teach him to study.
"Death invaded to our vicinity, two older farmers are dead, and another old lady husband is also dead. I am the only male in these four people. I help those widows. Two years. On the way I go to school, I went to their farms to cut wood, squeeze milk, feed the milk and feed it for their livestock. Now everyone likes me, and no longer, every Personally make me a friend. When I retired from the Navy, they show me the true feelings of me. On the first day of my home, there are more than two hundred farmers to see me, some people even from eighty It is very sincere to my care. I have been very busy with my concern. I am very happy to try to help other people, so I have no worries, and no one has called me again for thirteen years. '小 孤 儿' "Washing DC Seattle Dr. Flake Lu Pei is also the same." He lie hard because of rheumatism in bed for twenty-three years. But "Seattle News" reporter Shi Capi Huaitehaus wrote a letter to tell Ka Ni said: "I went to visit Dr. Lu Pei several times, I have never seen a person can be such as private, so there is a good life." How can he lie in bed like him? His approach is to make the words "I serve" as the right in the name of the Wells' s famous. He collected many other patient names and addresses, writing a happy, encouragement to them, making them happy, and motivating himself. In fact, he organized a club for patient communication. Finally, he became a national organization called the society in the ward. He is lying on the bed, with an average of one thousand four hundred letters per year, and the radio and books donated by others, bringing happiness to thousands of patients. What is the biggest difference between Lu Pei and the biggest difference? Dr. Lu Pei has an intrinsic power, with a purpose, there is a task, knowing that he is a happy service that is much more important than yourself, not to be said to Bewl "Self-centered, hard-stricken old guys, complaining that this world is not happy every night." The following is the most amazing saying of great psychotherapy, this sentence is a Freud Andel said. He often said to patients with mental depression, "If you follow my prescription to do it, your condition will cure it within 14 days: Every day, I want to think about how you can please others." Andel "Life is what the meaning of you should have" "" Depression is like a long-term anger and the dislike of others, although the patient's purpose is to get care, sympathy, but support, the patient seems to be just Because of his guilt and depression. Depression patients are usually like this: 'I remember that I want to lying on the couch, but my brother is lying there, and I cried, so that he Have to go away '. "Patients with depression usually use suicide as a retaliation of their own means, and the doctor's first treatment is to avoid the reasons for any suicide. I am used to relieve the nervous way - is also the first rule in this treatment - it is recommended that they will never do anything you don't like to do. '. This sentence seems very simple, but I believe that the root cause of this disease has been deeply touched. If a patient can do something he wants to do, what can he blame? What else is there anything to revenge? 'If you want to go to the movie,' I tell him, 'or go out to vacation, go. If you are walking on the road, I don't want to go, I will come back. 'This is the best situation that anyone can ask, which makes him satisfying the superiority of what he has to pursue. He is like a god, you can do whatever you want. From another aspect, this is not his own way of life.
He wants to control others, want to blame others, if everyone agrees with him, he has no way to blame others. This approach can relax the nervous emotions, among my patients, never have suicide events. "Usually those patients will answer me: 'Just I have something to do,'. I have been prepared for this question, because I have heard too much. 'Then don't do anything you don't want to do. Things, 'I said. But sometimes he will answer: "' I want to lying in the bed all day. 'This kind of thing I also know. If I say this is very good, he will not want to do this again. "This is a practice, and another practice is more directly to their lifestyle. I tell them, 'You can treat disease within 14 days, as long as you take me, do it: What do you want to make someone happy every day? "Do you know what this means? They just think that" how I can make some people worry ", their answer is very interesting. Some people say : 'This is too easy to me, I am doing this in this life.' In fact, they have never done this kind of thing. So I asked them to think carefully, they will not think about it. I told them: 'When you can't sleep, you will spend all the time in thinking about how others can be happy, which can make you step forward in improving health.' I saw them again next day. When, I asked them: "Have you ever thought about my advice? 'They have answered:' I fell asleep last night. 'Of course, I must be very sincere when I tell them these words, very friendly, I can't reveal a superior look at all. "Some people will answer: 'I will never do it. I am worried. 'So I tell them:' You can continue to worry. However, sometimes you can think about others at the same time. 'I hope they can always be a little interest in others. Many people say to me, 'Why should I make others happy? Others never want me to be happy. '' You must consider your own health. 'I replied:' I will suffer after others. 'I rarely encountered the patient saying:' I have thought about what you suggested ', my efforts are hoping to make patients interested in this society. I know that their main sick roots are lack of cooperation, and I also ask them to see this. Once you can contact other people, they are getting better on the status of equality, their illness is good ... The most important creed in religion has always been 'to love your neighbors' ... those who are not interested in others. People have encountered the most difficulties in life, and the damage caused by others is also the largest. Human all kinds of failures are from this category ... We have to say to a person, and the highest praise we can give, you will hope that he is a very cooperative person, is a friend of others, and love Sincerely partner with marriage. "Doctor Andel wants us to do a good thing every day, but what is the good thing?" Good things, first knowing Muhammad said, 'is to make someone else's face to show a happy smile. "Why can you bring such a big impact every day? Because I tried to make others happy, I will no longer just think of us myself. Just think of us, you will have anxiety And fear and depression. Mrs. William Meng, Montera, hosted by New York City, through thinking, how to make others happy to cure her depression. The passage of things is like this. "December 5 years ago. In the middle, March said, "I am indulging in a sad and self-pity. After many happy marriage, I lost my husband. When Christmas is coming, my sadness is getting heavy. I have never spent Christmas alone in this life, I am really afraid of this Christmas coming. Many friends please ask me Christmas with them, but I don't think I can feel any happiness at all. I know that I will become a hateful person, so I refused to be very kind invitation.
When I arrived in Christmas Eve, I was more pity. Yes, I should feel that I still have a lot of gratitude, just like all our people worthy of thanking. On the day before Christmas, I left the office at three o'clock in the afternoon, started to walk in the fifth street, I hope I can cure my self-pity and melancholy. The street crowded with a happy population - these scenes made me recall the joy of those who have flowed away. I can't stand it when I want to go back to the apartment that is alone and empty. I am very confused, I don't know what to do, I can't help but flow tears. After coming for about one hour, I found yourself standing in front of the bus stop. I remember that I often take a bus with my husband casually, just for fun. So, I will take the first bus from the station. When the car passed the Hudson River, after a while, I heard the driver: 'Final, Mrs. Mrs. 'I took the car, I don't know what this small town is called. That is a very quiet place, I walked to a street in the residential area, walked a church, heard the beautiful tunes of 'Christian night'. I went in, the church is empty, only the people who have the organ. I secretly sit in a chair, decorated with a very beautiful Christmas tree, making the whole tree look like a lot of stars dance under the moonlight, melodious music - plus I have been from the morning Didn't eat things - make me feel that the mind is faint. I feel weak and heavy, and the results have been in the past. "When I woke up, I don't know where I am. I was frightened. I saw two children in front of me. It is obviously coming in to watch the Christmas tree, one is a little girl, I am pointing to me. : 'I don't know if Santa brought her.' When I woke up, the two children were frightened, I told them that I won't harm them. Their clothes are very cold, I ask them Where is the parents? 'We don't have a mother, and there is no father.' They said. They are two little orphans, and it is much worse than I have seen before. They make me sad and self-pity I feel embarrassed. I took them to watch the Christmas tree, then took them to a small diet shop, I ate some a little, and I bought some gifts for them. My lonely magic disappeared. These two I have brought me a truly happiness and forget me for me. When I chat with them, I found that I have been very lucky. I thank God, because my Christmas is full of joy, It is full of love and care for my parents. These two little orphans bring me much more than I bring to them. This time I will teach me again, only make others happy to make our own happiness. I found that happiness is infectious, accepting at the same time. Only help others and pay us, in order to overcome worries, sadness, and self-pity, and feel that I have changed a new person. I am indeed a newcomer - - Not only at the time, and it is always the same for so many years. "Mrs. Ye Ci is a novel writer, but her mysterious novel is not more interesting than half of the real story. In the morning, the Japanese attack, the US military fleet of the Pearl Harbor, Ye Ci's sick is more than a year, she is a heart disease, and I have to lying on the bed for twenty-two hours a day. The longest path she walked was to go to the garden to do a sunbath. Even at that time, she had to let a maid have brought a maid. She told Ka Niki. In that day, she thought that this is such a waste. "If the Japanese bombed the pearl port, I rushed me from this complacent." She told me that "I will never live again." "When this happened," Ye Ci Mrs. " Said, "Everything is in chaos. There is a bomb that falls near my home, the power of the explosion puts me from the bed.
The military's truck rushed to the base of the base, and received the army and the Navy. Then the Red Cross is called to make those who have extra rooms. The red cross person knows that I have a phone to put on the bed, so I ask me to record all the information for them. So I recorded all the Army and the Navy and where the children were sent, and the Red Cross also notified all the Navy and the Army personnel called me, asking me that their families were settled in place. "I quickly discovered that my husband Luo Bo Ye is safe. I try to make a doctor who didn't know how to live and die; I tried to comfort those who were killed. The person who is injured is not a few. "I have been lying in the bed to answer all the calls. Then I sat in bed to listen to the phone. Finally, I am very excited, I have forgotten my weakness, let go of bed to sit next to the table. When helping those who have more bad, I have forgotten myself. I didn't go back to bed in addition to normal eight hours of sleep every day. I now know that if the Japanese did not bombing the pearl port, I might be a half-disabled person. "Pearl Harbor incident is the biggest tragedy in the history of American history, but it is the best thing I have encountered. The terrible crisis makes me power, and that power is I can't dream. It makes me only pay attention to myself, and I will pay attention to others. This gives me some very important and indispensable things, those things become my life. I no longer have time. I miss myself, or I only worry about myself. "Those who go to the psychological analysis home, as long as the Magaret Ye Cix is doing, there will be one-third of people can Cure yourself - as long as they are willing to help others. Famous psychologist Carl Rong said: "In my patient, about one-thirds are not really sick, but because of their lives, there is no meaning and emptiness." In other words, they just want to take others. The car spent a lifetime - but the fleet of the parade would not stay, so they went to find a psychological analyst, talking about their little, meaningless and useless. I can't drive on the ship, I have to stand on the dock, blame this, but I don't blame themselves, but also ask the world to be centered on their own desire. Maybe we will say, "We feel that these stories don't mean. We also greeted one orphans who saw in Christmas night. If we are in Pearl Port, I will be willing to do Margaret Ye Cixi. Do something. But our situation is different, we have a general life of the average person, doing a boring work for a day, never have any dramatic things. How can I help others? And why? What should be like this? What is the benefit of this? "Carnegie replied that no matter how ordinary in your situation, you will encounter some people every day, what about you? Are you just looking for them? Still try to understand their lives? For example, a postman, he will take a few hundred miles a year, send the letter to your door, but have you worried about how he lived? Or look at the photos of his wife and his children? Have you ever asked his feet not acid? His work will not make him feel very annoying? Or the child who is shipped in the grocery store, the person selling the newspaper, the person who is shining on the corner of the street. These people are people - they have their own troubles, their dreams and personal ambitions, they are eager to have a chance to share with other people, but have you given this opportunity? Have you exposed a share of their lives streams? You don't have to do Nantutah, or a social reform can help improve this world. You can start from the beginning of tomorrow, from those you encounter.
What benefits do you have? This will bring you bigger happiness, more satisfaction and your own heart. Aristotle said this attitude is "good for people's selfishness". The ancient Boske's ancestors said: "Don't be a responsibility for others, but a happiness, because this can add your own health and happiness." Henry Lin, the head of the New York Psychology Center Henry Lin Kak said: "The most important discovery in modern psychology is to prove scientific procedures: must have self-sacrifice or constraints to achieve self-understanding and happiness." Carnegie believes that more people think, not only make you no longer Worry, can help you make a lot of friends and get a lot of fun. How can I do this? Professor William Leng Fair Cell, Yale University, said: "Every time I go to the hotel, haircut shop or shop, I will always say some people who have encountered people I have encountered; that is, they do Is a person, not a small part in a large machine. Sometimes I can comply with a ladie in the store, saying her eyes are very beautiful - or her hair is beautiful. I will ask I am a teacher, so that I will stand all day long? How can I do this? How long does it take? How long is it? How much is it? I found that when you are interested in others, you can make They are very happy. I often shake hands with the waiter who helped me to move my luggage, so that he feels very happy, can play a spiritual work all day long. In a particularly hot summer, I walked into the New Sea Wenbubu Road to have lunch, The crowded car is almost like a madhouse, the service is very slow, wait until the waiter finally gave me the menu, I said: 'Those who have fun in the kitchen in the back, I must have suffer. 'The waiter began to rush, his voice was full of resentment. At first, I thought he was angry. He said loudly,' It is not good to eat it here, and we have a big slow, complaining that it is too Hot, the price is too high, I have been listening to it. It has been 19 years. You are the first, and the only one who has sympathy with the cook, I really want God to make a few more guests like you. ' "The reason why this waiter is surprised, because I put the black cookies as a person, not just a small screw inside a large railway. The average person wants, "Professor Ferdown continued," "Only others will treat them. Every time I see the owner who took the dog in the street, I always praise the dog very beautiful, then I will continue to go forward, go back, usually, I will see that person takes the dog with hand. like. My praise makes him also like his dog. "Carnegie pointed out that if you want to eliminate worries, cultivate peace and happiness, please remember this rule:" To forget yourself for others, you can make a good smile on others. "Lockefeller is full of attention to his goal, according to his friends. According to his friends:" In addition to the good news on business, there is no matter to laugh at him. When he made a business, when he made a lot of money, he would happily fell the hat to the ground, and the pain quickly jumped quickly. But if it fails, then he will fall. "Just when his career reaches the peak - wealth is like the golden porch of Wei Siwei volcano, the source is in the vault - his private world has collapsed. Many books and articles publicly condemnate Oil Company "The Implied Measures Getprint - The secret rebate between the railway company, ruthlessly overwhelmed any competitors. In Pennsylvania, the most hated local people is Rockfeller. Competitors who defeated him, put him The portrait hangs on the tree. Letters filled with gunpowder, like snowflakes, threaten to take his life.
He hired many bodyguards to prevent enemies from killing. He tried to ignore these hatred anger, once he said in a satirical tone: "If you kick me, you, I still act in my own way." But I finally found that I am also mortal, I can't stand people. His hatred, can't stand the erosion of anxiety. His body is not working. The disease launched an attack from the inside, so that he did not work, and doubtful. At first, "he tried to take a secret to himself." However, insomnia, indigestion, hair loss - body troubles and mental collapse, can't hide. Finally, his doctor told him the tribute to him. He has only two options: wealth and worries - or life. They warn him: I have to make a choice between retirement and death. He chose to retire. But before retirement, worry, greed, fear has completely destroyed his health. The most famous biography of the American Biographic female is frightened when he saw him, she wrote: "His face shows the terrible old age, I have never seen any people like him." The doctors began to save the Lockefeller's life, they made three rules for him - this is the three rules that he is completely pursued for life. 1. Avoid trouble. In any case, you will never worry about anything. 2, relax. Multiple exercise in the outdoors. 3, pay attention to dieting. Keep a half-hungry state at any time. Rockefeller complies with these three rules and saved his life. After retirement, he studied golf, organizing the courtyard, chatting with neighbors, playing cards, singing, etc. But he also also doing something else. Winkel said: "In the night of the pain and insomnia, Rockefeller finally had time to reflect." He began to think about others, he once stopped thinking about how much money he can earn, and start thinking about the money How many human happiness is. In short, Lockefeller has begun to consider donating millions of money. Sometimes, it is not easy to do things. When he dedicated to a church, the missionaries across the country sent an opposition to the roar: "Corruption money!" But he continued to donate, when a college, a college, a college, is forced to close because of the right of mortgage, immediately Expand aid, donate millions of dollars to assist the college, build it into the world's famous Chicago University. He also tries to help black people. Xiangskyji Black University, requiring fund to complete the black educator Washington, Coke, to donate huge money without hesitation. He also helped to eliminate duodenum. When the famous duoden coli, Dr. Stepto, "as long as the drug value of the five-corner of money can be cured for this disease - but who will donate this five-corner?" Rockfeller donated millions of millions The US dollar eliminates the duodenal insects, and the United States has almost in the United States. Then he takes further action. Founded a huge international foundation - Rockefeller Foundation - dedicated to eliminating diseases, illiteracy and ignorance of all over the world. This feat of the Quick Philler Foundation is never seen in history. Lockefeller knows that there are many people around the world to carry out many meaningful activities. But these superb work often declared due to lack of funds. He decided to help the pioneers of these humanits - not "receiving them", but give them some money to help them complete their work. Today, you should thank John D. Rockefeller, because under his money, discovery of Pani West, and other new drugs. He made your child no longer died due to "spinal meumitis"; he made us overcome malaria, tuberculosis, epidemic cold, diphtheria and other diseases still harmful in the world. After Rockefeller donated money, did you have a peace of mind? He finally finally felt satisfied. Rockefeller is very happy. He has completely changed, and it is completely no longer worried. Introduction, everyone knows that Miss Types of Type, her story is really intriguing.
This evening, Ellis returned to home, it was exhausted. Headache, back pain, tired, don't eat, I want to go to bed. Her mother will mobilize it, only to sit in front of the table. At this moment, the phone bell rang. It is her boyfriend, and she goes out to dance. Her eyes suddenly looked up, and the spirit suddenly excited. She rushed to the floor, replaced the sky-blue dress, and a windshield rose out of the house. She has been jumping to half night, but she will not feel tired, but even excited to sleep. It's a incredible: I am so exhausted eight hours ago; after eight hours, it is true that she is really fatigue? Yes it is. But this is not because of work tired, but because of the trouble of work. In our middle like Miss Alice, I really don't know more than a few million. But I don't know if you are also one? Miss Ellisi tells us that the impact of psychological factors is often more prone to fatigue than physical labor. When a person feels bored, his body's blood pressure and oxidation will decrease, and once he is interested in things, his new metabolism will immediately speed up. At this time, he felt excited, not fatigue. The fact is like this. Recent Carnegie in the Canadian Vishan Louisi West Lake, caught a few days of salmon. It is necessary to pass through the grove that is higher than the people, cross the seven-stroned branches, climb a lot of old trees that fall down, but not feel tired at all. why? Because fishing is my interest. If you feel that fishing is a troublesome, he is afraid that it will be exhausted in order to rush on the altitude of seven thousand feet above. A few years ago, Hanan Huohua also made a meaningful job became very interesting, so that he had changed his life. His work did not mean that it was washed in high school welfare community, wiped counter, selling ice cream, and other boys were playing the ball or with a girl. I can imagine that he doesn't like this job, but it can't do it. So, he uses this opportunity to study how ice cream is made, and there are some chemical compositions. As a result, he became a high school chemistry course. He is particularly interested in food chemistry, and later entered Massa obsessive state universities, specializing in food and nutrition. New York can reward a hundred dollars, hold the application papers in the application papers that can be used and chocolate, you guess who get the first award? It is good, it is Hanan Hohua. Later, he opened a private laboratory. The health authorities passed a new bill: the number of bacteria contained in the milk must be calculated, and Hank Huohua became this expert. Now, we have to estimate it, from now on, how will Hart Huohua will? Now people engaged in food chemistry experiments, maybe it may be retired at that time, and some may have "octave", a group of young people will be replaced with them, and Hankno Hohua may be the leader of this line. And the young man bought ice cream from his hand, maybe it's a mistress of China, there is no income! You probably heard about the name of the radio news analysis expert h · V. Karat? He has also experienced a process that has become interesting about the meaningless work. When you are young, Ka Tengbao is really poor, and the text is not named. It is difficult to find a difference between the three-dimensional observation mirror. Do you know this stereoscopic mirror? That is, two identical photos, through the two lenses of the observation, stacked a stereo photo. Ka Tengbao started to sell this stuff in Paris, I don't think it is. However, he became a very excellent sales expert. He told Ka Niki: "I only rely on it, it is determined to make it interesting.
